For Those Who Have a Consistent Tickle Partner or Partners...

[Camel26]

I've been with my Ler for 5.5 years...while I have many friends (kinky and vanilla) who enjoy tickling me, my wife/ler is and has been the main Ler in my life for the entirety of our relationship.

Recently, as we have become more involved in the local BDSM community, we have allowed others to play with us. While it has been an eye opening and enjoyable experience, I have noticed that I react differently to every person that I play with. My Ler still gets the best/loudest/most visceral reaction from me as a Top...others, I tend to hold back in order to retain more control due to my own personal comfort/need to be in control...

Today, for example, I allowed a new friend in the community to top me for the first time, without my Ler present. (Don't worry, my wife knew all about it, and gave consent!) The new friend was a magnificent top...and the whole experience was the stuff of "Exit to Eden" fantasies...yet, despite enjoying myself so thoroughly, I couldn't let go and laugh...yes, I was extremely nervous, and yes it was someone I wasn't used to...however, it tickled like hell, and I still couldn't laugh--regardless, the friend who topped me found the whole predicament quite pleasing, as she enjoyed my squirming/occasional giggles. I hope that we get to play again...it was glorious...

So, essentially, my questions are:

-To anyone who has a consistent partner, would you ever consider allowing someone else tickle you/let you tickle them?

-To anyone who has multiple tickling partners, do you find that you have different reactions as ler/lee depending on who you play with, or do you find that your reactions are more reflexive/consistent across the board?

Thank you all in advance...I've needed to tell someone about this all day, as I've been kinda on cloud 9...and it's cathartic to even be able to post a little bit about it here!!! THANK YOU!!! I was going to bust...😉 drool

 

[melanie2]

hey hon thanks for sharing this great experience with us..i cannot answer your questions however..hmm i did have a tickler a few years back who would never ever consent to my being tickled by others though..

 

[TKLVR181]

I have one consistant irl tickle partner, and that is my Senshi. He is the best ler on earth (no offense to all you other wonderful lers here 😉 ). Yes, oftentimes online I allow my other close friends to get me, but I find it not quite the same as well. Senshi knows all my most secret wishes, those things I couldn't even talk about on here---and he accepts me for them. My friends here and on MSN and other messengers know me, but not as well as Senshi---it's the closeness with Senshi that makes him the best ler on earth for me and it's that closeness that makes me able to completely let go for him. I have a feeling it's the same with your wifey 😉

~K

 

[Frost King]

I have one consistant irl tickle partner, and that is my Senshi. He is the best ler on earth (no offense to all you other wonderful lers here 😉 ). Yes, oftentimes online I allow my other close friends to get me, but I find it not quite the same as well. Senshi knows all my most secret wishes, those things I couldn't even talk about on here---and he accepts me for them. My friends here and on MSN and other messengers know me, but not as well as Senshi---it's the closeness with Senshi that makes him the best ler on earth for me and it's that closeness that makes me able to completely let go for him. I have a feeling it's the same with your wifey 😉

~K

thats how it is with my sister who is my ler and lee i mean we have a friend who i have talked about in my other thread that tickles me but me and my sister are close so we both know how to tickle one another and provide one another with pleasure i really haven't been tickled by many other female lers my sister is my main ler and lee

 

[Camel26]

Your sister provides you pleasure...? I'm confused...

 

[Frost King]

Tickle pleasure that is

 

[RedMan01]

huh?

 

[Camel26]

as long as it's not sexual for you...or her...cool...?
cry:blink🤔47:

 

[Wade1]

-To anyone who has multiple tickling partners, do you find that you have different reactions as ler/lee depending on who you play with, or do you find that your reactions are more reflexive/consistent across the board?

Because whenever I get tickled, even by my wife, it's rarely in an overtly sexual scene, that means that I have gotten tickled by multiple people--friends, coworkers, family, etc. Pretty much all women, but generally platonic as well. Which my wife is okay with. Indeed, when she's feeling wicked, she sometimes encourages it.

And it does feel different coming from different people. Some people are definitely "better" at tickling, or at least at tickling me the way I'm wired--something distinctive about the particular way their fingertips scamper across my skin sends my nerve endings into immediate and helpless retreat. Alas, I'm ticklish enough that even people who aren't that "good" at tickling me can still drive me into surrender mode.

And context does matter too, though for me it's perverse: if I'm in a place, like some work settings or public, where I really don't want to be seen succumbing to ticklishness, then the tickling undoes me even more. My reactions get all keyed up and I'm extra-helpless to withstand it.

It's also striking that my wife has become my singularly most devastating tickler. On one occasion her sister was attacking me and I was struggling to fend off her darting fingers. She called to my wife for help; I sensed my wife approaching behind me and knew I was gonna be doomed. Sure enough, she perched on the arm of the sofa behind me and started running her fingers casually--almost lazily--along my sides and it destroyed me; I curled into a defenseless heap and they were free to torture me until they felt like stopping. Why did the easy and offhanded touch of my wife's fingertips debilitate me so much more instantly and completely than her sister's did? Somehow the intimacy of the long-term relationship has given her an intuitive sense of exactly how to touch me (and where) to reduce me to hysterics. It's her superpower. Indeed, it's gotten especially worse since we got married, as though the ceremony bestowed on her some extra capacities.

 

[Snail Shell]

-To anyone who has a consistent partner, would you ever consider allowing someone else tickle you/let you tickle them?

-To anyone who has multiple tickling partners, do you find that you have different reactions as ler/lee depending on who you play with, or do you find that your reactions are more reflexive/consistent across the board?

Yes and yes.

Snail Shell

 

[TKLVR181]

Why did the easy and offhanded touch of my wife's fingertips debilitate me so much more instantly and completely than her sister's did? Somehow the intimacy of the long-term relationship has given her an intuitive sense of exactly how to touch me (and where) to reduce me to hysterics. It's her superpower. Indeed, it's gotten especially worse since we got married, as though the ceremony bestowed on her some extra capacities.

:wooha: You mean it gets worse after marriage??! Senshi can already undo me completely with a look and a poke..that's gonna get MORE POTENT??! O_O


:drool lol

~K

 

[Bratty]

I have many tickle partners and found that only one of them (ler will remain nameless) really knows how to make me laugh, beg, squirm, scream, etc.. the others could practice more (you know who you are) :stickout

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Me wife is technically my consistent 'lee, but she prefers to keep this sorta "kinky" stuff between the two of us.

1) No, I wouldn't let anyone else tickle her. Not because I'm a selfish bastard, but because of my wife's preferences. If it were up to me, I wouldn't mind. It'd be fun to see what others could do to her. But I wouldn't leave her alone with another Tickle Fetishist (Sorry guys) because... well, I know what we're like so I would like to supervise and make sure no harm comes to her. She's my wittle SchnuggieWuggums (hehe, a little pet name for her) so I wanna make sure she's enjoying herself. x]

 

[Camel26]

My wife can make me beg/scream/laugh hysterically...and the friend who tied me up last weekend, though it was a life-altering experience submitting to her, it wasn't as intense. It was the first time she tickled me, and she knew I was scared/nervous, so I think she held back. No one but my ler has been able to make me beg/plead/laugh out loud/go into silent laughter for YEARS...

The intimacy of our relationship, and the years of practice, have given my wife quite the advantage as a ler...yes, K--it DOES get more potent once married!!! Look out!!! 😛

That doesn't mean, however, that I won't allow my friend to try again...I think she might want to see if she can get a better reaction out of me! I say...BRING IT ON!!! 😛

 

[Bratty]

Mighty strong words, Camel...daring your friend to do a better job tickling you...be careful what you wish for, that's all I got to say b/c I told my partner before last that she could've done better and she forceably tied me back down to the bed and REALLY made me eat my words...

 

[Camel26]

sounds like quite an amazing experience. im happy for you but a bit jealous also🙂

It was an amazing experience...she and I have played again since...she is still holding back a bit, I think...either that, or I just need to come right out and tell her she can be more aggressive...

And anytime you find yourself near the east coast, you know it's GAME ON!!!! 😉

And Glamazon...BRING IT ON!!!! :stickout:stickout:stickout:stickout

I love instigation...it's beautiful...

 

[Kjiron]

You know Camel, I was afraid at first you were talking about me here, and I was about to get all up in your grill like, "Wut you mean can't make you laugh?!"

Upon closer inspection, however, I can confirm that I'm not female, and so not the individual in question. 😛

 

[Camel26]

Kijron--I would hope after our session earlier this week that you have no doubt regarding your capacities to completely destroy me...and vice versa...😉

 

[melanie2]

*sighs* i am tickleless..meaning no foreseeable tickle sessions in my future..*sobs*

 

[Camel26]

You have a perfectly willing and able tickle friend up north about an hour or so...😉 It would be an honor and privilege to play with you...let alone just get to meet you in person!!!

I'll tickle you until you admit that Pitt is the superior institution of higher education...😉

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

There you go Izzy,now you are not tickleless,unless you are scared to face Dr.Camel

 

[Frost King]

*sighs* i am tickleless..meaning no foreseeable tickle sessions in my future..*sobs*

Your not the only one izzy i feel the same way sadly.

 

[Kjiron]

Camel's not scary Izzy, I promise. She's adorable and wonderful. Now, me, on the other hand... 😛

 

[P[a]pi]

Kjiron, who's that in your signature pic? It's very nice.

 

[Camel26]

Papi--that's Kijron in his pic...and he's adorable...and incredibly ticklish...and WAY too much fun to destroy...

Anyone going to NEST will get to witness his demise at my hands in person...😉