Fun or torturous?

[DianaBanana88]

Do ya find tickling more towards being fun and exciting or just flat out torturous and evil? I tickled my friend for like 5 seconds and she spazzed out and straight up told me she hates being tickled because its torture lol. How do you feel about it? Fun or just plain mean?

 

[kaylafootgirl]

I guess it will depend who you are tickling with. It can be torturous if you want it to be.

 

[Coda]

I would probably take "exciting" and "torturous" as more accurate than "fun" or "evil."

 

[Maestro1874]

Exciting, erotic, teasing, fun...and occasionally torturous.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I love just about every aspect of tickling:
innocent
playful
erotic
torturous
EVIL/ EXTREME

I was worried that since I hadn't really tickled or been tickled by any guys except for my husband for about 7 years that I would have mixed feelings. There is always- ALWAYS a sexual tone when he tickles me- Even when it is pretty innocent.

But when I played at the event (Lee and Ler) it was just fun. Torture... but enjoyable. Even when he joined the guys. So... I worried for no reason. 😀

 

[rhiannon]

It's both. That's what a lee likes about it.

 

[gilmourwaters]

absolutely both!

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

fun fun fun.

playful, sexy...and fun.

is 'fun' an option?

 

[liontickler]

There is nothing better than real tickle torture, you should have tied you friend up and gave her the tickling of her life.

 

[TicklingTips]

I generally just find it fun! It has to be quite intense for quite a long period of time before I feel it becomes torturous. Even then, it doesn't necessarily mean I don't enjoy it.

 

[smokinj]

Its fun definitely for the tickler but can be torturous for the ticklee. There should be some balance though, I would not want a girl to hate me because I tickled her to the limit. Then again, its such a turn on when they are that ticklish. Playful is all I'm looking for not feelings of dread or unpleasantness. Believe me, once they stop laughing they can be pretty pissed off and hateful, as if you were whipping or beating them, then like whats the matter?? Not cool.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I always find it fun

 

[wesfey]

i think its both fun

 

[Jagermeistered]

I believe the lee has all the control in this area... If she wants the playful side, so be it. I want to keep an open mind as a ler. If she wants the extreme torture; I'll bring that too! 🙂

As long as the lee is enjoying herself, I'll jump on any side of the spectrum.

I also feel the same if I'm the lee.

 

[ticklishmikey]

Depends on who's doing the tickling

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Dianabanana can i tickle you and you can be the judge if it's fun or torture for you

 

[TicklingTips]

What about you, dianabanana?

 

[Ardent Tickler]

Both. Or maybe just torturous.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

straight out fun for me

 

[Marquis De Sade]

How do you feel about it? Fun or just plain mean?

Fun, sensual, seductive. Anything that makes a woman squirm how you want her to is delicious. But it depends on the 'lee and the setting and relationship. If she really thinks it's torture I wouldn't do it. And I can poke a friend in the ribs or whatev and have it mean nothing.

And, sometimes torture is fun. 😉

 

[stockytickler]

OK, there should be part of you that if it's being done properly wants to climb out of your skin. But if someone's just crying and complaining and not having any fun then it's like ... OK, fine, I'll stop, be a whiny bitca. Tickle torture is only fun so long as everyone's at least having some fun. 😉

 

[Smashley]

How about a combination of both 😉

 

[3xPIN]

All in the state of mind really. If you want or expect it to be fun and playful it will be; when you believe it to be torturous and harmful it is. If you like it than you like it. However the attitude you have towards the action, or even the person doing it, can completely influence the way you feel. But then again and the demeanor of the tickler can turn something playful and fun into something cruel and torturous.
The more important question is: Do you like it to be playful? Or do you prefer torturous? It seems in your friends case she simply did not like it at all. 'Torture' was her way of expressing her displeasure in the sensation. A bit hyperbole, perhaps, but it got the message across that she did not want you to continue.

As for a personal answer: I always find it to be playful and fun. I only find it torturous if I am in pain to begin with. But that is because I don't always like to be in control.

 

[stockytickler]

Tonight two men threatened to pack their husbears in the car, come to my place and put me through an eight-handed session. My reaction to this? 😀 Come and get me, boys! Yeah, it's gonna be intense and I'm gonna laugh my fool head off but torture? I'm approaching it as a huge amount of fun and serious hope one day it can come to pass. 🙂

If I survive I'll post something. 😉

 

[FreeHugsTickler]

I feel that's it all of those things

It can be torturous but in a sexy and erotic fun teasing slowly and lightly way ...
It's real sexy and cute and fun a playful thing ...

It's all things really, of course It depends on the Lee and Ler because everyone's different. But it's all clean and good fun all the way around for me anyways,if only Vanilla people would not have a harsh down look confutation towards it so often.