General question for the forum. One that involves, not me, but a friend of mine.
Have any forum members had people they know, who know about their fetishes.. make fun of them.. for their fetishes, and not see the point of it?
Without trying to "Stir the drink" so to speak, I know that some on here have good naturedly teased me, about my alternative interest, of liking to see women barefoot on ladders.
Anyhow,.. to the point of my post..
As I've posted before, my friend Adam has the fetish of liking to see women's tongues. Women sticking their tongue out, making faces with the tongue, the "Raspberry noise". Etc.
He;s been very supportive and understanding about my fetish through the years, telling me when he sees his older sister's feet. His sister was one of the first women I remember ever sexually fantasizing about.
Anyhow.. Adam's friend Peter.. who Adam knows for decades.. supposedly made fun of Adam this weekend, for Adam's fetish about women's tongues, and liking to see the "raspberry noise". I was angry when I heard this.. because.. it seems completely wrong to make fun of a person because they have a fetish.
Granted.. only two real life friends., Adam, and my friend Barney, as well as my ex best friend. know about my fetish. I don't plan to ever tell any other male or platonic female friends about any of my fetishes.. for fear of the reaction. If and when I meet a girl.. I know I would have to tell her. While I know one has to be respectful of another person not wanting to engage in their fetish, and maybe not wanting to be tickled.,. or have their feet played with. I can almost guarantee that if I met a girl who refused to let me play with her feet, or ever tickle her, I couldn't see myself staying with that girl. It would seem with that, that the girl would have no respect or feelings for what I need whatsoever. The only "interest" I could really see giving up, is the one about a girl standing barefoot on a ladder. If I met someone who was agreeable to be tickled.. and having her feet played with, at least sometimes, but was truly afraid of heights.. or really didn't want to stand barefoot on a ladder, I think I could live with that.
Anyhow.. to the point of the post.. Do any forum members have friends who make fun of you.. or tell you to give up your fetishes? I would be very interested to hear experiences. Thanks.
Have any forum members had people they know, who know about their fetishes.. make fun of them.. for their fetishes, and not see the point of it?
Without trying to "Stir the drink" so to speak, I know that some on here have good naturedly teased me, about my alternative interest, of liking to see women barefoot on ladders.
Anyhow,.. to the point of my post..
As I've posted before, my friend Adam has the fetish of liking to see women's tongues. Women sticking their tongue out, making faces with the tongue, the "Raspberry noise". Etc.
He;s been very supportive and understanding about my fetish through the years, telling me when he sees his older sister's feet. His sister was one of the first women I remember ever sexually fantasizing about.
Anyhow.. Adam's friend Peter.. who Adam knows for decades.. supposedly made fun of Adam this weekend, for Adam's fetish about women's tongues, and liking to see the "raspberry noise". I was angry when I heard this.. because.. it seems completely wrong to make fun of a person because they have a fetish.
Granted.. only two real life friends., Adam, and my friend Barney, as well as my ex best friend. know about my fetish. I don't plan to ever tell any other male or platonic female friends about any of my fetishes.. for fear of the reaction. If and when I meet a girl.. I know I would have to tell her. While I know one has to be respectful of another person not wanting to engage in their fetish, and maybe not wanting to be tickled.,. or have their feet played with. I can almost guarantee that if I met a girl who refused to let me play with her feet, or ever tickle her, I couldn't see myself staying with that girl. It would seem with that, that the girl would have no respect or feelings for what I need whatsoever. The only "interest" I could really see giving up, is the one about a girl standing barefoot on a ladder. If I met someone who was agreeable to be tickled.. and having her feet played with, at least sometimes, but was truly afraid of heights.. or really didn't want to stand barefoot on a ladder, I think I could live with that.
Anyhow.. to the point of the post.. Do any forum members have friends who make fun of you.. or tell you to give up your fetishes? I would be very interested to hear experiences. Thanks.
