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The_Kev1

The_Kev1

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I contend that girls make better ticklers because, not only do they have very soft hands/fingers, but they have a light touch that I don’t think a guy can really duplicate, Any thoughts? agree? disagree?

-you guys rock da house!
 
I've never thought gender makes any difference. Some people are simply more skilled than others, in my opinion. Man or woman.
 
A guy can be just a sensitive as a female, if done right. My Ex has taught me well to be patient and not to go over board. A guy can also be as ticklish as a female. But something about a woman's laughter can be intoxication!
 
I agree. I think the perceived gentleness of women makes it all the more exhilarating to feel their ruthlessness! Also women are better teasers!
 
In my experiences, men tend to be too wussy to give me what I want. Girls get my vote.
 
My Thoughts.

While I think your observations are quite accurate... I think they're far too general and subjective. I have met some men with very soft hands- softer than my own. And I have met men with a very gentle touch. I think that you believe women are better ticklers because you have a tickle fetish and are straight. Thus, women + tickling = good.

I, however, like men. I do. I like them a lot. ^_^ So, for me, men are much better ticklers in many (but, not always all) ways.

I think the thought on women v.s. men in this subject is far too subjective to really be conclusive among the masses. We're just all biased. ^.^

Big Smiles,
-Lexie
:yellowsta :teehee: :yellowsta​
 
Alot of women who are masochists like to call men too pussy to go down too hard on them. Women don't seem to get that a man beating on a women, even if she wants it, is a double edged sword. Most of us have had the idea of being gentle to woemn ingrained into our heads--not only that, there are certain legal issues to be concerned about. Plus the fact one has to be careful generally because they really don't know how much a woman can take. For example, I have observed that certain women take whipping and hot wax way better than men do, but you start close fist punching them around the room, and they break down really fast--guys are the opposite--you can closed fist punch them around the room all you want, but you start torturing them with heat, whips and devices, and they tend to be able to stand it less.

Of course, it's a general observation, and not accurate to 100% in either direction, but it's what I've noticed.
 
And I've unfortunately noticed that most men can't actually understand the difference between punching someone out and indulging in erotic torture. To the point where many of them don't even feel like trying, even if it means actually pleasing their partner. More to the point of this thread, it points out that women simply tend to be more in tune to their partners and therefore capable of delivering something that's mutually enjoyable. They're not clouded by the stereotypical male mentality of believe they know exactly what everyone wants.
 
Bella Donna said:
And I've unfortunately noticed that most men can't actually understand the difference between punching someone out and indulging in erotic torture. To the point where many of them don't even feel like trying, even if it means actually pleasing their partner. More to the point of this thread, it points out that women simply tend to be more in tune to their partners and therefore capable of delivering something that's mutually enjoyable. They're not clouded by the stereotypical male mentality of believe they know exactly what everyone wants.
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Well of course we don't want to hit women. 3 reasons. 1. It's a trap. 2. we were taught not to hit women from childhood. 3. I don't want to go to jail.
 
Bella Donna said:
And I've unfortunately noticed that most men can't actually understand the difference between punching someone out and indulging in erotic torture. To the point where many of them don't even feel like trying, even if it means actually pleasing their partner. More to the point of this thread, it points out that women simply tend to be more in tune to their partners and therefore capable of delivering something that's mutually enjoyable. They're not clouded by the stereotypical male mentality of believe they know exactly what everyone wants.
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You seem to be really down on men, don't ya?

First things first: there is a different between punching someone out, and erotic torture. There is also a difference between erotic torture, and just plain torture in which someone might think it's erotic, but that fact alone borders on mental issues. (I had a friend who was with a woman once, who during sex with him, just started cutting his back with a razor. She didn't give him any warning about it, he just felt the pain. When he realized what was going on, he freaked out and hit her in the face--serves her right if you ask me.) There was another women I knew who used to want her skin rubbed raw with a cheese grater--all over. And she found a partner who was willing to do it to the point of serious skin issues. Is pleasure worth all that? I don't think so. There is a servere difference between pleasure and happiness, and the women who tend to get frustrated that a guy won't "give me what they want!" or go too far, are usually the women who don't know the difference between.

And it has nothing to do with men thinking they know what people want--more often than not, men can't even guess what a woman wants (she can't even guess what she wants half the time--at least the women in situations like this one) but it has to do with generations of being taught to respect a woman's body. Unfortonately, many fetishes people have that give them serious orgamsms also go into the realm of insanity in this way, because they can't be reconciled with respecting the body. (fuck, you give a mouse a choice between food and an orgasm and he'll starve to death--humans are no different.) for too many people sexual pleasure is the be all and end all--and the will do ANYTHING to get it. And some people, guys and girl, just aren't willing to do that to someone for orgams's sake--and again, when a generation preaches to you to treat women with resepct and you get yelled at, berated and punsihed for mistakes on all ends--and there are potential legal issues invovled (for example, say a woman wanted you to cut her for sex, then she got pissed at you and went to the cops saying you abused her...are they really going to believe she asked you for it? i doubt it)

men here get upset when women refuse to meet with them, without understanding the risk women take to do that--women really don't get the risk men take for abusing them--even in an erotic way.

I'll repeat--sexual pleasure isn't everything--usually men aren't the ones who understand that--apparently some women don't either.
 
FeatherFeet said:
You seem to be really down on men, don't ya?

First things first: there is a different between punching someone out, and erotic torture. There is also a difference between erotic torture, and just plain torture in which someone might think it's erotic, but that fact alone borders on mental issues. (I had a friend who was with a woman once, who during sex with him, just started cutting his back with a razor. She didn't give him any warning about it, he just felt the pain. When he realized what was going on, he freaked out and hit her in the face--serves her right if you ask me.) There was another women I knew who used to want her skin rubbed raw with a cheese grater--all over. And she found a partner who was willing to do it to the point of serious skin issues. Is pleasure worth all that? I don't think so. There is a servere difference between pleasure and happiness, and the women who tend to get frustrated that a guy won't "give me what they want!" or go too far, are usually the women who don't know the difference between.

And it has nothing to do with men thinking they know what people want--more often than not, men can't even guess what a woman wants (she can't even guess what she wants half the time--at least the women in situations like this one) but it has to do with generations of being taught to respect a woman's body. Unfortonately, many fetishes people have that give them serious orgamsms also go into the realm of insanity in this way, because they can't be reconciled with respecting the body. (fuck, you give a mouse a choice between food and an orgasm and he'll starve to death--humans are no different.) for too many people sexual pleasure is the be all and end all--and the will do ANYTHING to get it. And some people, guys and girl, just aren't willing to do that to someone for orgams's sake--and again, when a generation preaches to you to treat women with resepct and you get yelled at, berated and punsihed for mistakes on all ends--and there are potential legal issues invovled (for example, say a woman wanted you to cut her for sex, then she got pissed at you and went to the cops saying you abused her...are they really going to believe she asked you for it? i doubt it)

men here get upset when women refuse to meet with them, without understanding the risk women take to do that--women really don't get the risk men take for abusing them--even in an erotic way.

I'll repeat--sexual pleasure isn't everything--usually men aren't the ones who understand that--apparently some women don't either.
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(Gives a stadium full of clapping) *whistle Encore! Encore!
 
FeatherFeet said:
You seem to be really down on men, don't ya?

First things first: there is a different between punching someone out, and erotic torture. There is also a difference between erotic torture, and just plain torture in which someone might think it's erotic, but that fact alone borders on mental issues. (I had a friend who was with a woman once, who during sex with him, just started cutting his back with a razor. She didn't give him any warning about it, he just felt the pain. When he realized what was going on, he freaked out and hit her in the face--serves her right if you ask me.) There was another women I knew who used to want her skin rubbed raw with a cheese grater--all over. And she found a partner who was willing to do it to the point of serious skin issues. Is pleasure worth all that? I don't think so. There is a servere difference between pleasure and happiness, and the women who tend to get frustrated that a guy won't "give me what they want!" or go too far, are usually the women who don't know the difference between.

And it has nothing to do with men thinking they know what people want--more often than not, men can't even guess what a woman wants (she can't even guess what she wants half the time--at least the women in situations like this one) but it has to do with generations of being taught to respect a woman's body. Unfortonately, many fetishes people have that give them serious orgamsms also go into the realm of insanity in this way, because they can't be reconciled with respecting the body. (fuck, you give a mouse a choice between food and an orgasm and he'll starve to death--humans are no different.) for too many people sexual pleasure is the be all and end all--and the will do ANYTHING to get it. And some people, guys and girl, just aren't willing to do that to someone for orgams's sake--and again, when a generation preaches to you to treat women with resepct and you get yelled at, berated and punsihed for mistakes on all ends--and there are potential legal issues invovled (for example, say a woman wanted you to cut her for sex, then she got pissed at you and went to the cops saying you abused her...are they really going to believe she asked you for it? i doubt it)

men here get upset when women refuse to meet with them, without understanding the risk women take to do that--women really don't get the risk men take for abusing them--even in an erotic way.

I'll repeat--sexual pleasure isn't everything--usually men aren't the ones who understand that--apparently some women don't either.
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Let me ask you a question. Do you understand the difference between spanking someone and cutting them with a razor? I should certainly hope so. There's only one thing I can't understand in this conversation. And that's how you managed to twist my assertion that men aren't vicious enough ticklers for my taste into arguing against cutting your partner and punching them out. I think I have less of a problem with men than you have with me.

If I've had trouble finding men who're willing to tie me and tickle me, spank me when I want it, or just take me wildly in bed, then that's my issue. It is not for you to justify their actions or say that I'm just looking for something too intense. And I take exception to having my kinks and interests compared to cutting on someone without warning.
 
Bella Donna said:
Let me ask you a question. Do you understand the difference between spanking someone and cutting them with a razor? I should certainly hope so. There's only one thing I can't understand in this conversation. And that's how you managed to twist my assertion that men aren't vicious enough ticklers for my taste into arguing against cutting your partner and punching them out. I think I have less of a problem with men than you have with me.

If I've had trouble finding men who're willing to tie me and tickle me, spank me when I want it, or just take me wildly in bed, then that's my issue. It is not for you to justify their actions or say that I'm just looking for something too intense. And I take exception to having my kinks and interests compared to cutting on someone without warning.
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Notice how I never once directed any of what I said above at YOU. I was talking in the general hypothetical.

If you wanted to keep your issue with men private, you shouldn't have posted it on a public forum. When you call men pussies, you'd better believe someone's going to have something to say about it. (If someone had called a woman a pussy, there would have been a dozen posts rebuking it in the first five minutes.) I merely offered reasoning as to why guys might seem a little more reserved in this field than SOME women would like.

My ex girlfriend used to like to be throttled with one hand, and pleasured by being slammed into the wall with each thrust. (And she only weight about 125, so I could do this easily--and I did.) It was plenty rough, so it's not like I don't know anything about rough sex--I am pointing out though that I know the difference between rough, erotic, S+M and where the mental issues and not having priorities straight is--never once implied that you don't. Did imply that some women dont (same as some men don't) but the way you say it, if a man wants something to be done to him that isn't necessarily healthy but will give him a great orgasm--then a woman would be fine with doing it because she is sooo in tune cares about her partners needs (sexually) a guy might be a bit more reserved if a woman wanted something that might erouse her greatly, but be bad to her health.

It really has NOTHING to do with being in tune with a partner--it has to do with how far someone is willing to go for an orgasm. And in an age where men are the sleezebuckets who pick up women and dump them the next day--its kind of funny to see you argue that it is actually women who take this cake.
 
I'll start responding more in-depth to your arguments when you start pointing out exactly where I said men or women should do things that are unhealthy for their partner. Once again, I recall saying that I've seen partners refuse to do things that are intense enough, but you do seem caught up in some sort of healthy vs unhealthy debate that isn't actually present here.

And for your accusation that I'm saying women use men and then leave them... Pleeeease point that one out. I have got to read that.
 
Bella Donna said:
I'll start responding more in-depth to your arguments when you start pointing out exactly where I said men or women should do things that are unhealthy for their partner. Once again, I recall saying that I've seen partners refuse to do things that are intense enough, but you do seem caught up in some sort of healthy vs unhealthy debate that isn't actually present here.

And for your accusation that I'm saying women use men and then leave them... Pleeeease point that one out. I have got to read that.
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never said that--even tho women do do that in alot of cases--I'm saying that women, in your arguments seem to take the cake when it comes to be willing to do almost ANYTHING just to acheive pleasure--not recognizing the difference between pleasure and happiness.

men usually are willing to do the stupid shit for sex is what I'm saying.

And again, there are more important things in a relationship than just pure orgasmic pleasure--you can be with someone who handles your sexuality perfectly but if they don't make you happy, it won't work at all.

I'd say someone who makes you happy from the get go is way more importna tthan "being automatically in tune to my needs blah blah bullshit that so many women leave men for not being psychic about." you can work on the sex stuff...no way you can really work on the happiness.
 
FeatherFeet said:
never said that--even tho women do do that in alot of cases--I'm saying that women, in your arguments seem to take the cake when it comes to be willing to do almost ANYTHING just to acheive pleasure--not recognizing the difference between pleasure and happiness.
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Really?

FeatherFeet said:
And in an age where men are the sleezebuckets who pick up women and dump them the next day--its kind of funny to see you argue that it is actually women who take this cake.
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Bad wording on your part?

To sum things up, you really seem to be spreading this into a bizarre realm for a thread about which gender make for better lers. Guess what? This thread isn't about relationships. It isn't about kinky sex vs bodily harm. It's about who thinks which gender is, in general, better at tickling people. I'm sorry you took such offense to my experiences, but them's the internets.

I'm done. Giving this thread over to those that'll actually speak to the OP.
 
I believe in talking to ticklees whether they like it lighter or rougher. I can go both ways.

And I really believe it depends on individuals. Some people are great ticklers, while others suck.
 
The simple thing here, relating to the OP is questions like this are just dumb. There is no right answer when it comes to what is better--guys or girls. guys or girls will answer differently, it depends on your preference, it depends on the person and it depends on the situation.

and seeing 20 of these threads a day gets you a little sick of the topic, no offense intended.
 
I can only answer as when i'm a lee i only like to be tickled by a female but as a tickler you have to know how to please the lee how they want to be tickled they might want it to be intense tickle torture or they might want it to be soft or playful or teasing
 
nerrad said:
Whatever the question... the answer = women are better.
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this answer is the correct one....lol...

my fantasies have usually always involved female ticklers..many of them in fact..they know exactly how devastating a touch can be on certain female areas..
 
I'll say women, too. They have slinkier, sexier voices, and their fingers are more nimble with longer nails.

On the other hand, guys would be better at tickle-wrestling for the most part.
 
it's all very sujective realy, anything goes if both partners agree, but are we talking tickling for fun, sensual, sexual, straight/gay, straight/straight, or gay/gay.
all are different, sometimes the fairer sex are better somtimes the guys.
then theres the bondage fetish type situation.
i'am a ler, hate being tickled by guys, love being tickled by womwen (i should be so lucky) often wondered about tickling a guy. i like to tickle women very slowly and gently with stripping and gentle bondage along the way not always followed by orgasm sex or complete nudity. we are all different and should respect each others needs and tastes. interesting thread i wish i could start a good thread kindest regards meteor,
 
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