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i8uslowly1
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Because most males focus on what they want to DO to their mates while most females focus on what they want DONE by their mates. Most being the key word.
I know that a cute girl is someone that just MUST be tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled....
I know that a cute girl is someone that just MUST be tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled and tickled....
I think most males are ticklers because they like seeing the reaction that their tickling causes. I think most women allow themselves to be tickled because of the gender roles theory that was refered to by Kalamos or that women are more stimulated sexually by tickling then men are.
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Kalamos
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-> John D. Schmidt
It'd be ground for an experiment. 😀
Are women more sexually stimulated by tickling than men are?
I'm not totally sure. As it seems, ticklishness is variable and it's sometimes a stress reaction. The more stressed, the more you are ticklish.
Not completely satisfactory an answer, but, this is what Dr Insabato pointed out in his studies on the matter.
[Dr Insabato, Psicopatologia del solletico - don't ask me about year or editor. Can't remember right now]
We don't know for sure if sexual stimulation is something we are born with and into, or if we can "educate" it so as to "gain" new way to reach pleasure.
Either way, we can't ban both social and physical reasons. Women might be more ticklish because they are physically and physiologically different - OR - they might be because society allowed/forced them to be so.
Of course we could also speak of "macho theories" and point out ticklishness is somehow perceived as "unmanly", so, despite feminism, sexual equality and modern culture, many men - even tk enthusiasts - might be shy about it.
After all, sexual pleasure without full act or anything strong enough [like strict bondage or blood spilling] might belittle some men.
Don't we forget we are the age that invented viagra... so, we aren't THAT modern after all. 😀 😀 😀
And we still should ask some women about how and what they feel! 🙂
Well, that's it. My verbose 2 eurocents!
Reg's!
It'd be ground for an experiment. 😀
Are women more sexually stimulated by tickling than men are?
I'm not totally sure. As it seems, ticklishness is variable and it's sometimes a stress reaction. The more stressed, the more you are ticklish.
Not completely satisfactory an answer, but, this is what Dr Insabato pointed out in his studies on the matter.
[Dr Insabato, Psicopatologia del solletico - don't ask me about year or editor. Can't remember right now]
We don't know for sure if sexual stimulation is something we are born with and into, or if we can "educate" it so as to "gain" new way to reach pleasure.
Either way, we can't ban both social and physical reasons. Women might be more ticklish because they are physically and physiologically different - OR - they might be because society allowed/forced them to be so.
Of course we could also speak of "macho theories" and point out ticklishness is somehow perceived as "unmanly", so, despite feminism, sexual equality and modern culture, many men - even tk enthusiasts - might be shy about it.
After all, sexual pleasure without full act or anything strong enough [like strict bondage or blood spilling] might belittle some men.
Don't we forget we are the age that invented viagra... so, we aren't THAT modern after all. 😀 😀 😀
And we still should ask some women about how and what they feel! 🙂
Well, that's it. My verbose 2 eurocents!
Reg's!
Maybe - and its not something I necessarily agree with, but maybe its because generally in society men are seen as the more dominant of the sexes and the female is under his control and in submission. A battle of strength too somewhere along the line I guess as well, although I'm female and for the majority a lee, but I'll give as good as I get and then some if the ler is ticklish too - lol
Kalamos
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I'd add that stating 'ler as a preference might put off some prospective partners.
Somehow a 'lee might look less "threatening", and in the battle of sex taking [a little] first might lead to giving [a lot] after.
It could be part and parcel of the game. A subtle strategy to lower the other's defence. 😀
For instance, many foot fetishist [on other forums/chat rooms/lifestyle] double as sub worshippers.
Some even go as far as submitting themselves to trampling, just to get hold on the feet.
As far as net relationships are concerned, there's more than meets the email. 😀 😀 😀
Reg's!
Somehow a 'lee might look less "threatening", and in the battle of sex taking [a little] first might lead to giving [a lot] after.
It could be part and parcel of the game. A subtle strategy to lower the other's defence. 😀
For instance, many foot fetishist [on other forums/chat rooms/lifestyle] double as sub worshippers.
Some even go as far as submitting themselves to trampling, just to get hold on the feet.
As far as net relationships are concerned, there's more than meets the email. 😀 😀 😀
Reg's!
