Do your friends know?

[marzbarz]

Do any of your friends know you have a tickling fetish? Did you ever tickle them afterward? How do you go on with normally instigating a tickle fight with them without it being uncomfortable? I would like to hear some stories.

I want to tickle my best friend. I told her a while ago. I feel awkward about it, and she knows that. She wants me to be comfortable with talking to her about it, but I feel like I can't until I can be comfortable tickling her. I think it's doable. I just want to know how.

 

[Mash]

I have never told any of my friends, and I never, ever intend to.

As for your situation, there are a couple of variables that need to be identified. Does she know that it is specifically your fetish? If not, then she may not be aware of the sexual feelings (if there are any in your case) that come with said fetish. She may or may not be comfortable with it depending on if she knows that or not, and its probably prudent for you to find that out.
I'd start talking to her about it first. If it looks like she might be okay with it, then by all means be a little playful. However, I wouldn't push on it if she isn't. A fetish certainly isn't something to lose a friend over.

Sorry I can't really be more helpful, but the only people that know about my fetish are the people I've met on here, and I fully intend to keep it that way.

 

[JackVanderson]

None of my friends know, I have no intention of telling them either. The only one I want to tell this would be to a girlfriend that I've had for a long time, of course the first part in that would be to get a girlfriend lol xD

Just talk with your friend about it, let her know everything about your fetish, of course in small doses at a time, don't hit her with it all at once lol
But when you reveal more and more about the fetish, how it makes you feel when you tickle someone, what you want to do in terms of tickling her, ect just read her reactions, if she seems to be understanding and accepting of it go for it. Work it in with something silly if she's fine with it, any old excuse really lol

 

[marzbarz]

I have never told any of my friends, and I never, ever intend to.

As for your situation, there are a couple of variables that need to be identified. Does she know that it is specifically your fetish? If not, then she may not be aware of the sexual feelings (if there are any in your case) that come with said fetish. She may or may not be comfortable with it depending on if she knows that or not, and its probably prudent for you to find that out.
I'd start talking to her about it first. If it looks like she might be okay with it, then by all means be a little playful. However, I wouldn't push on it if she isn't. A fetish certainly isn't something to lose a friend over.

Sorry I can't really be more helpful, but the only people that know about my fetish are the people I've met on here, and I fully intend to keep it that way.

I told her I hate calling it a "fetish" lol. because every time it makes it seem like an obsession. She understands this. I told her it's not really sexual. I don't think about it ALL the time, but I just love it. She's been so gracious to me about it, and I totally agree with you. I just want to be careful.

 

[marzbarz]

None of my friends know, I have no intention of telling them either. The only one I want to tell this would be to a girlfriend that I've had for a long time, of course the first part in that would be to get a girlfriend lol xD

Just talk with your friend about it, let her know everything about your fetish, of course in small doses at a time, don't hit her with it all at once lol
But when you reveal more and more about the fetish, how it makes you feel when you tickle someone, what you want to do in terms of tickling her, ect just read her reactions, if she seems to be understanding and accepting of it go for it. Work it in with something silly if she's fine with it, any old excuse really lol

I tried tickling her a couple times. Just little pokes that just get me excited. The first time she said it was awkward. But she told me not to think about it too much. I still just feel so awkward about it. I want to get rid of that and just go for it, I just don't know how. :[

 

[JackVanderson]

I tried tickling her a couple times. Just little pokes that just get me excited. The first time she said it was awkward. But she told me not to think about it too much. I still just feel so awkward about it. I want to get rid of that and just go for it, I just don't know how. :[

Right but that first time where she said it was awkward, did you feel awkward while you were doing it? And does she know the extent of your fetish?

 

[LittleFeather1]

Yes, I did tell one close male friend one time. He wasn't my boyfriend, but he was the first person I ever opened up that side of me to, and he opened up that side of him in return. His fetishes were different than mine but we were both completely accepting of each other. Because I'm not a ler, in the situation between him and I, I was the one being tickled. We were sitting at the park together, I was a junior and he was a sophomore. He was sitting inside a tunnel on the playset and I was sitting on the step below him sort of between his legs, and I don't know how he did it, but he looped his arms through mine so I couldn't move and started slowly and softly tickling my sides and my tummy. It was a wonderful experience. For me, I would not tell a friend unless we were very close, and we had chemistry like he and I did.