Do professional ticklers break tough lees

[MindOverWhatMatters]

I’ve been tied and tickled before, and I love it. I’ve never laughed, but I love the intimacy of light tickles, and I love being submissive to someone I trust.

I have never been tickled by a “professional” tickler before.

Curious to know if the experience is that different.

For example, if you’re tied down, could just about anyone tickle you? Or is getting tickled by a pro truly that much different?

Would love to hear anyone’s perspective and experience with the two styles.

 

[4Pawz]

I don’t know that I’m the right person to answer this, but I will give it a go.

It’s a yes and no answer. A ler’s level of experience most definitely impacts the session. But, so does the lee’s experience level. However, I don’t know that I could differentiate between a person who has a ton of sessions because of their love of it, compared to a person who does it as their career/work.

I’ve been lucky enough to play with a lot of Lers. There has to be a good rapport and they have to mesh well with styles (both Ler and Lee, because Lees do have a style and type too) for the maximum experience. For me, it also doesn’t matter if I’m tied or pinned, both are extremely effective.

I’m the kind of Lee that’s going to giggle, almost guaranteed. The sensation is different with each Ler. And so far, those with the most experience have had the most impact, with one exception, and I won’t out that person. I don’t enjoy playing with a Ler that’s just going after a safe word. That’s not fun for me.

With all that said, I’ve only tapped out once, and that was with a pro. Would I again? I don’t know. That was one of my first sessions. But I am guessing, it would come very close if it didn’t happen. I like to challenge my limits, so I don’t give up easily.

Hopefully, that answers your question, or at least gives you one perspective.

 

[MindOverWhatMatters]

I don’t know that I’m the right person to answer this, but I will give it a go.

It’s a yes and no answer. A ler’s level of experience most definitely impacts the session. But, so does the lee’s experience level. However, I don’t know that I could differentiate between a person who has a ton of sessions because of their love of it, compared to a person who does it as their career/work.

I’ve been lucky enough to play with a lot of Lers. There has to be a good rapport and they have to mesh well with styles (both Ler and Lee, because Lees do have a style and type too) for the maximum experience. For me, it also doesn’t matter if I’m tied or pinned, both are extremely effective.

I’m the kind of Lee that’s going to giggle, almost guaranteed. The sensation is different with each Ler. And so far, those with the most experience have had the most impact, with one exception, and I won’t out that person. I don’t enjoy playing with a Ler that’s just going after a safe word. That’s not fun for me.

With all that said, I’ve only tapped out once, and that was with a pro. Would I again? I don’t know. That was one of my first sessions. But I am guessing, it would come very close if it didn’t happen. I like to challenge my limits, so I don’t give up easily.

Hopefully, that answers your question, or at least gives you one perspective.

Thanks for sharing. In your experience, was there anything in particular that the pro ler did to make you tap? Just wondering what made that experience different.

I do wonder if a pro ler could make me laugh. I’d probably be too nervous to try if I’m honest. I also find tickling sexually appealing with my partner, so taking that element out might dull things entirely.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I've used a pro, and it just doesn't compare (in my experiences only) to playing with someone who loves tickling. Again, this is just based upon my experiences. I wouldn't mind experimenting with a pro again. I just know what I like, and nothing beats the genuine connections I have with friends when it comes to play. (Except being more than friends... Those sessions are unmatched, and the chemistry is OFF the charts) 💕 Sigh!

Still, this is not to discourage anyone from seeking out any session that you truly desire (paid or unpaid). I feel like they are both valuable experiences for their own reasons. I do wish there were more pro men m/f available though. 😁 Or just tickle lovers in my area at all. The tickle-desert is real in these parts. 😂

 

[mb7700!!]

I've used a pro, and it just doesn't compare (in my experiences only) to playing with someone who loves tickling. Again, this is just based upon my experiences. I wouldn't mind experimenting with a pro again. I just know what I like, and nothing beats the genuine connections I have with friends when it comes to play. (Except being more than friends... Those sessions are unmatched, and the chemistry is OFF the charts) 💕 Sigh!

Still, this is not to discourage anyone from seeking out any session that you truly desire (paid or unpaid). I feel like they are both valuable experiences for their own reasons. I do wish there were more pro men m/f available though. 😁 Or just tickle lovers in my area at all. The tickle-desert is real in these parts. 😂

Agreed. It's hard for me to imagine the chemistry being there with someone who is getting paid for a session.

P.S. I am not too far away from your desert.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Realized I never answered the question... The pros never come close to breaking me. It's always the lers that I know and adore who do that. Again... Those connections mean that those ticklers know my body. They know what I desire. They know exactly what to do AND what to say.

It's always fun for a ler to try, though... (Unless my mood is for something else)

 

[mb7700!!]

Realized I never answered the question... The pros never come close to breaking me. It's always the lers that I know and adore who do that. Again... Those connections mean that those ticklers know my body. They know what I desire. They know exactly what to do AND what to say.

It's always fun for a ler to try, though... (Unless my mood is for something else)

It's hard to imagine a pro spending all the time chatting with someone, getting to know them and learn about them before meeting for a session.

 

[4Pawz]

I've used a pro, and it just doesn't compare (in my experiences only) to playing with someone who loves tickling. Again, this is just based upon my experiences. I wouldn't mind experimenting with a pro again. I just know what I like, and nothing beats the genuine connections I have with friends when it comes to play. (Except being more than friends... Those sessions are unmatched, and the chemistry is OFF the charts) 💕 Sigh!

Still, this is not to discourage anyone from seeking out any session that you truly desire (paid or unpaid). I feel like they are both valuable experiences for their own reasons. I do wish there were more pro men m/f available though. 😁 Or just tickle lovers in my area at all. The tickle-desert is real in these parts. 😂

This is an important distinction. My experience with a pro wasn’t a transaction. They’re a good friend, or I wouldn’t do it at all.

I won’t ever dog on someone that hires a pro or does pro work for content. It’s great that it’s available. My location and, at that time, career has kept me from exploring that.

Connection is important for me in any play session. If I don’t have a rapport, I’m not doing it 🙂

 

[soletease]

I really like this question. Okay, so I’ve experienced both. I’ve had sessions with a professional ler and then some tickle enthusiast friends I would not consider pros. (Also including girlfriends and dating partner tickling in this group)

Professional: the setting was good. Nice room, padded bondage table with plenty of straps to secure the lee. Lots of different tickle tools.

I think what set my experience apart was the gear and setting the professional had. She also had a lot of tickle torture experience both giving and receiving, which aided in the tickling she dishes out.

She also insisted my feet be bare for all the tickling that was administered. I can’t even say what she did but nails, pinwheel, electric flosser and more nails assaulting my feet absolutely wrecked me. Sometimes one foot, sometimes both at once. Alternating between feet and pressures of nails caressing my soles made me lose my mind. And then it was only 63 seconds into an hour ordeal of being secured to the table.


With friends the set up is not as Elaborate. I would also say most friends don’t have the expertise or background to offer thorough tickling. HOWEVER, in my experience you can train a partner to be a good tickler. But I’ve never experienced such intense tickling as when I was with a professional tickle torture provider. The bondage was inescapable and all my weak spots were bare and exploited over an hour period, locked in bondage on a table.

 

[quinn65]

If by pro you mean professional tickler, and if by professional tickler you mean someone who has or deeply appreciates the fetish in addition to getting paid for it, then I'd say yeah, there's a learning curve. I think based on all the hours put in, I'd have a better chance of making a stranger laugh or breaking them than someone who hadn't tickled much. The more tickling you do, the more tricks and tells you learn.

I say stranger because I suspect that relationships trump experience. If a less experienced ler knows you intimately, or you have the hots for them, that might light you up more than a stranger's hours of practice.

Or I suppose it could be the opposite. The excitement of a stranger tickling you might actually give them an advantage.

All that rambling to land on "it depends." Guess that means it's a good question!

 

[pitayatickler]

If by pro you mean professional tickler, and if by professional tickler you mean someone who has or deeply appreciates the fetish in additionton to getting paid for it, then I'd say yeah, there's a learning curve. I think based on all the hours put in, I'd have a better chance of making a stranger laugh or breaking them than someone who hadn't tickled much. The more tickling you do, the more tricks and tells you learn.

I say stranger because I suspect that relationships trump experience. If a less experienced ler knows you intimately, or you have the hots for them, that might light you up more than a stranger's hours of practice.

Or I suppose it could be the opposite. The excitement of a stranger tickling you might actually give them an advantage.

All that rambling to land on "it depends." Guess that means it's a good question!

have you had any experience with lees who were ticklish but couldn't laugh?

 

[quinn65]

have you had any experience with lees who were ticklish but couldn't laugh?

I've had really ticklish lees who only screamed or... what's the word... wailed... lamented... growled... cried out... without really laughing.

 

[pitayatickler]

I've had really ticklish lees who only screamed or... what's the word... wailed... lamented... growled... cried out... without really laughing.

Interesting, how did that went out? I ask because my wife's reactions are just as you describe and I thought you may have a tip or two in order to induce her laugh.
Also, were those videos succesful? I mean where the lee was ticklish but didn't laugh.
I remember one of your clips where the girl was resisting with all her strenght until you broke her concentration by tickling her knees and she went bananas from that on. It was probably Natasha.
I even tries that plan out but she's not that ticklish on her knees

 

[FFT32]

Do professorial ticklers break tough lees?

I know this one does!

 

[quinn65]

Interesting, how did that went out? I ask because my wife's reactions are just as you describe and I thought you may have a tip or two in order to induce her laugh.
Also, were those videos succesful? I mean where the lee was ticklish but didn't laugh.
I remember one of your clips where the girl was resisting with all her strenght until you broke her concentration by tickling her knees and she went bananas from that on. It was probably Natasha.
I even tries that plan out but she's not that ticklish on her knees

It's been a long time since we shot the videos so I don't exactly recall, but yeah, if you can get them laughing with another tickle spot or even by something like cracking a joke, sometimes that works.

 

[HyenaHarry]

I've had really ticklish lees who only screamed or... what's the word... wailed... lamented... growled... cried out... without really laughing.

I soooo appreciate this input. A big part of the fun of this fetish, for me however, is witnessing the broad range of human reactions from being tickled.

Do I have a "favorite type of reaction"? Sure. I do favor loud communicative, laughter over screams, grunts or breath-holding (the scariest reaction I've witnessed personally). Like quinn mentions though, if you can get your lee to relax enough to ALLOW themselves to laugh..that's key.

Oh to answer your question: the best sessions in my life as a lee were with pros, who became friends, that I taught to tickle (or more fairly, they learned from repeat sessions how to "destroy" me lol). I mention friendship because some level of genuine mutual enjoyment for one another is key I think.

Still, just because they got paid doesn't diminish it for me. Get it however you live! If anything, those lers are incentivized.

As for personal sessions though...trying to turn a submissive play partner into a good tickler can be an almost insurmountable task 🤔
I've definitely met "non-pro" women who like to tickle but usually not to the focused degree that a pro would go (tickling you for an hour in bondage).