please pay closer attention to the clip....for all of us that dislike the male presence in clips (I'll bet there are lots of us too) that is a GUY as the "er"....on that note, it would be so, so, so helpful if the posters would identify the gender of "ers" and "ees".....honestly don't mean to sound ungrateful...I think it's wonderful that you all take the time to post...it's just that it would be a HUGE timesaver for us and ultra considerate by those who do I.D. the "players". Thanks posters...you're great!!