Dealing With a Supportive Girlfriend

[TickleMonkey1]

Hey gang! I've been coming to these forums for years, just haven't been a terribly active poster. Love it here, though.

I am blessed to have a girlfriend who I love and actually thinks my tickle-kink is cute and adorable, doesn't even mind my foot-focus. Yep, totally going to marry this chick.

Anyway, any advice on how to avoid burning out your loved one on tickling? Maybe some alternatives/methods to mix into the games that will keep things from getting old or annoying? How about some activities that will really play into the tickle fun? This is really my first girlfriend who even likes to be tickled, let alone thinks it's cute, so I'm just looking for any ideas.

Figure if I'm asking for help, might pay it forward a little in case some haven't had a chance to try this yet. She is incredibly sensitive, which is something I'm getting a lot of enjoyment out of. If anyone has never tried it, tickling a little bit after orgasm is something we're having a lot of fun with it. Give her a little bit of time to recover some, but if you catch her while she's still shaking, she'll go wild. My girl says it's a sensory overload to her, especially if I kiss and squeeze her all at the same time.

Yeah, like I said. Blessed. Thanks ahead of time for any good ideas!

 

[dalekfire]

Congratulations with the relationship, sir. 🙂 If she enjoys the tickling and thinks it's cute, then all the better for you, especially since it seems you two are integrating it with sex; having it on that level pretty much cinches the activity for good. Still, it may be wise/courteous to maybe do the "gentleman" thing and ask permission sometimes before attacking her, or maybe asking her of her opinion on your overall tickling in the relationship it from time to time - even though you may have done it before. It lets her know that you value her feelings toward it as well as love that she enjoys it, and on top of making her feel good/significant/loved, it also gives you "checks" on the tickling thing.

Also, if she likes the tickling and your affection/attention to her feet, then you'd best learn to give killer foot massages, and give them frequently. She'd love you to bits for that, and also helps "dilute" the tickling so it doesn't get too monotonous. Especially if she's up and moving a lot during the day, there's almost nothing that speaks more of devotion than the regular schedule of nightly foot massages. Foot worship may have the same effect, if she loves that too!

 

[juanmiller]

Awesome!

In addition to what Dalekfire said, I'd suggest asking her if *she* has any fantasies she'd like to explore, and be open to trying them.

 

[TickleMonkey1]

Yeah, I totally already figured that last one. I've made sure to let her know that if she wants anything at all, just tell me. I also make sure she always goes first 😉

Totally good with foot massages, too. She's told me a couple times that I have really strong hands.

Appreciate the feedback, guys!