Doesn't seem to be a whole lot of interest for a male.

[kalaxa]

I'm 22 and I live near Philadelphia. And have been trying to at least talk to someone for sometime now. I know there are people who have been here longer who haven't gotten a response either and I have to say that is rather disappointing. I know meeting someone over the internet can be a scary thing. I'm not looking to just rush out and meet someone after a few sentences of conversations. But I would like to at least talk to another girl about about the possibility of a tickle session. I don't know...maybe this isn't the right site. I am a ler and lee and am pretty ticklish my self. I'd love to talk even if you just have a passing interest.

 

[EmmaLee1206]

Well, heres my advice..take it as you will. Firstly, your absolutely right..males have a much harder time finding females willing to give them the time of day, let alone meet with them. Any girl on here could write a personal and get dozens of responses from guys who don't care anything about them but the fact that theyre on the tmf, theyre ticklish and want to be tickled. I haven't even put out a personal and I've gotten a ton of guys asking if I'd like to meet up, and Ive had a few negative comments from guys because Ive said no. *Im not trying to brag, Im just putting it in perspective*. I looked at your posts, and the only thing youve done on here is send out personals. While that is a great way to meet someone, when its the only thing you do, your not looked at as a desirable candidate. sorry if that sounds mean, but its true. When you just say "Hi, my name is blahblahblah from blahblahblah and I want to meet a x year old female from y who will let me tickle her silly!" you sound like someone who is just trying to get his rocks off by tickling a pretty much complete stranger. *This isnt specifically towards you it's to alot of the guys here*. Your in luck because youre from Philadelphia and it seems like a "hot spot" for tickling is the east coast *ny and pa especially*. Try replying to threads *not just personals, but actual active conversations* Act like you would at a social event. Would you walk into a bar and just shout "Hey! I'm trying to get laid! Hm..you'll do."? Make yourself interesting, fun and unique. Try talking to people you would want to talk to outside the tmf. Ask questions besides "Where are you ticklish." "How often are you tickled." and "Can I see a pic of your feet?". Im really not trying to sound mean Im only trying to help you and any other guy who might have this problem. Good luck!

 

[jonny86]

^What she said.

 

[vze2jrd4]

open yourself up to the idea of being tickled by a guy...i'm tired of the lack of younger m/m ticklees

 

[tiklir]

First of all, with women, you need to develop a relationship. Anyone that has replied to my ads has chatted with me for months if not years before I finally tickled them. Women and men for that matter in some circumstances need to feel safe. EmmaLee's response above is right on the mark. In my experience patience not aggression seems to work very well. Most but not all of my respondents are through e-mail and not TMF members. Even so, anyone I have tickled it has taken time for us to get to know each other. Also, not all of the experiences were enjoyable. Some really did not click, some pretended to be ticklish and were not , and so on. Others were just what was imagined and a great time. Give it time and patience, and above all at least with the ladies, be a gentleman.

 

[Goatboy]

Well, heres my advice..take it as you will. Firstly, your absolutely right..males have a much harder time finding females willing to give them the time of day, let alone meet with them. Any girl on here could write a personal and get dozens of responses from guys who don't care anything about them but the fact that theyre on the tmf, theyre ticklish and want to be tickled. I haven't even put out a personal and I've gotten a ton of guys asking if I'd like to meet up, and Ive had a few negative comments from guys because Ive said no. *Im not trying to brag, Im just putting it in perspective*. I looked at your posts, and the only thing youve done on here is send out personals. While that is a great way to meet someone, when its the only thing you do, your not looked at as a desirable candidate. sorry if that sounds mean, but its true. When you just say "Hi, my name is blahblahblah from blahblahblah and I want to meet a x year old female from y who will let me tickle her silly!" you sound like someone who is just trying to get his rocks off by tickling a pretty much complete stranger. *This isnt specifically towards you it's to alot of the guys here*. Your in luck because youre from Philadelphia and it seems like a "hot spot" for tickling is the east coast *ny and pa especially*. Try replying to threads *not just personals, but actual active conversations* Act like you would at a social event. Would you walk into a bar and just shout "Hey! I'm trying to get laid! Hm..you'll do."? Make yourself interesting, fun and unique. Try talking to people you would want to talk to outside the tmf. Ask questions besides "Where are you ticklish." "How often are you tickled." and "Can I see a pic of your feet?". Im really not trying to sound mean Im only trying to help you and any other guy who might have this problem. Good luck!

Can we get this like engraved on the homepage? Very well said!

 

[kevin_kidnapped]

I second Goatboy's motion. EmmaLee nails it perfectly. Again, not to be taken as criticism, but rather helpful, constructive, and accurate insight. Well said my dear....

 

[dvnc]

She really did synopsize things clearly. Well said.

 

[barefeetarebest]

She really did synopsize things clearly. Well said.

She really did. Shoot, even with sex, most people can take matters in their own hands. The thing with tickling, is it invariably takes two (or more)!! Such social butterflies we all are!

 

[guysmiley]

What EmmaLee said is exactly right. You need to get involved in the community, post your thoughts and insight so people can get a chance to know you. It takes time and patience to build any type of relationship. The best advice anyone can give you is to relax, get involved in the community here and let trust build over time.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[singleandlookin]

You are right. It was easier years ago before the days of the internet, to place a simple ad in the Village Voice personals, and meet a girl into tickling right away, without all the "let me get to know you on here" nonsense. You got to know the person because you met face to face, and you saw who you were talking to. I miss those days. On line personals are nothing but a joke. Seems no one is serious like they were in the days of the newspaper personal ad, when you did not know the person at all but you met for a drink and you chatted.

 

[barefeetarebest]

So who is ACTIVELY LOOKING for a TICKLE SESSION? With ME or the GIRL BELOW?

 

[Dave Pavet]

If you find a woman that likes Cheesesteaks you have got it made.

 

[nova11]

i don't say this often...but Emma fuckin' NAILED it.

😉

 

[TickleNTease]

Hi, Im new to this also & dont know anything abt this site... Im from Long Island, NY & would like to explore this fantasy of mine. I agree w/you though, you need to talk & get to know someone & be comfortable before exploring this. Samantha