does anyone else have this kind of situation??

[korn_ste]

I have had a strong foot fetish for quite along time now, tickling gradually grabbed hold of me, even though at first i wasn't to much into it, i guess the Internet introduced me to the sexual side of tickling (especially feet)

I have a mate who has been going out with this girl for about..... 5 years now, but before they got together when me and this girl were about 14 and 16 - i was very attracted to her, but because i was shy things never got any further than friends,
but now many years on i still like her very much - and suddenly my foot fetish is playing a huge part, if i go round his house and she is barefoot i cannot help myself but look and dream,
tickling her would be heaven and i'd do almost anything for that oppourtunity,
.....anywayz what i wanted to ask everyone was,
What do i do? if i carry on staring at her feet someone will eventually notice and ask what the hell i'm doing, or should i try to block out this obsession and tell my self to stop before i get caught, i i got caught then i would have some pretty damn terrible confessing to do.........
(how embarrassing)

I just want to know if anyone else has this problem or if someone has been in this situation and resolved the problem........

Cheers

 

[maverick83]

I've never had a problem like this before, and I don't have a foot fetish, so I'm not anywhere near a similar situation, but I try to give advice to others when I feel I'm able to. If you try to block out the obsession entirely, there is a good chance you will grow increasingly frustrated. Personally, if I were cornered about my "interest", I would explain it and remember that anyone I'd want as a friend will accept it. But that's not for everyone. If you're worried about someone noticing, block it out when there's a chance someone will see you, and use time when you're virtually guaranteed that no one will notice to appease your obsession and relieve any frustration that may have built up. Hope my advice was somewhat helpful.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

two schools of thought

one is that this girl, and your friend have a long standing relationship. you would be "poaching" to go near her with tickling on your mind.
the other is; if there isn't a ring on her finger, she's fair game.
you should go to her, tell her you've always cared for her, since back in your teens, but have been too damn she to let her know before now! tell her even the site of her feet makes your head spin. she'll most likely show you her feet, and thats your que to tickle her.
be honest about your feelings, the worst that can happen is she says no, i love whats-his-name.
good luck.
steve