AphxA, you know *I* don't find anything silly or stupid about cyber. In fact you and I have engaged in a little playful cyber here and there ourselves in the chat room. It can be a great release and fun interaction between chatters.
Don't be discouraged by people who feel it's silly our pointless. To each their own, and as EQ pointed out, it takes a lot of imagination, wit, and proper typing to perform right. Some people who find it silly just simply do not have what it takes to pull it off in a way that would be rewarding, or they have embarked on it with others who did not have the skills needed to have a successful cyber.
You should probably try to avoid cyber at work, because if done well, it CAN be arousing, and that would leave you in a diffuclt position. I myself have had several highly arousing scenes in the chat room (mostly in pc, and with males equipped with an amazing imagination and good knowledge of tickling), but I always make sure I will not be interrupted when partaking in one. If you got aroused, you got lucky. It doesn't happen every time you cyber play. Just try to avoid good, serious scenes while at work.
And P.H.....The chatroom is my home, and I am HARDLY a "middle aged horny depraved male psycho-killer". You may be missing out on some very fulfilling conversations and good online friendships by avoiding the chat room. Believe it or not, the majority of the folks in the TMF chatroom are comepletely normal, and a hell of a lot of fun.
Mimi