I dont want to hijack the thread, but to the point Mairead made about Ms Mscready and her kids.
My mom was a pretty stable woman, kind, etc. However, as I've posted before, my father was very emotionally abusive to her. This was when I was young, and a teenager. She told me that on some of those nights, she would drive her car to the town train station, and want to drive in front of a train, but could never do it because of me.
Again, not to get personal. To the subject of Ms Mccready, while her death is a tradegy, what she did to herself and the effect it has on her kids, now, and going forward, also makes me angry.