FT/TK: How do you ask for a lap dance that satisfies your foot fetish?

[ktickler]

Hi there,

I have been munching about this one for a while.

I recently went to a bachelor's party for a friend at "On the border" in Wisconsin. As it is the policy in this state, there is no touchy touchy with the ladies who perform the exotic and/or private dances. However, they can do whatever they please to you. In summary, if they like you, they might make you see Heaven. If they do not like you, then you just wasted your $15. 🙂

I am not a big fan of gratuitous nudity; especially if I cannot tickle them or play with their feet. (I am part of that group of people who would prefer their tickling victims fully dressed except for bare feet.) Hence, I was just "funding" the entertainment of the bachelor. However, while I was stading in the back looking at my friend enjoying himself, a lady came by and asked me if I would like a private dance.

Somehow, I was blunt that night (for whatever reason) and responded:

"Sorry, I am a foot lover and you do not do that here."

Then she said,

"Well, what do you want to do?"

To what I responded very eloquently,

"Huh!? I don't know... What can you do?"

She then responded,

"You know... What we cannot do here, we can do it outside..."

This took me by surprise and my mind started running a million scenarios of all the many things that I could do with her. However, reality kicked in and the best that I could come up with was,

"Sorry, I am with people here. I cannot just leave them..."

Which was true, but a very dumb answer in her eyes. She smiled, gave me a kiss in the check, then looked at me with an expression like "Your loss", and walked away.

Although it would have been "interesting", to say the least, to go away with her and do "stuff", I can think of many different reasons why I should not. But that's another discussion.

My question to you enlightened people is:

Assuming that the dancer has agreed to let you touch her feet, what kind of lap dance can you come up with that would indulge your foot fetish? And as a derivation, your foot tickling obsession as well?

I tought of asking her to do a dance barefoot, but how the heck am I going to tickle her feet when she is rubbing her butt all over my chest? I cannot see any kind of movement that she can make that would allow me to reach her feet while she does whatever she wants to do and still look like a "normal" private dance.

Remember, touching the dancer is not allowed. So, whatever you two do (even if it is previously agreeded upon) has to look like a traditional dance. This place does not have a private closed room without a guard. Hence, there is always somebody looking. If she starts laughing her head off or if the dance looks suspicious, both you and the dancer could be in trouble.

I do not frequent places like this every week, it is usually during bachelor's parties. I just would like to know if it is possible to indulge your foot tickling fetish in any way.

Please provide any ideas or personal experiences you may have.

Thanks,

Knight Tickler

 

[The1Bill]

Well, it can get a bit expensive, but I have an idea. You cannot touch the models, but the models can touch each other. This has worked for me in the past. Best to get a private room, or some kind of VIP arrangement. Then enjoy watching them going nuts! They would probably stay very close to you so that you get a better, uh, sense, of what is going on.
Hope this helps,
-=B-=

 

[TicklingDuo]

Not knowing the rules that are in place...What popped into my head is to have her in your lap facing you rather than facing away from you. If she's wirey enough, she could have her feet around your neck, playing with your hair, in your face...whatever. (I've actually seen that in a movie somewhere.)

Bill's idea has possibilities too, though. If you have two of them involved, nobody could blame you for trying to catch one if she falls into your arms during the struggle! LOL

Ann

 

[ktickler]

Thank you!

Both suggestions sound certainly good. I will keep them in mind next time a friend of mine gets married.

Bye,

Knight Tickler

 

[tcrewme]

Something I did...

I was on a golf trip with 3 other guys in Myrtle Beach, and we went to some strip place, Crazy Horse I believe.

Anyway, on to the story...
I came upon the same situation, but instead of nah, I said heck yeah! What I had her do was pull up a chair across from me, and sit on her butt, feet out, doing her girations on the chair, while she had her feet touching my thighs and chest, and occasionally I got in a quick tickle.
Greatest $20(xhowever many times I had this done) I ever used.
I tickled about 3-4 of the girls this way.
Funny thing was that while the "dance" was going on and some other girls realized what was going on, they would come by and tickle the dancer that was in front of me.
Anyway foot err food for thought,
Just have them do their thing on a chair across from you.

😎

 

[UnclStevel]

"You know... What we cannot do here, we can do it outside..."

It sounds like she was offering a "private dance" where you could do whatever you liked. While dancers will only do mainstream stuff on stage, that's only an advertisement for private dances, where they make most of their money. They are always eager to please, and would probably be glad to have you play with their feet!

Cash is king!

Steve

 

[Oddjob0226]

In Dallas, you aren't supposed to touch either, but if you are paying, no one complains or speaks up as long as management or bouncers don't see......

I tickled a dancer's underarms repeartedly, once. On the other hand, I went to a club and just wanted to rub the woman's feet, no tickling. She told me that she wasn't allowed to take off her shoes. This wasn't some lame excuse... for whatever reason, this seems to be a common standard in the Dallas clubs.....

 

[ktickler]

Hmm, more great ideas...

Oddjob, the shoe thing is actually something that got me thinking. I asked two girls if they could do their dance barfoot, and they said they could not. That's the main reason why I did not push much for the dance.

Steve, yes, she was probably talking about a private dance. The question I had in my mind was "Where?". There are no private rooms in that building, so it must have been outside in some other location. That started to add a lot more money to the count than I was willing to spend. I guess I could go someday prepared for anything. Everyone has a price... 😉

tcrewme, although I understood the general idea, I cannot visualize how exactly you would have access to her feet while she dances in the chair in front of you. Are her feet on your lap all the time? Would you care to elaborate?

Thanks everyone for the feedback.

Bye,

Knight Tickler

 

[Dave2112]

Hmmmm....

The place I usually go to has private rooms for dances, and the dancers tell you they can be touched anywhere (except the genitals) "as long as you're nice."

I've tickled a lot of gorgeous women there, it's all a matter of how you slip it in to the experience. I've managed to do pretty much everything you can in a private booth, from tickling her feet to one time having a girl lay across my lap as I tickled all over her body. Maybe the "don't touch" rules are different in different places and/or states?

 

[NYCity]

The "don't touch" rule is often different from club to club, even ones a block away from each other. While the "official" rules often prohibit this, each place is different and I find that I can indulge my tickling needs at some places, not others.

Ask the girls, politely, see what they say. If they can't, try another place.

 

[Rasputin]

Yet Another Unbelievable Story From Rasputin!

There is a gentleman's club on the east side of Toledo, OH, that is Heaven for a foot fetishist! It's called Diamond's Gentlemen's Club, in Oregon OH. This is a nice place, where the women are hot, and $20 will almost get you as much as it would get you with a crack ***** (All apologies to crack addicts and *****s in the TMF).
I don't know if there are any "contact rules" there or not. My first time there, a dancer named Bailey gave me a private dance. She asked if it was my first time there, to which I replied "Yes". She said "Okay, you can touch me anywhere except my boobies and my hay-nannee-nannee" (Not an exact quote, but edited for content). Here's the great part...SHE STARTED TO TAKE OFF HER SHOES!!! I asked why she was taking off her shoes, not really minding one bit! She told me all the girls do because the heels played hell on the leather couches. She hopped on my lap facing me, straddling me, with her bare feet on either side of me. My hands immediately went to the feet. She wasn't ticklish, but volunteered that her girlfriend was very ticklish on her feet. I received private dances from two other girls. Once again, they both shed their shoes before the dance. And Trinity and Kat were both very ticklish on their feet, and I tickled them through the dance. And they weren't the slightest bit bashful about talking about tickling, or foot fetishes.
As a complimentary side note, they are not the slightest bit bashful about contact with your bits and pieces, if you get my drift. That's surprising to me. It seems like there is an inverse realtionship between the quality of the club, how hot the strippers are and how much they molest you. Usually it's the nasty toothless stripper who's lap dancing you to get some crank, in a strip club where you fear for your saftey, that's mucho touchy feely. But these women are hot and friendly.

My Fifteen Cents!

Rasputin

 

[tcrewme]

Let me clairify my point...😀
What I meant was, that the lady is basically just sitting in the chair across from you, facing you. Nothing really elaborate.
She is not standing on the chair...

 

[ktickler]

tcrewme,

Thanks for the clarification.

Rasputin,

Great story! I guess I will keep it in mind for the next time I go to OH. 😀

NYCity & Dave,

I do agree with the "no touchy" rule. I could see that the ladies pretty much decide what to do. The thing is that there was no private room, so people can see your dance if they want to. My question was mainly because I could not figure out how to get to tickle her feet if she is dancing with her shoes and in an "open" place. 🙂

Bye,

Knight Tickler

 

[ProfFate]

Hi,

I'm a new poster here and thought I'd throw in my take on this, for what it's worth. Primarily, I have a foot fetish but also enjoy tickling a girl, especially her feet ( Go figure ! ). I'm originally from the east coast and now live in the midwest. I've also travelled my share and am always on the lookout to try a new strip club to see if I can get any action, tickling and footwise. Although " the rules " may vary from place to place and dancer to dancer, definitely, the best thing to do is to find a club that has a private or semi-private area or room where the dancers do their private dances. For the most part, you're apt to get much more tickling and foot action than when the dancers are out in the open. I've been to a club out east that's not too far from where I'm originally from that has a small private room for the private dances. There, the dancers will dance in their bare feet if you ask them to. This has led to getting my hands on the feet of a few dancers when they get on top of you, with their knees on the seat on either side of you. I usually approach a dancer's feet by massaging her legs first and work my way down to her ankles and, ultimately, her feet. I always massage her feet first, so they don't get alarmed and a good foot massage usually makes them feel at ease and a bit more relaxed. Sometimes, a dancer will respond by commenting how good the massage feels. If she doesn't, you can always ask her if what you're doing feels good to her. Either way, if you get a positive response, ask her if she'd like a foot massage. More often than not, if she has let you touch her feet, she won't refuse. Most dancers can't believe that you want to give them a foot massage to begin with so they jump at the chance after being in high heeled shoes. Once her feet are in your lap, you can massage a bit more and then jokingly begin tickling her soles and toes to see if she reacts. I've found that most dancers at strip clubs take care of their feet pretty well and, as a result, keep their feet pretty soft so their skin is pretty sensitive. Through my experience, this usually means ticklish feet to varying degrees. And, once you're this far, it's usually not a problem to get into toe sucking, which can also be ticklish to her.

It does vary as to what strip clubs let you get away with but, through my experience, it's the clubs that have semi-private or private rooms that are the best. Anything out in the open is, pretty much, a waste of time. I know what you mean by Wisconsin having their dances out in the open. I've been to a few clubs there and all were of that variety. Around Chicago is not much better, because you usually have a bouncer lurking in and watching in a semi-private room. The ones I've been to in Ohio are like that as well, with maybe one or two exceptions which ended up being not too bad. I have my best luck at clubs in Indiana when it comes to the whole foot fetish/tickling thing. Everytime I've been out there, getting a dancer's feet in my lap for some foot fetish and tickling fun has never been a problem. Only once did I go private with a dancer there and she declined my advances on her feet because, ironically, her feet were way too ticklish. I didn't believe her and, even as I tried to only massage her socked feet as she sat in my lap, she was in hysterics, laughing and trying to pull her feet away because it tickled way too much. At that point, I didn't press the issue with her because I know it would've caused a scene with her laughing so much. Anyway, I hope this helps in the future.

 

[BigJim]

Once again the US beats the UK hands down for liberation! The only time I've ever been in a lapdancing club I waited till the girl was facing away from me and virtually sitting in my lap. I quickly tickled her ribs and she curled at the waist and started giggling. Two seconds later the bouncer was beside us and hauled me upright. It was at that point that he discovered I was 4 inches taller and thirty pounds heavier than him.......LOL

"Umm.....excuse me mate, but you're not supposed to touch the ladies."

I grinned and agreed and finished my dance. Later in the bar that girl said to ignore him because he "is such an old mardy-arse." LOL

Well, the girl might have been willing, but I don't fancy having a gang of bouncers leaping on my head for trying to sneak tickling into it.

ProfFate, I want your autograph dude!!!! How the hell hell did you manage all that?😀

 

[ProfFate]

Thanks for the compliment, Big Jim. I guess some of it is just part luck having dancers letting me get some foot/tickling action in private at strip clubs without blowing the whistle. But I think some it it has to do with the way each club is structured as far as how the private room(s) operate, how much privacy you have and, ultimately, how much you're allowed to do or get away with. Obviously, the more privacy, the better. You have to experiment a little and " get a feel " for a place and check the layout and see how it runs before going in full force for the tickle. Obviously, you're not going to get away with much if the dances are totally out in the open or if it's even in a seperate room with a gorilla ( a.k.a. bouncer ) overseeing things or looking over your shoulder. I've only found a few clubs here in the States where there's minimum interference. For every one of those more liberated clubs, there's 5 or 6 or more that are complete busts when it comes to getting any foot/tickling action. A little research is involved and it may involve spending a little money to get into a private room at a club just to see what goes on back there ( i.e. are there any bouncers, how far away from you and the dancers are the bouncers, are they constantly there or just look in once every few minutes as they make their rounds, how much privacy is there, etc., etc. ). Nothing may happen as far as tickling goes at most clubs but, hell, there are things much worse in life than having a semi-nude or nude girl gyrating on top of you ! I say just go out and try a few more clubs, do a little research, check and see how each place operates and have fun. I'm sure that, sooner or later, you'll find a club that will be a bit more liberal and then you can really have some fun ! 😎

 

[ktickler]

ProfFate,

I understand what you mean. I always considered that in order to find a good place you would have to do some research. The problem is that I do not frequent places like that. It is usually when someone gets married. Hence, I will have a very long and slow investigation process. 😀

Thanks,

Knight Tickler