Conversational Tickling (Laughter Not Required)

[P50]

I have read several posts recently glorifying this or that video or some memory of theirs, based on the participants' near-violent respones and reactions.

Ooops, here goes my intolerance, but that does nothing for me.

In fact, I keenly remember a time and a girlfriend who would open up to me in both physical and psychological terms; she would deliberately lift either (or on occasion, both) of her arms just for our favorite purpose. If it wasn't the arms she would curl her feet within reach (she did this deliberately; it was a near-ceremonial part of our dating). If it wasn't that, she would wear a loose and open blouse which would allow me to enjoy her abdominal area; again, she would deliberately stretch herself out for my hands. We would usually be kissing each other; normally lightly, no wild passion or anything, and she wouldn't make a sound or would barely respond. It progressed to the point that we would just make quiet little sounds to assure that I was tickling her appropriately, and that she was enjoying it.

Me: <I>Hmmm? </I> Translation: Tickling Okay ?

Her: <I>Mmm Hmmm</I> Translation: Yes it tickles, very nice, thank you.

Me: <I>Mmm Hmmm ? </I> Translation: You like it ?

Her: <I>Mmm Hmmm</I> Translation: Yes, I like it.

Me: <I>Hmmmm Mmmm ? </I> Translation: Want more ?

Her: <I>Mmm Hmmm</I> Translation: Yes, I want you to please continue.

Some here would claim that doesn't even count (that's because they are <I>intolerant</I> heh heh). The two of us found it relaxing, comforting, highly romantic, and very enticing to and for both of us.

I personally find conversational tickling to be, well, beyond written description. The man tickles the woman, and they just talk with each other while it happens. There is no suffering on the part of anyone. There is no scheme or planning or trickery or deceit invloved. It's just nice honest tickling. I think it's among the best, if not <I>the best</I> way for a man to tickle a woman.

(I still can't believe I let her get away. Oh I'm so smart.)

 

[amk714]

Sounds good, P50!

Yes, I agree that tickling doesn't always have to be torturous. 🙂

 

[Sunday_10pm]

I know exactly what you’re saying. I had a girlfriend who loved nothing more than to be tickled on her legs and feet. She wasn’t very ticklish. In fact, a lot of the people here would have said she wasn’t ticklish at all. She would just put her legs up on my lap while reading a book or watching TV, and ask for a “tickle?” It didn’t make her laugh out loud, but she enjoyed the sensations of me just gently tickling her. I could elicit a vicious reaction from the undersides of her knees or her inner thighs, but she’d just get annoyed. It’s not that she didn’t like being tickled, but to be honest, I would find that annoying if I were her.
This is where a lot of people seem to be fairly detached. In short, the only way you can really enjoy tickling in a real life situation, is when the other person enjoys it too. For example: If I kept reaching for my girlfriend’s knees, and couldn’t keep my hands away. She wouldn’t want me to tickle her at all after a while – funs over.
And I do love nothing more than to see women laugh and squirm, but it is only occasionally, when both people are feeling particularly playful, that giving them about a year’s worth of tickling at once is appropriate. I’m not saying it’s wrong to fantasise, but unfortunately, there’s a lot more to a situation in reality than in your head. If you cant adapt to reality, then real tickling experiences are likely to be far more fleeting.

 

[primetime]

Sunday, i know someone like that too. not really ticklish, but loved it when i "tickled" her feet. i remember stroking her soles for like 2 hours and she loved it. she said it tickled, but not enough to be a "torturous" type thing. damn, i wish i knew where she was nowadays...

 

[Deleted member 2452]

sounds like 2 different things

one one hand women have been mentioned that found having their feet "tickled" was relaxing, and felt good. another mentioned tickling a girl who also found it enjoyable, and gave some laughter. in these cases the people involved were "sharing" the tickling. as was said, it wasn't torture, just girls, and their fellas making eachother feel good.
this is how i view tickling, or what tickling is to me. it's a sexy, erotic stimulation being shared by people who like it. the sensations, and sounds (laughter, moans, etc.) the looks on their faces, the body movments. all these elements combine to give a rush to all involved.
tickling is a gift, to be enjoyed, not subjected to.
steve

 

[Marauder]

Tickling is torture, to be inflicted on unwilling victims - in sexual fantasies of a small group of people.

Tickling is erotic foreplay, to be mutually enjoyed by both partners.

Tickling is harmless fun, no other than verbally teasing.

Tickling is something some people like and others don't.

Tickling is stimulation of the skin with the purpose to elicit laughter.

Tickling is... tickling.

Take your pick, enjoy yourself, be good to one another, take a deep breath and plant a tree.

Live long and prosper.

 

[ontheverge]

I fall into the class of women who are ticklish in a very low-key way, such as the women described here. My response to a soft touch on my feet (or wherever) generally elicits soft sighs and gentle giggles. The longer it goes on, the better.

I'm not a jerk-and-scream type. It doesn't fit with the pleasure I get from the act. Incidentally, I'd love to see more videos displaying reactions like mine, if anyone's listening.

 

[R. Davis]

Great post P50 !

 

[TickledToDeath]

There is no scheme or planning or trickery or deceit invloved.

Nothing wrong with a bit of scheming planning and trickery either~!😉 😀


TTD

 

[Krokus]

Tickling is torture, to be inflicted on unwilling victims - in sexual fantasies of a small group of people.

Tickling is erotic foreplay, to be mutually enjoyed by both partners.

Tickling is harmless fun, no other than verbally teasing.

Tickling is something some people like and others don't.

Tickling is stimulation of the skin with the purpose to elicit laughter.

Tickling is... tickling.

Take your pick, enjoy yourself, be good to one another, take a deep breath and plant a tree.

Live long and prosper.

That was the best post that I have ever read on this forum. Well....at least the take a breath and plant a tree part. 😀 😎

 

[P50]

Is This Type Of Tickling Less Popular ?

Conversational ticklers, the thread on non-consensual torture tickling is outracing this thread on quiet pleasant tickling by a factor of 3x or more.

I wonder if I'm reading more into that than exists.

 

[venray]

Take your pick, enjoy yourself, be good to one another, take a deep breath and plant a tree.

Live long and prosper.

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Ven

 

[Maria_Rose]

Sometimes I like this sort of gentle peaceful tickling even better than the intense stuff. I can be tickled to hysterics, but sometimes it is so damn nice just to be able to relax and expose all your most sensitive spots to someone who you know you can trust to be gentle on you. Beats the hell out of a massage 🙂

 

[ontheverge]

...but sometimes it is so damn nice just to be able to relax and expose all your most sensitive spots to someone who you know you can trust to be gentle on you. Beats the hell out of a massage 🙂

Agreed. When I'm asked "Do you like that?" or "Does that tickle?" I like to be able to respond, rather than have to scream.

To me, the best tickling is the kind that produces prodigious, widespread goosebumps. I say, bring it on.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Is This Type Of Tickling Less Popular ?

Quite the opposite I would imagine. Consider this:

The stronger, and more overwhelming a person’s feelings about tickling are, the more likely they are to find their way to this forum
We are statistically less likely to find our way here even if we feel as strongly as a "sado" because we dont feel the urge to experience pleasures that are out of our reach.
The people to whom the idea of tickling torture is so alluring may enjoy tickling on a more pleasant level in real life, but find it pointless discussing it on the boards.

Et cetera.. Effectively, the home of this type of tickling is in real-life, not the net.