Definitely not my bag. But I can't help but play devils advocate. Isn't this what this forum is all about. Fantasy?
No, I don't believe it is. Unless you want to accept the fact that the average man's fantasy is to be allowed to fawn all over someone who doesn't really like him simply for the sheer pleasure of being allowed to do so, rather than to be told to fuck off - which is what is likely to happen if he were to try it in real life. I think that most guys who tell a pretty girl what he wants to do to her... actually want to be able to do those things to her. Some members are so desperate to get attention,
any attention, from a pretty girl, even if it's just a smiley emoticon and "ur sweet" - which costs her nothing whatsoever, since she doesn't have to actually deal with the inconvenience of him being there in person, that they'll fall all over anyone who trolls. You can see it all over the place; the endless, desperate cries of "me! me! notice me! notice ME!"
I don't think everyone on both ends is happy. I think the guys aren't happy, but they know better to complain - because if they do, the women and white knights will come out of the woodwork to slap them down hard and accuse them of being creepers and/or have entitlement issues. Or some of them are stupid enough to think/hope that if they tell the cute model who's paid to be here to shill her videos even though she really, REALLY loves tickling (truth!) that she may be so flattered that she'll let them do it. Or something.
I think, eventually, one of two things will happen; these guys will realize they're yelling into a void, and get tired of it, or they'll get angry that what they're doing never pays off. I honestly don't think any of them are simply happy to talk, endlessly, and never get what they're looking for.
Then again, I could be wrong. Maybe some people
aren't looking for anything more than jacking off to stories and comics. More power to them, if they are. But I'd bet dollars to donuts that it's a coping mechanism.
And don't get me started on the gender double-standard...
EDIT: Upon further reflection, I also thought of this. Almost, without fail, the people here attention-whoring are A) conventionally attractive, B) involved with someone, and C) often professional models. In other words, not the kind of people who need to come here for validation.