Virginia seems to be a tough area. I'm a 31 year old male lee/ler and have never had much luck finding fellow ticklephiles (male or female) to chat with or meet. They have to be out there though, so I will keep trying diligently. PunKyGurl is one of the few I have ever seen post from the area. If anyone from the area wants to talk, drop me a line sometime (this screen name at yahoo).
Jay