No problem, and you're welcome. 🙂 Even after the time that has gone by, I'm still a bit passionate about this subject of making room for people to do their own thing even if theres not a whole lot of people who can contribute or want to contribute in the same way. If it's just a small group of people taking part in it, I say let them be, let them interact in this way, and let them have their space. People may scoff at that and say or think 'why can't they just use this as a fetish site, thats what it's for! If they want to share that stuff, they can go somewhere else to do it there are plenty of places!'. Well, my response to that is why can't we just be people who can share our interests with eachother? Why is there a need to act or think like a fetishist or draw attention to that? You either already are one or are not, so acting the part isn't necessary either nor is thinking with a one-track mind. Is there a certain way people with fetishes have to act anyways? It would be pretty stereotypical to imply there is, since they're normal people too and not always going on about feet and tickling.
Still others may say or think 'this is a fetish site! For every new forum we create thats not on topic we dilute the site and turn it into something it wasn't meant to be!'
I honestly feel that people who think like that are acting selfishly and are merely scared that if these forums are allowed that it will change the structure of the site, and make contributions here less desirable. These people are just being worry worts and may be more hardcore fetishists than anyone else here, since they see sites like this as a goldmine to prospected, not a community to be joined and take part in. They see any new forums that are not fetish related as vacuums to suck the gold away, and people who talk like me on this issue, as some sort of claim jumpers. LOL 😀 Funny how alot of these people also tend to be lurkers who only post or take part in a poll if it's to defend their horde, which sort of proves my point about them being selfish rather than community spirited.
Still, others may say 'these new forums are in our way! Now I can't get to my interests faster because I have to wade through this non fetish, non tickling material!'
Again, not true, because these would be subforums that would be contained to a forum they belong to. So you'd never see my art, for example, in the tickling art forum (unless it itself was tickling art). It would be in the non-tickling artwork forum (which is already the case), and even then it would be in a completely different forum. For it to be an inconvenience to anyone, you'd have to intentionally be going into these forums and deliberately looking at that material. And if you are doing this, why are you complaining? Its like going into a mall, getting lost on purpose, and then complaining about it. It's not like having the forums there redirects you to them. It's your option to completely bypass and ignore them. So this argument doesn't hold water, either.
So, the three main points that opponents would argue are easily countered with logic and understanding, making this solely a matter of how many people will contribute and want in on it, and there being a site owner wanting or willing to accomadate them.