Hi Traveler,
Been to Max's NEST gathering before. It's the largest event on record for ticklephile gatherings. There's a good deal of us showing to that, and his attendance is over 50 people these days, and likely will get as high as there is space to host. Lots more folks on the eastern seaboard, and let's face it - Max is a cool guy.
Pressure? Nope. No one forces you to play (as 'ler or 'lee) and anyone "groping" anyone, for tickling or anything else, risks injury.
Picture a party. Instead of hangin' with work associates, old friends, college buddies or the like, though, everyone there is from here. There's precious few folks that deal with gatherings that don't deal with the TMF, after all. They're good folk, easy to talk to, and get along with, too. Made many friends at NEST last time. Glad I went.
Oh, we also played our favorite sport repeatedly. There are demonstrations, done by those of us feelin' bold, where you can see, live, actually ticklephiles tickling. Some will open this to "the room" while others are, like you, shy enough to want to be tickled by those they know.
Show, get to know folks, and play if you wish and are allowed. Meet the other 50-some people, minimum, that show. End up visitin' 'lees all over. I ain't pretty, and I had a bunch of friends from that, and played at MidWest NEST after that while visitin' my new pals, Bellarisa and Annaloo. Folks from NEST and MidWest NEST have joined my list and have visited me here in California, too.
All this, and you get verification that this isn't some sort of joke. There really ARE a few thousand ticklephiles online. A goodly number of 'em will get into NEST. If I'm lucky, I will, too. 😉 There's friends t'meet, and the possibility of tickling to view, right in front of you, with folks from here. If you make friends with a willing 'lee, better still. Gives the notion of gettin' lucky a whole new meanin'.
Y'hafta remember that I have gatherings once a month out here in California. I *STILL* like visitin' Max. There's somethin' to that, y'know?
Look for me when y'get there,
dvnc