Have any of you Guys here actually talked to a girl in a chat room *besides this one* & actually becoming real good friends with the through email.. IM.. & what not & you actually talk about tickling with this gurl on a daily basis and shes cool with it. To me i find it hard to find girls like that online anyways. What about you have you Guys had any sucess?
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tommytickler
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i did about a year ago. but she started working really heavily. so we sometimes email each other and once we were at the same baseball game, and i saw pics of her and she told me what she would be wearing and she walked right by me! we've tried to meet up many times but it never worked. but now we are both involved in relationships but yeah online relationships are great but now i gotta try to stay away. i got a good girl right with me.
I met a girl on holiday about 3 years ago, we are still friends and we have E-mailed each other on a regular basis, we chat etc!!! and i even met up with her again about 4-5 months ago,
I havent told her of my tickling obsession - but one time i did ask if she was ticklish - she said "god yes extremely" and asked me why, and i said that when she comes to my house or i stay at hers, if i wanted to get information etc! from her then i would tickle her,
so I guess she really doesnt know - but i still can't wait for that day where i can use my interrogation tactic to tickle her,
maybe one day it will happen........
I havent told her of my tickling obsession - but one time i did ask if she was ticklish - she said "god yes extremely" and asked me why, and i said that when she comes to my house or i stay at hers, if i wanted to get information etc! from her then i would tickle her,
so I guess she really doesnt know - but i still can't wait for that day where i can use my interrogation tactic to tickle her,
maybe one day it will happen........
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I've met some very good female friens through our chatroom. I was talking with Jen, Mimi, Lite and others there long before I got to meet them in person.
You never know what can happen, so never give up on humanity's way of bringing itself together.😎
You never know what can happen, so never give up on humanity's way of bringing itself together.😎
indeed.
I've befriended and conversed with a number of female tickle enthusiasts from both here and other places on the 'net. Heck, in real life too. They're out there, hiding, you just have to know which rocks to turn over. hehe.
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I've befriended and conversed with a number of female tickle enthusiasts from both here and other places on the 'net. Heck, in real life too. They're out there, hiding, you just have to know which rocks to turn over. hehe.
😉
Yep. Through IM, mostly. Met many women, many of whom are still pals. One of whom is the woman I'll marry.
Mind ya, I ain't the type to try for cybersex, or send wannas. I wanted to know folks, and know what they thought, both in and out of this interest. Managed to find my lady love that way. Most all of them, I've met already. The few I haven't met, I'm still friendly with. I just don't IM as much, now.
How'd I meet 'em? Originally, I'd get an IM from someone about my gatherings, or about a post I'd done on USENET, in AMT, ASFT, etc., or I'd IM them for one o' the same reasons. Most, I struck up friendships that I *STILL* enjoy. Good folk. Oddly, I found women to be more receptive to conversation. Few guys wanted t'converse wit' another guy for long. Not surprisin' anymore. Sorta par for the course, y'know?
A good half of the folks that attended gatherings attended them BECAUSE they'd had the chance to talk to me, or another in our crew, usually in IM first.
Now, I don't get on as much. It's still easy to talk to folks, though, and I don't block strangers from conversation. I just ain't cold-callin' folks now. I barely have enough time to keep up wit' the ones I know!
Mind ya, I ain't the type to try for cybersex, or send wannas. I wanted to know folks, and know what they thought, both in and out of this interest. Managed to find my lady love that way. Most all of them, I've met already. The few I haven't met, I'm still friendly with. I just don't IM as much, now.
How'd I meet 'em? Originally, I'd get an IM from someone about my gatherings, or about a post I'd done on USENET, in AMT, ASFT, etc., or I'd IM them for one o' the same reasons. Most, I struck up friendships that I *STILL* enjoy. Good folk. Oddly, I found women to be more receptive to conversation. Few guys wanted t'converse wit' another guy for long. Not surprisin' anymore. Sorta par for the course, y'know?
A good half of the folks that attended gatherings attended them BECAUSE they'd had the chance to talk to me, or another in our crew, usually in IM first.
Now, I don't get on as much. It's still easy to talk to folks, though, and I don't block strangers from conversation. I just ain't cold-callin' folks now. I barely have enough time to keep up wit' the ones I know!
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P50
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DVNC,
Have you been studying my posts or something ?
I'm not really sure how to ask these questions, but I want to make sure that I'm reading you properly. And so...
Is this a definite decision with one (and only one) of the women ?
Does she already know about this ?
Has she agreed ?
By the way, good timing on your post. I would have almost missed it for a day or two.
Anyway, if we are on the same page, I have a lot of questions for you in the next few days.
Willing to read ? Willing to answer ?
Have you been studying my posts or something ?
I'm not really sure how to ask these questions, but I want to make sure that I'm reading you properly. And so...
Is this a definite decision with one (and only one) of the women ?
Does she already know about this ?
Has she agreed ?
By the way, good timing on your post. I would have almost missed it for a day or two.
Anyway, if we are on the same page, I have a lot of questions for you in the next few days.
Willing to read ? Willing to answer ?
LOL! Naw, I just spotted stuff that inspired me t'reply.
It is indeed an established choice with one, and only one, of the women in our community. She even knows I wish to marry her. Already agreed to it, even. Hasn't stopped me from askin' her every time we talk. I'm one o' the happiest ticklers on the planet, I figure. I know several others, though, that are both into this, and have gotten together since comin' online. Some met through gatherings, some through IM, some through AMT and subsequent phone calls.
Mind ya, I also know a few that had REALLY bad experiences. Didn't take safety precautions, and didn't have the same ideas about what was to happen, and were REALLY messed up from the abuse way they were treated. That's actually where a page or three from the BDSM community is useful, recommending safety/safe calls (where you have someone waitin' to hear from ya at a certain time, else they'll call to report you're missing 'cause you didn't call, and you SAID you would, for safety reasons), group meetings (bringin' a friend), public meetings (meeting at a Denny's, a public park, etc), safewords for play (never trust someone that won't honor a safeword), prior negotiation (so you don't find out she HATES foot fetishists AFTER you arrive, etc.), and the like.
Do feel free t'ask questions. Heck, mail me if y'like. Glad my timin' worked for ya! I ain't the only informed cat here, though. There ain't a mod amongst us that isn't informed in this manner, in one form or other, and there's dozens of folks in the forum that I know of that know well enough.
It is indeed an established choice with one, and only one, of the women in our community. She even knows I wish to marry her. Already agreed to it, even. Hasn't stopped me from askin' her every time we talk. I'm one o' the happiest ticklers on the planet, I figure. I know several others, though, that are both into this, and have gotten together since comin' online. Some met through gatherings, some through IM, some through AMT and subsequent phone calls.
Mind ya, I also know a few that had REALLY bad experiences. Didn't take safety precautions, and didn't have the same ideas about what was to happen, and were REALLY messed up from the abuse way they were treated. That's actually where a page or three from the BDSM community is useful, recommending safety/safe calls (where you have someone waitin' to hear from ya at a certain time, else they'll call to report you're missing 'cause you didn't call, and you SAID you would, for safety reasons), group meetings (bringin' a friend), public meetings (meeting at a Denny's, a public park, etc), safewords for play (never trust someone that won't honor a safeword), prior negotiation (so you don't find out she HATES foot fetishists AFTER you arrive, etc.), and the like.
Do feel free t'ask questions. Heck, mail me if y'like. Glad my timin' worked for ya! I ain't the only informed cat here, though. There ain't a mod amongst us that isn't informed in this manner, in one form or other, and there's dozens of folks in the forum that I know of that know well enough.
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P50
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DVNC
Whew !
Good to read.
I'm not insulting <I>you</I>, but have you ever met any of these guys who just up and make these unilateral decisions in their own mind and tell the world about it without ever asking the girl ? I swear it happens, and on the internet, well, how many golden nutzo's have you got in <I>your</I> files ? (Before I learned to avoid them, they were almost a weekly occurance.) I mean, I believe a guy should have a little self-confidence, but wow, these guys expect to take over a girl's brain just by wishing for it. Y'know ? Y'ever seen one ? Glad you're not among that crowd. Anyway, back to the real topic.
<B>DVNC</B> wrote...
<I>Mind ya, I also know a few that had REALLY bad experiences. </I>
I'm working on that. I'm thinking that the first date will be separate cars, probably in a downtown skyscraper (i.e., <B><I>real</I></B> public) for a five minute meeting or something. She can have a friend or two (with cellphones, I'll assume) roaming the area.
Duh, I wonder, should I also have <I>my</I> friend(s) (preferably a man-woman couple) also wandering around ? Why or why not ?
I figure several E-mails first (6-to-12 sounds good; what do you think ?) followed by at least two phone calls (again, 6-to-12 sounds better, what do you think ?) then the five-minute meeting downtown on the mezzanine of the something-tower building.
But then I wonder, should phone calls happen before, or after, the first meeting ?
There are good reasons for both tracks.
Oh yeah, forgot the obvious: <B>Hey Girls !</B> Your opinions on anything in this post or this thread are <I>welcome welcome welcome.</I> (How much can anyone learn from just talking to the boys ?)
Whew !
Good to read.
I'm not insulting <I>you</I>, but have you ever met any of these guys who just up and make these unilateral decisions in their own mind and tell the world about it without ever asking the girl ? I swear it happens, and on the internet, well, how many golden nutzo's have you got in <I>your</I> files ? (Before I learned to avoid them, they were almost a weekly occurance.) I mean, I believe a guy should have a little self-confidence, but wow, these guys expect to take over a girl's brain just by wishing for it. Y'know ? Y'ever seen one ? Glad you're not among that crowd. Anyway, back to the real topic.
<B>DVNC</B> wrote...
<I>Mind ya, I also know a few that had REALLY bad experiences. </I>
I'm working on that. I'm thinking that the first date will be separate cars, probably in a downtown skyscraper (i.e., <B><I>real</I></B> public) for a five minute meeting or something. She can have a friend or two (with cellphones, I'll assume) roaming the area.
Duh, I wonder, should I also have <I>my</I> friend(s) (preferably a man-woman couple) also wandering around ? Why or why not ?
I figure several E-mails first (6-to-12 sounds good; what do you think ?) followed by at least two phone calls (again, 6-to-12 sounds better, what do you think ?) then the five-minute meeting downtown on the mezzanine of the something-tower building.
But then I wonder, should phone calls happen before, or after, the first meeting ?
There are good reasons for both tracks.
Oh yeah, forgot the obvious: <B>Hey Girls !</B> Your opinions on anything in this post or this thread are <I>welcome welcome welcome.</I> (How much can anyone learn from just talking to the boys ?)
Thanks, P50. Glad to contribute.
Yeah, there are those sorts of guys. Oddly, there are a few of those sorts of gals. The world is a strange place. Easy enough to avoid, though.
Personally, before gatherings, my experience had been to exchange mails and IMs enough to feel I know the person, talk to 'em by phone, and arrange to meet in a restaurant during the day. No threats, then. I can have a friend or two near, or can arrange to call them an hour afterward and two hours afterward (the aforementioned safety call) to check in. Too easy to phone police if that fails, and every restaurant seems to have a pay phone.
I've met folks who've happened to get cell phone calls within the hour, and I always guess it's the same thing.
Gatherings solved a lot of that, 'cause I can have folks meet me and some of the rest of the crew in my area, munch style, and it's less awkward for 'em.
Gotta remember that "golden nutzos" line. There's a few I've punted from gatherings who fell into that line. Thankfully, there's so few that it didn't take much to weed 'em all. Odd how few women there were, compared to the number of men. Another nice thing about screened gatherings - flakes and nutcases don't tend to sign up, and thus don't show. Only the harmless ones get in. Weird, but no weirder than a nightclub or house party.
Good thread, snacks!
Yeah, there are those sorts of guys. Oddly, there are a few of those sorts of gals. The world is a strange place. Easy enough to avoid, though.
Personally, before gatherings, my experience had been to exchange mails and IMs enough to feel I know the person, talk to 'em by phone, and arrange to meet in a restaurant during the day. No threats, then. I can have a friend or two near, or can arrange to call them an hour afterward and two hours afterward (the aforementioned safety call) to check in. Too easy to phone police if that fails, and every restaurant seems to have a pay phone.
I've met folks who've happened to get cell phone calls within the hour, and I always guess it's the same thing.
Gatherings solved a lot of that, 'cause I can have folks meet me and some of the rest of the crew in my area, munch style, and it's less awkward for 'em.
Gotta remember that "golden nutzos" line. There's a few I've punted from gatherings who fell into that line. Thankfully, there's so few that it didn't take much to weed 'em all. Odd how few women there were, compared to the number of men. Another nice thing about screened gatherings - flakes and nutcases don't tend to sign up, and thus don't show. Only the harmless ones get in. Weird, but no weirder than a nightclub or house party.
Good thread, snacks!
I, like dvnc, have chatted on-line with, spoken on the phone with & even met some wonderful women from the tickling community. For example, I met Ann of TicklingDuo several years ago when she still lived in our mutual home town. We have been good friends ever since. I've spoken with others on the phone after chatting on-line & consider all of them good friends. Quite a few others I've met at gatherings after talking on-line for a time.
But, of course, the most important of the group is my beloved lite, with whom I chatted on-line for several months, talked on the phone with for several more months & finally met after the SB gathering in February of this year. We have been "together" since then (or as together as two people can be who live 400+ miles apart......). Our relationship has progressed to the point where I'm planning on moving to northern VA sometime this spring.
So, to answer your question.........yep, I have & yes, it DOES happen. I sincerely hope that you make many new friends from here (male AND female), & also hope that maybe you will be lucky enough to find a truly SPECIAL friend.
R
But, of course, the most important of the group is my beloved lite, with whom I chatted on-line for several months, talked on the phone with for several more months & finally met after the SB gathering in February of this year. We have been "together" since then (or as together as two people can be who live 400+ miles apart......). Our relationship has progressed to the point where I'm planning on moving to northern VA sometime this spring.
So, to answer your question.........yep, I have & yes, it DOES happen. I sincerely hope that you make many new friends from here (male AND female), & also hope that maybe you will be lucky enough to find a truly SPECIAL friend.
R
