Excuses

[tickle_fan031]

Ok I dunno whether this is the right place to post this here or not.....

Have any of you-those who keep your tickling fetish to yourself-ever had to come up with an excuse to friends or family as to why you are going somewhere where they know you don't know anybody there?

Or in other words,have any of you got any excuses that i could use to tell my family why I wana go somewhere whilst I'm on holiday which is 1.5 hours away even though I don't know anyone there??

Any suggestions welcome
Thanks in advance!

Not asking for much am I?!lol.

 

[TheChameleon]

My suggestion... tell them that you are going on a trip to "Find yourself"

 

[tickle_fan031]

My suggestion... tell them that you are going on a trip to "Find yourself"

Ooh that's a good one*makes notes* 😀

 

[Cbarton]

I would probably come up with the line that I'm going to a Continuing Education meeting (I have to get 15 hrs a year to keep my pharmacy license). May not work for you, but making it some job-related excuse is always an option

 

[laughingboy2000]

If they ask why, tell them "why not?" You just feel like doing it for the sake of doing it.

 

[MistressValerie1]

Actually, you should always tell a trusted person where you are going, whom you are seeing, and when you are expected to return. You don't have to go into detail, but you should tell someone that you're visiting online friends.

 

[F.L. Atlanta 10]

sound advice Mistress Valerie. My 2 cents = tell them that you want to meet new people and what Mistress Valerie said by letting them know where you are going and when you expect to return. Gotta be safe rather than sorry.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

I would say it's mostly about honesty and trust. Given that, if you're honest enough to tell them where you're going, when, with who and for how long, then you may as well just tell them about the fetish and the impulses it forces on you.

You may grow closer as a result and they will definitely trust you more thoroughly, since you were brave enough to tell them something really embarassing. They may even be able to help you and give you the support you need.

Besides, theres always the chance that by not telling them something horrible with happen, and you wouldn't want that. Aside from that, all lies catch up with a person sooner or later. It's a fact that the longer you maintain a lie the harder it becomes to confess the truth,the more complicated the lie becomes, the longer the lie lasts, and that you'll sometimes have to create new lies just to cover up the old ones. It's very unhealthy spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, and even physically. It's better to make good karma now, in my opinion, then to hide and possibly hurt people and yourself with your secrecy.

 

[TKLVR181]

Oh, I dunno, tell 'em you met this girl online and you'd really like to meet 'cuz you've got the same...intrests....*innocent face*

But seriously, gotta tell somebody where you'll be, I kno u have at least one friend who knows about said intrests😀 Anyway, I like the "find yourself" and "I feel like it" ideas, just say you've always wanted to visit, research on the place ur goin and say stuff like "Oh, I'd love to see..." 😀

 

[tickle_fan031]

😀 Cool thanks everyone who posted for your advice on this-tis much appreciated....to be honest I don't think at the moment I've got enough guts to go through with something like this.However this thread has been useful coz in the near future I'm hoping to treck out and meet some special friends 😉 so it's good to think of the different approaches I could take and then work out which one is the best.But one thing is for sure I would tell at least one person where I'm going-not the kinda person to be that risky.lol.

 

[F.L. Atlanta 10]

you're welcome

 

[He-Man22]

have any of you got any excuses that i could use to tell my family why I wana go somewhere whilst I'm on holiday which is 1.5 hours away even though I don't know anyone there??

Well, if some store in the other town has some product you want, and no stores in your town carry it, that'd be a good excuse, I guess.

Or, if your town is boring and has nothing to do, and the other town isn't as boring, there's another excuse (especially if the other town has some sort of event going on while you're on holiday).