nervous..
i've actually told a number of my ex's.... believe it or not, most of them thought it was very weird. the first 2 just thought it was weird and it was never mentioned again. 🙁 lol. then the 3rd one was ok about it, but again, not much ever really done. i would tickle her from time to time, but nothing of any significant value (i.e 2-5 seconds)
However, the current girl i'm with.. we were being very open and honest.. i actually love this girl and seriously see a future with this girl. i weighed up me being honest and tellin her the truth, with the amount of satisfaction it could provide versus the possibility of destroying the relationship or losing her altogether. we were laying in bed one saturday morning and she asked me what my turn ons were... it took me damn near 10 minutes just to tell her. in the end, i couldn't even say it, as the previous relationships felt like failures. eventually, i wrote it down on my mobile phone and she said she was completely fine. she said she had been introduced to the world of fetishes by a friend, who took her to london once and, the friend of my girlfriend, was in a food-naked kinda fetish. she said she was completely fine about it and infact, would let me do it there and then. i couldn't do it as i had taken such a major risk. she hugged me and thought i was brave for tellin her. she lets me tickle her regularly now as a result. she even says it turns her on, possibly because she knows it turns me on, or perhaps she even likes it. we don't know which, but i'm sure as hell not gonna question it!!! i feel so lucky i've found a girl who had this reaction and it has made our relationship a bit better, due to the honesty and additional thing we can do in the bedroom 🙂