cybertickling... well, I've kinda gotten into that lately.
I can't say how it works for everyone. For me, I generally find someone I'm interested in in the general chat room, then move to PC (private conversation). I'm pretty much strictly a tickler and definately heterosexual.
I find out what my friend's interests are (if I didn't already know from talking in the public chat room). Then I try to set mutually agreed-upon boundaries. Some people like to combine bondage fantasies, and/or sex with their tickling, and some don't. Some prefer tickling only on certain parts of their bodies, and not on others. Since I prefer tickling ladies' feet in stockings, I usually ask if they like that as well. Personally, I'm pretty versitile on all of these issues, so I'll go along with whatever the other person wants.
Then I create a fantasy scenario based on either their home or work environment, as I've come to understand it through our conversation up to this point. I like to make the scene as realistic as possible for the other person. For one thing, I like to make it easy for them to slip inside the fantasy and also, I enjoy the challenge.
After painting the general picture and setting the stage I type my actions and watch their replies. I've probably held a hundred cybertickling conversations and I've had one or two unsatisfactory conversations, but the rest ranged from really fun to outstanding!
Tell you what, look for me in the TMF chat room and bring your stockinged feet with you. We'll give it a shot! 😱