Do you any of you here have a Younger friend(s)?

[tummynavelboy]

I have this friend that i hung out with During high school with another one of his friends and my other best friend as well. and he still lives alittle ways away from my parents and me. But the thing is that he is in the 10th grade this year and im out of high school now already( as of last year). But my friend also is one thats real hyper and goofy (he was on hyper active pills he told me for awhile) so he is alittle bit Different lets say. and he also calls my house alot(since he has my number still) and my parents always tell me to tell him he can't come over and nor can i go over to his house. so im always telling him on the phone nope i can't go over and nope you can't come over etc.. plus my parents don't think my friend is trust worthy much. Plus also he can't take No for an answer at all. i mean my friend is alright at times. But then other times where he is just so annoying. i mean if my friend from high school was in the 12th grade or even the 11th grade and about 17+ then i would not mind hanging out with him and my parents would prob feel the same way as well. He also was adopted so i feel kinda bad! he never had many friends in high school expect for me and my other best friend and also his friend that he ran around with

But what should i do just never talk to my friend again and kind of shove him away or what? Are my parents right to some degree? we both Dont drive yet so we both gotta walk around town

any advice from some 20+ year old people would be appericated 🙂

 

[MistressValerie1]

It sounds like not so much a question of age but that this friend seems mentally unstable and is causing you problems.

The best thing would be if you can get him involved with other friends who have more in common with him, and try not to get dragged into his personal problems. I have been through this with an *older* friend who had mental problems, and it was difficult for all of us.

Best of luck,

 

[nessonite1]

I agree. You're obviously uncomfortable with keeping this person as a friend and that wouldn't be for no reason. Sounds like a rather high maintenance person. 😛
It's probably not the right answer but I'd be inclined to just avoid/ignore him until he got the picture. 😛

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Be honest. Tell him up front "Look, this is how I feel, and your gonna have to except it. So sit your hyper butt down and chill out, or we cant talk anymore". That's how I am. I let you know, I dont sugercoat it.

 

[tummynavelboy]

i don't know any other friends that he could hang out with he keeps telling me that No one really hangs out with him. He has one friend that he can hang out with but hes a senior now so it sounds like he has not really been around my friend that much yet during the school year as in years past. But he can't no for answer he keeps asking to bother this and that of mine and i keep telling him no. then once i do he'll say ok fine. But then the next day he'll ask again. and its the same way with wanting to come over to the house or me going over to his house for a few i keep saying no but he keeps asking. and plus his best friend (thats also in 10th grade this year) that he hung out with last year(when i was in school) i found out from my friend(Don't know how true this is mind you) but he said that his best friend that he has been friends with for awhile now before i even came along as of this year Raped alittle boy so now he has been in junvie since the start of the 10th grade year started. and his Best friend is like only 15 to 16 years old. so maybe thats why he is still hanging out with me even though im out of high school. Because he's mad that, that happend or he's lonely i dont know! i have no idea But its really only me as well since all my friends are gone away from school now also and gone off to college etc.... and even if i say you either chill out or Our FRIENDSHIP is over with i don't quite think that he would get it because of the way he is. He's not retarted he is just alittle bit unstable thats all. im just in a no win win sistuation here 😛

 

[alf1]

all right

Just answering the thread question : yes of course 🙂. The youngest has twenty four years ( a girl it is ). When i was much younger, mean 7/8 years old i always used to have more aged than me friends ( girls and boys ) it helps after in life LOL