Female "Lees": Is Tickling an Arousing Experience for you?

[06Alphaman]

I think my tickling interest started just before puberty. I always liked girls and had "girlfriends"...from kindergarten onwards. And like I said, I was tickling before puberty. Somehow, when puberty hit...tickling became connected with my sex-based interests. Tickling turned me on. But that was "weird"...so it was a secret fetish...and I had to be careful.

Over time though, it worked out for me. Some girls were into it. Not at a fetish level. But some felt it was fun to be tickled. And the ladies were like "He makes me laugh"...so I got a lot of good attention from my girlfriends and their girlfriends. And sometimes...that was a good entry to sexual relations. I'm not sure that any of the women that I have been with were sexually aroused by tickling. In my experience, it has been mostly a foreplay thing.

But since I am in this forum, I have the question for female lees: Are some of you sexually aroused by being tickled?

I have no clue. I would love to be attached to a woman who actually is so into it that it is part of what turns her on, sexually. This is not essential for me. Probably a fantasy. But it occurs to me that I don't even know what women in this forum...really experience with tickling. Is it just a fun thing? Is it a sexual thing? Both?

I'd just like to hear more about the female perspective on tickling. How do women, especially lees...experience that?

 

[chicago]

Why would a female search for, register, and interact on this website if it wasn't on some level arousing? I mean, I guess there could be the odd exception, but the majority?

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

I've seen posts on here and on Fetlife where women have said that they get turned on and can even orgasm just from being tickled, no genital contact.

 

[ticklishmrs]

I have found tickling has two premises, fun and arousal. Often when I'm tickled its just fun, but other times its more intimate and arousing. It can absolutely be a part of foreplay. From my experience, it is also arousing for men. My husband is easily aroused from tickling me.

 

[06Alphaman]

Why would a female search for, register, and interact on this website if it wasn't on some level arousing? I mean, I guess there could be the odd exception, but the majority?

LOL. Well. I don't claim to know, Chicago. But I try not to make assumptions when I am seeking knowledge and understanding.

I just had a recent experience where a lady that I am close to likes to be tickled, but it is not a fetish or an arousal thing. She says that she knows that I like it...and it is fun, so she is happy to have fun...even if it is not a particular turn on for her.

So...I asked the question in this forum...because I know that there are ladies who either enjoy being tickled or like being tickled...but I don't assume that it is an arousal or even sexual thing. Thus I asked.

I hope that was not offensive to you.

 

[06Alphaman]

I have found tickling has two premises, fun and arousal. Often when I'm tickled its just fun, but other times its more intimate and arousing. It can absolutely be a part of foreplay. From my experience, it is also arousing for men. My husband is easily aroused from tickling me.

I think that I am learning about that. This is good to know. Thanks for the response.

I get aroused through tickling. I actually pursue it and try to incorporate it in sexual activity. Not all the time. But it is a fun thing for me.

I have had a few female friends who pursue it too. I mean, they encourage me to tickle them and enjoy it. And are clearly aroused. But others are not aroused at all...LOL...some don't even enjoy tickling at all. So in my experience, it varies.

I like tickling for fun. And I like tickling for arousal. And life has been good so far.

 

[06Alphaman]

I've seen posts on here and on Fetlife where women have said that they get turned on and can even orgasm just from being tickled, no genital contact.

I hear you. Now for me...that scenario has always been a fantasy. I would love to meet a woman who can reach orgasm just by tickling with no genital contact. Knismo has a couple of tickling in the stocks videos with a couple of women...Tierra and Taryn...who climax just from tickling. Wow. I love that. But I have not experienced or witnessed that in person.

I have been with a few women who can climax with the combination of tickling and genital contact. That is fun too. For me, anyway...and for the few partners I have had who like it like that. In fact, here is a quick story.

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A few years ago, I met a person and sooner or later, I played with her by tickling her feet. Her feet are really ticklish. I made a thing between us, but we were just friends. One time though...she was flailing around...and her foot brushed against my erection. She was surprised. But intrigued. Before we knew it...she was giving me footjobs...one foot on me...the other in my hand while I was tickling her. She loved it. She said she had never met anyone who was turned on by tickling...and that it was fun for her. Even later on...she would start flirting with me by getting me to tickle her...and after a while...she will say something like "Okay, now I need you inside me". Man...I love that. Because I'm already turned on. But she gets pretty stoked by the tickling too. That is heaven for me.

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Another story. When I was about 21 years old...long ago. I was playfully tickling a young lady at work. Usually, women try to get away from the tickling. But this young lady actually grabbed me and held me in place. She was not trying to get away...she wanted to be tickled. In fact, after the first time...which was just a spontaneous flirtation...she would try to tease and goad me into tickling her. And...same thing...she would hold me into her while I was tickling. About the third time...she thrusted her hips up into me and felt my erection. She didn't care. In fact, she tried to grind into it. But...there were people around. I had to play it off and stop.

This was before I was fully knowledgeable and comfortable with my fetish. I didn't want to impose it on women because it was and is...unusual. I was kind of ashamed too. But with this lady...I feel that I missed an opportunity. I think she actually had a tickling fetish. But I didn't get it in the way that I do now.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Yes. The experience is I get really wet and want something sexual at the end.

 

[chicago]

LOL. Well. I don't claim to know, Chicago. But I try not to make assumptions when I am seeking knowledge and understanding.

I just had a recent experience where a lady that I am close to likes to be tickled, but it is not a fetish or an arousal thing. She says that she knows that I like it...and it is fun, so she is happy to have fun...even if it is not a particular turn on for her.

So...I asked the question in this forum...because I know that there are ladies who either enjoy being tickled or like being tickled...but I don't assume that it is an arousal or even sexual thing. Thus I asked.

I hope that was not offensive to you.

Yeah, I just gleaned from the context of this website and human nature in general that people tend to prefer spending their time doing what they enjoy, verses what they dont, if given a choice and since this website is sexual in nature.... im not sure I know anyone from here that found it on accident and decided to stay.
I would assume that people that sign up for a balloon fetish websites are probably there because they get turned on by balloons versus the thought that they just find decorating for parties fun...
Though I know for many here, tickling is a circumstantial thing where its not arousing in every single instance.

 

[FeatherEndeavor]

If you like women that climax from tickling you should go to James Darke's store (http://clips4sale.com/studio/5557) and put Dany Rogue in the keyword search. Even as skilled a tickler as James is she hardly ever laughs. She just moans, coos, and wiggles around while breathing harder and harder the longer it goes. I have her video called Sensually Ticklish (Dany Rogue) and it's amazing! Near the end he uses a hairbrush while she's wearing stockings. Sent her through the roof like it would anybody else but well....sent her through the roof in a different way. Came very close to a happy ending via hairbrush.

 

[Bohemianne]

Yes.

 

[Libertine]

But since I am in this forum, I have the question for female lees: Are some of you sexually aroused by being tickled? ...I would love to be attached to a woman who actually is so into it that it is part of what turns her on, sexually. ... Is it a sexual thing? Both? I'd just like to hear more about the female perspective on tickling. How do women, especially lees...experience that?

My wife says...http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...g-and-Orgasms-An-Elucidation&highlight=orgasm

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...t-Scientific-Analysis-Needed&highlight=orgasm

 

[amandahaze]

No, I don't get aroused at all, except for seeing (and feeling) the arousal my husband gets from tickling me. Actually it is uncomfortable for me when he really gets into tickling me seriously, sometimes to the point of feeling like torture. But I love him and I know it's important to him, so I endure it and he always makes me glad.

 

[Mane'o]

Most women are ticklish. Many of them enjoy tickle play with the right person. Some of them can get turned on by it. For instance, my wife is one who does and tickling is a regular part of our intimate life.
I think this is most commonly a problem when a guy into it projects his feelings and desires onto a woman who is not at all into it. This isn't just limited to tickling in the bedroom but any number of things which turn one person on and leaves the other person cold. Sexual incompatibility.
If tickling her arouses her is what floats your boat, stay with it, be patient, be honest with your romantic relationships, and you are likely to find that one who gives you that come hither look and whispers "tickle me" in your ear like my wife does with me.

 

[helplessandhappy]

It's the most arousing thing in life. And although I have less experience in the 'ler role, that is probably almost as arousing.

 

[06Alphaman]

I've seen posts on here and on Fetlife where women have said that they get turned on and can even orgasm just from being tickled, no genital contact.

Yes. I have heard that. I have not experienced that.

In my experience, some women get aroused by tickling and it is a turn on.
Also in my experience...some women get aroused by tickling with genital contact.
I have a friend who is not so into being tickled, but she loves to laugh...and she says that the fact that I am turned on by it...gets her into it. In fact, she will say..."I want you to tickle me" or "You know I love it when you tickle me".

I'm not Dr. Most Experienced with tickling actually...meaning I have probably only really tickled like 10 or 11 women in my lifetime in terms of my little fetish. And I have probably only talked to 5 or 6 of them about tickling. So I don't really know. That is why I asked.

Thanks for the response.

 

[06Alphaman]

Yep. That is what I have understood too.

I have a friend who likes the fact that I am aroused by tickling. So when we are together, she encourages me. She says that she likes to laugh, but that her life doesn't really cater to that. It is a sexual thing for me (but also just fun)...and it is not a sexual thing for her...except that she likes that it arouses me.

It is not her "thing". But now it leads to sex. I'm not exclusively into tickling...I like other stuff too. But when we get together she is like "You should tickle me." She won't let an interaction go by without me doing that. Which is hilarious because when we first knew each other...she was surprised by the idea that someone would be aroused by tickling. Now...she's not aroused by tickling...but she is aroused as I get aroused by tickling.

And you know? I can live with that.

 

[06Alphaman]

Yeah, I just gleaned from the context of this website and human nature in general that people tend to prefer spending their time doing what they enjoy, verses what they dont, if given a choice and since this website is sexual in nature.... im not sure I know anyone from here that found it on accident and decided to stay.
I would assume that people that sign up for a balloon fetish websites are probably there because they get turned on by balloons versus the thought that they just find decorating for parties fun...
Though I know for many here, tickling is a circumstantial thing where its not arousing in every single instance.

Okay. So what do you think now?

Here is what I think. I can't prove it. But this is my perspective.

Lots of women are ticklish.
Some love it. Some like it. Some hate it. And some don't care about it one way or another.
A small percentage of women are really turned on by tickling (lees, lers, both).
A larger percentage of women find tickling to be fun, but not sexual or arousing.
Some of those women might enjoy tickling as foreplay, if their partner is into tickling.

And I'm not sure how this plays out for women who participate in this forum...so I asked.
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My ex wife hated being tickled. And I knew that before I married her. She would not let me tickle her. No problem. I didn't marry for tickling. LOL.

But...when I was going down on her, sometimes I would tickle her when she was already aroused. Soon enough...she either 1) knew what I was going to do or 2) directed me to tickle her. And she would climax hard. Sometimes so that she felt embarrassed or self conscious (for a little bit). But usually, I was not allowed to tickle her. It was like torture for her. Unless she was ready to cum. And I think (but don't know) that it was something between me and her.

We are divorced...I sort of doubt that she is getting tickled now. But I don't know. We were together for 20 years. I suspect the connection to tickling was mostly about me being into it...not her being into it. I do know that tickling only aroused her after she was already aroused. Tickling just kicked things up a few notches.

So I still don't "know"...but it seems like it is different for different women. Maybe even for the women in this forum.

As you have read a few responses, Chicago, what do you think now?

 

[bethaknee]

For me, it's definitely a turn on...it's rare that I don't orgasm from being tickled. That's why I prefer there to be some sort of chemistry with any play partners I might have.

 

[Kelli Lynn Sage]

It absolutely and completely depends on how it is done and how sensitive the person is and where. When the middle of my arch is tickled INCREDIBLY LIGHT it is a turn on... otherwise all tickling for me is torture... but its a love hate relationship sort of torture. I love how I feel at the end of being tickled.... but I hate it during the actual process lol

 

[Lea28]

Absolutely... tickle me and you have me! Once a guy begins stroking my foot, or sides, lower back, etc i want to kiss him, and that leads to more... always. I become so amped, and i begin to touch him in hot and tickly ways.... usually engaging lips, fingers and toes to excite him. It leads to incredible ticklefucking.... my ex and i used to spend all day sunday in and out of bed and shower... Just when he was spent, i would slide my nails down his legs to his feet, and wiggle my toes, as if he needed encouragement to tickle my feet 😉 Sunday, funday, TF day... I recommend it 😉 So, do some women find tickling arousing? Lol.

Lea

 

[chevyhs]

That was so sexy the way you described your Sundays. I wish I could find someone like you. I never found a partner who is a female lee. I hope I could. Tickling is fun and sensual and sexual just from the sensations. It meant to create a right bound between lovers. I would spend all day using my fingers to draw on my Ex's back and down her leg. She twitched and giggled but just enjoyed it because I enjoyed making her feel sensational

 

[OmahaTickler]

Mane'o is right. I've been on this forum since the beginning, and before that, various AOL and other chatrooms. There are several classes of females into tickling. Don't know much about the 'lers, but would suspect they get off on it the way male 'lers do. Of the lees, it comes down to:

1. Those who get turned on by it, but simply as foreplay before conventional sex
2. Those who orgasm from it
3. Those who get off on the "B & D" aspect, being helpless and "dominated," and so they're not turned on by the sensations as much as the "scene." (1, 2 and 3 can overlap of course)
4. Those who get off on it only because their significant other gets off on it, as haze said. All women are different, and some are intensely aroused when their partner's aroused, even though they may not be aroused by tickling itself.
5. Those like the one mentioned above, who say they think it's "fun" or they "enjoy laughing." Not sure what makes these women tick. My theory-pulled-from-my-ass is that they identify it with pleasant childhood experiences getting tickled by friends or relatives (innocently/not sexually).

Even though I said and agree that all women are different, there is one stereotype/generalization that seems to hold true for many or most: Women are not as visual/into body parts as men are. They tend to work on visceral feelings and who they're comfortable around and so they may view tickling as something that turns them on when the right person does it. I've heard this often from female 'lees.

 

[helplessandhappy]

Women are not as visual/into body parts as men are.

You clearly haven't seen my reaction to a man in uniform. 😈

 

[sparkybdj]

It absolutely and completely depends on how it is done and how sensitive the person is and where. When the middle of my arch is tickled INCREDIBLY LIGHT it is a turn on... otherwise all tickling for me is torture... but its a love hate relationship sort of torture. I love how I feel at the end of being tickled.... but I hate it during the actual process lol

Cyn says most tickling for her is arousing (good fer me huh, lol)


and wanted to comment on the vid....DANG!!!!!! thats awesome