Girlfriend Not Ticklish

[tarantus]

Hi guys,

I'm Erik I'm new here. Anyway I just wanted to say I really like the community and I'm looking forward to posting here.

I have a question - I recently "came out" to my GF of 6 months about my tickling fetish and she was cool with it, and we have tried to incorporate some tickling in our sex life, but she's just not really ticklish. I've tried tickling her in different places, with different things (feather, hairbrush) but she's just not ticklish. Also... she doesn't really take great care of her feet.

She's a cool girl but I see this could be a problem for us, any advice?:sad:

--Erik

 

[gilmourwaters]

well..she seems to be attempting to submit to tickling so she is interested. Try asking her to start getting pedicures..explain that the softer the feet the more ticklish she may become..at least in that area

 

[laughinggaszone]

You might look into methods for making your girlfriend's skin more sensitive. If you're into feet, it's easy enough. Good exfoliation of the soles will make them sensative for some time afterwards. If you don't feel up to it yourself, give her a full pedicure as a gift. It will be a nice gesture on your part and may get her to take better care of her feet. There are other ways. You can do some research.
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[andymac1]

Well, I have found that most women are extremely ticklish immediately after an orgasm. There's only one way to find out! lol

 

[meangry1]

All things considered...she did not slam the door on you because of your fetish and has tried to help satiate it in your play. She's doing the best she can. If she isn't exactly super ticklish, how about trying to find some common ground in other places? How about asking what she likes and seeing about that.

Because if it's a problem, then the reality is that you are the problem in that situation. Just find other things to enjoy, as a relationship based upon carnality only is doomed to fail.

 

[Meka1]

All things considered...she did not slam the door on you because of your fetish and has tried to help satiate it in your play. She's doing the best she can. If she isn't exactly super ticklish, how about trying to find some common ground in other places? How about asking what she likes and seeing about that.

Because if it's a problem, then the reality is that you are the problem in that situation. Just find other things to enjoy, as a relationship based upon carnality only is doomed to fail.

i agree with you 100%. You got lucky to have a girlfriend who wasn't disgusted or confused about you fetish she accpeted it and thats awsome, as far as her ticklishness goes there's really nothing you can do about that, i think that alot of people that like tickling tends to forget that everyone in the world isn't ticklish. So its no sense in fooling yourself and trying to make her ticklish.

If tickling is very important to you and plays a huge role in your life then i think you need to be with someone that likes it aswell. Or just cope with the fact that your girlfriend isn't that ticklish with not very attractive feet.

 

[Relent<]

you must take care of her feet! *^*
nurse them back to health; I'm sure they have potential. Try maybe soaking her feet to get them nice and soft, maybe a massage every now and again will get them good and sensitive. If not, there's one place all girls are ticklish 😉

 

[maniactickler38]

Dump her immediately!

 

[tarantus]

thanks everyone! I took your advice and I have bought her a pedicure at an upscale spa which she is having on Friday, so we will see. And all your comments have made me realise how lucky I am to have such an open minded girlfriend. thanks again!

 

[gilmourwaters]

don't give up if you don't see improvement after the pedicure...she might need afew to really get her feet soft

 

[babinsky1]

Hmmmm....
It depends on how important these things are to you. If your sex life
demands them then she's got 2 strikes against her..On the other hand, shes at least willing. That's 90 percent of the problem usually. I've lost some good women because they were too ticklish or too weirded out by the whole deal.

 

[Journia]

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Girlfriend Not ticklish!!
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World is Crumbling Before Eyes,
My Narow Mind knows not how to comprehend
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Can't Understand How this Happens
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Started This Thread Without Considering How loyal Other Half Is If She Tries To Help Me In My Interest
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Missed Again
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[tarantus]

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to update you all, my girl got a pedicure that I paid for on Friday and her feet look much better though they still need a bit of work, but I will not give up on her! She let me play with her feet infront of the TV and I have discovered a ticklish spot right under the big toe, which looks promising (hurrah!) ... although I do suspect she is faking it, how do you tell? And at least she's trying 🙂

 

[Relent<]

Congrats! Things are looking up for you at least. As far as faking, if it was a reaction to that particular spot, its very likely that its genuine. Try various implements; fine toothed combs, brushes,etc. She may be a little more resillient than most, but perhaps a firmer tool is the key here.

 

[Journia]

I wonder if I had any effect.

 

[revboy]

Hi guys,

I'm Erik I'm new here. Anyway I just wanted to say I really like the community and I'm looking forward to posting here.

I have a question - I recently "came out" to my GF of 6 months about my tickling fetish and she was cool with it, and we have tried to incorporate some tickling in our sex life, but she's just not really ticklish. I've tried tickling her in different places, with different things (feather, hairbrush) but she's just not ticklish. Also... she doesn't really take great care of her feet.

She's a cool girl but I see this could be a problem for us, any advice?:sad:

--Erik

hmm well i would be glad to just have a gf that is ok with your tickle fetish and i would just accept the relationship for what it is (but thats just me, you can do wat you want😉 )

 

[catapy_girl]

You know what I heard works? Tickle talk. If you're into that, it really makes a difference when you're tickling. I know because my boyfriend says, "tickle tickle" and I start busting a gut laughing when he tickles me.

 

[tarantus]

Hey guys thanks for all yr support and ideas, unfortunately we have broken up, apparently she is not ready to commit yet, I guess she is pretty young still. But I don't think it had anything to do with me wanting to tickle her... I think.

Oh well. Sometimes like sucks, but I'm sure there's more happiness to come.

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Ouch

sorry to hear

>_<