TicklingIsLife
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Just wondering if anyone has ever successfully turned a non-tickling fan into one, and if so how?😀
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has anyone ever got someone into tickling
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I have! I have! lol. Yeah I successfully turned my girlfriend, soon to be fiance, into a tickle fanatic. Before she met me she never gave it much thought but after we got together and I told her about my fetish (which I have always been open about) she agreed to let me tie her down for some tickle fun. Turns out she loved it and now is a full blown tickle freak. Only problem is, she likes to be the tickler sometimes too.🙄 I have been trying to get her to register here and become one of us officially🙂 but she is too shy and timid. Hey c'mon guys! Let's have some encouragement for my baby! Maybe we can sway her together and make her feel comfortable, cuz my word just seems to not be enough!
My God. Do you have a few hours? For most of my life of relationships, (including one marriage) that has been my thing. As far as being a total convert, I'm not saying 🙂
Suffice it to say that I have had great success because I think if a woman is open-minded, she will really get to love it, provided she is introduced to it the right way.
I would love to meet a woman who is into it as much as I.
Max
Suffice it to say that I have had great success because I think if a woman is open-minded, she will really get to love it, provided she is introduced to it the right way.
I would love to meet a woman who is into it as much as I.
Max
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I sure have! Lee, my fiancee, didn't even know that tickling could be a kink until he met me. However, once I told him how much I enjoy it, it didn't take him long to become quite the 'ler! He now absolutely adores tickling me whenever he can get away with it - which is often!
I think that most of the time, if we're honest with our respective others about what turns us on, they're at least willing to try it. If they're not, you may need to question why you're with that person in the first place. Not that liking to tickle/be tickled is a requirement for me to love someone, but I do have a hard time loving someone who isn't at least willing to learn about and share in the things I enjoy.
So... for those of you wondering how to get your mate to enjoy your kink - simply start by telling them about it, and go from there!
Just my .02
... Anna (aka 'Loo)
I think that most of the time, if we're honest with our respective others about what turns us on, they're at least willing to try it. If they're not, you may need to question why you're with that person in the first place. Not that liking to tickle/be tickled is a requirement for me to love someone, but I do have a hard time loving someone who isn't at least willing to learn about and share in the things I enjoy.
So... for those of you wondering how to get your mate to enjoy your kink - simply start by telling them about it, and go from there!
Just my .02
... Anna (aka 'Loo)
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I too have done this. An ex girlfriends sister and I were having a conversation that turned to kinky habits and turn ons. I brought up tickling and she said she hated being tickled. I asked if she had ever been tied up and tickled. She said no but she loved to be tied up during sex.One thing led to another and I asked her if she would like to at least try it and afterwards she could tie and tickle me back.
She hesitated but agreed since she said she is always willing to try anything once and wanted to see what I was so entusiastic about.
She ended up having one HELL of a time and was very turned on by it. Especially being the LER!
Since then, we have played numerous times although not recently since I moved away.
She e-mails me on occaision asking when I was coming back up to visit!
She said I created a monster!!!
TTD
I can add few hours to Max's, likely. There's only two women I recall with whom tickling WASN'T part of the relationship, and one of 'em wasn't ticklish at all.
Way I see it, there tends to be five types:
- Those like us, that want tickling to begin with
- Those who get turned on to it by us
- Those that will play with us in sympathy or exchange
- Those who hate it
- Those that aren't ticklish
We convert a number of folks into the second or third type. Some stay that way after we're gone. I know of a few that weren't that way when I met 'em, that are kinkier than I am, now, AND into tickling as part of it.
Still prefer the notion of findin' someone that's ALREADY lookin' to 'lee. That'd be one delightful rarity.
dvnc
Way I see it, there tends to be five types:
- Those like us, that want tickling to begin with
- Those who get turned on to it by us
- Those that will play with us in sympathy or exchange
- Those who hate it
- Those that aren't ticklish
We convert a number of folks into the second or third type. Some stay that way after we're gone. I know of a few that weren't that way when I met 'em, that are kinkier than I am, now, AND into tickling as part of it.
Still prefer the notion of findin' someone that's ALREADY lookin' to 'lee. That'd be one delightful rarity.
dvnc
TicklingIsLife
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So, it is possible for someone who doesnt look at tickling as an interest to become interested 😕
(im going crazy because i have a friend who, i know, would be a GREAT tickler)😎 😀
(im going crazy because i have a friend who, i know, would be a GREAT tickler)😎 😀
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Ticklingislife....
Yes indeed it is possible. IF you believe that, that person would be a great tickler, try the "Instigation Technique".
Tickle that person repeadly...make wise-ass comments...etc. till that person "gets you back".
Instigation!😉 😀 
TTD
Yes indeed it is possible. IF you believe that, that person would be a great tickler, try the "Instigation Technique".
Tickle that person repeadly...make wise-ass comments...etc. till that person "gets you back".
Instigation!😉 😀
TTD
I've got an encouraging story. Years ago, I had a girlfriend who I was in a long relationship with. Back then, I had never met or knew anyone into tickling so I thought I was the only person in the world into it. I had a lot at stake because I really loved this girl and I was afraid she would think I was a freak. I made up a questionaire of likes and dislikes and asked her to check it off. When it came to tickling she said a definite "No". Now I could have stopped there and been brokenhearted, but I said to her, "That's a shame because I REALLY like that. It's one thing that gets me really excited." And she said (without missing a beat), "You can tickle me." From that point on, it was fun because I would show her exactly what tickling her really did to me and she benefited bigtime from it.
She ended up being the first girl I ever tied up and tickled. She also let me tape sessions and let me take pictures of me tickling her. She was really okay with everything even though she wasn't a ticklephile like myself. It just became part of our relationship. Although our relationship ended, it was never an issue. She never made me feel weird about it.
Because of her, I was much more open with girlfriends after that experience.
Max
She ended up being the first girl I ever tied up and tickled. She also let me tape sessions and let me take pictures of me tickling her. She was really okay with everything even though she wasn't a ticklephile like myself. It just became part of our relationship. Although our relationship ended, it was never an issue. She never made me feel weird about it.
Because of her, I was much more open with girlfriends after that experience.
Max
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Like Max said..."Got a couple hours?"
I don't know whether it's luck or just subconscious selective dating, but I've been pretty lucky. Most of them got into it without much problem.
Advice for those of you wanting to get your girlfriend or what have you into tickling.
Don't come right out and ask "Can I tickle you?" Better would be to ask "have you ever been tied up before?" or something to that effect, placed into appropriate conversation. People tend to be more open to intimate bondage than a specific fetish. Once she's tied up, you can always do the old "brush up against a certain part of the body by 'mistake' " sort of thing.
You'll get the standerd "Be careful, that TICKLES!", to which you can always get that evil grin..."Oh it DOES?"
Use your imagination from there.
Everyone is different, but this has worked for me.😎
I don't know whether it's luck or just subconscious selective dating, but I've been pretty lucky. Most of them got into it without much problem.
Advice for those of you wanting to get your girlfriend or what have you into tickling.
Don't come right out and ask "Can I tickle you?" Better would be to ask "have you ever been tied up before?" or something to that effect, placed into appropriate conversation. People tend to be more open to intimate bondage than a specific fetish. Once she's tied up, you can always do the old "brush up against a certain part of the body by 'mistake' " sort of thing.
You'll get the standerd "Be careful, that TICKLES!", to which you can always get that evil grin..."Oh it DOES?"
Use your imagination from there.
Everyone is different, but this has worked for me.😎
I'm a big believer in association therapy: get the person to connect the tickling with being a fun part of friendship/relationship and eventually they'll develop happy feelings towards it. It's worked with one or two of my friends in the past. Usually works best if they're not predisposed to hate it already though.
Truthfully, the first woman I ever got seriously involved with may be a convert thanks to her time spent with me.
On our second date, we were tentatively starting to try "necking" in her car after seeing a film (Star Wars: A New Hope, The Special Edition, to be precise.) and I was having dificulty with the unfamiliar seatbelt configuration. She reached over to assist, and her fingertips grazed my ribcage. I squirmed and EEP!ed at her touch.
"Oh no, did I hurt you?" she asked.
"No," I replied, "That just tickled a little."
"I'm sorry."
"It's okay. Actually... I kind of liked it..." I said, with a hint of invitation.
Developing the same gleam in her eye, she began to tickle me intentionally. Slowly, playfully, her fingertips made a "falling raindrops" motion as they wandered across my ribs and chest. I grasped the headrest in a deathgrip as I clenched my eyelids shut and struggled to hold in the giggles that escaped in random sputters like the uneven rhythm of popping corn. Clearly enjoying herself now, she tried a variety of techniques from a single finger tracing gentle circles on my sides to all ten scrabbling in a frenzy at my armpits. No longer able to contain my laughter, I let it out and rocked my head from side to side and my legs flailed uncontrollably beneath the dashboard. 
I don't remember how long she tickled me, but when I was at last breathless we held each other tight and kissed.
On later dates, to my surprise, when she felt amorous she would begin by lightly tickling my ribs, and from then on I could definitely tell that we spent more time tickling than we did more traditional forms of romantic play. She tried using her tongue and toes to tickle me on a few occasions, and sometimes permitted me to tickle the soles of her feet in return while she worked over my upper torso. She even specially requested that I tickle her neck once. One night, our laughter evidently went on for so long and got so loud that we were interrupted by the headlights of the local Police coming to check on the source of the racket.😱
She told me one night that whenever she felt sad, she would think of "How cute you look laughing like that, and it cheers me right up." 
I think that she grew to enjoy tickling for several reasons. When we started seeing each other, she had just recently gotten out of a messy and unpleasant marriage that had lasted 15 years with a man she was only with because he had gotten her pregnant and forced her to drop out of college. (I suspect there was some abuse as well, but I didn't wish to pry if she wasn't ready to talk about it.) This meant I was the only other man to show interest in her since she was 20. She expressed astonishment that someone would touch her in a loving manner, never having experienced any other examples besides her loutish Ex, and she was delighted to be introduced to a gentle and playful method of sharing affection. Also, I think she was thrilled to discover a method by which she could exert some control and take the lead during intimacy, which her Ex had never let her do, that was safe and harmless.
Tragically, the relationship had to end
(At the time, she was 35, I was 25, and her son was 15. Not a stable family-dynamic.) and I stepped aside so she could be involved with someone better able to support her and her children. 
I haven't heard from her in 3 or 4 years, but I still wonder if she tried out all the wonderful new tricks I had taught her with the new bloke.😉 
On our second date, we were tentatively starting to try "necking" in her car after seeing a film (Star Wars: A New Hope, The Special Edition, to be precise.) and I was having dificulty with the unfamiliar seatbelt configuration. She reached over to assist, and her fingertips grazed my ribcage. I squirmed and EEP!ed at her touch.
"Oh no, did I hurt you?" she asked.
"No," I replied, "That just tickled a little."
"I'm sorry."
"It's okay. Actually... I kind of liked it..." I said, with a hint of invitation.
Developing the same gleam in her eye, she began to tickle me intentionally. Slowly, playfully, her fingertips made a "falling raindrops" motion as they wandered across my ribs and chest. I grasped the headrest in a deathgrip as I clenched my eyelids shut and struggled to hold in the giggles that escaped in random sputters like the uneven rhythm of popping corn.
Clearly enjoying herself now, she tried a variety of techniques from a single finger tracing gentle circles on my sides to all ten scrabbling in a frenzy at my armpits. No longer able to contain my laughter, I let it out and rocked my head from side to side and my legs flailed uncontrollably beneath the dashboard. I don't remember how long she tickled me, but when I was at last breathless we held each other tight and kissed. On later dates, to my surprise, when she felt amorous she would begin by lightly tickling my ribs, and from then on I could definitely tell that we spent more time tickling than we did more traditional forms of romantic play. She tried using her tongue and toes to tickle me on a few occasions, and sometimes permitted me to tickle the soles of her feet in return while she worked over my upper torso. She even specially requested that I tickle her neck once. One night, our laughter evidently went on for so long and got so loud that we were interrupted by the headlights of the local Police coming to check on the source of the racket.😱
She told me one night that whenever she felt sad, she would think of "How cute you look laughing like that, and it cheers me right up." I think that she grew to enjoy tickling for several reasons. When we started seeing each other, she had just recently gotten out of a messy and unpleasant marriage that had lasted 15 years with a man she was only with because he had gotten her pregnant and forced her to drop out of college. (I suspect there was some abuse as well, but I didn't wish to pry if she wasn't ready to talk about it.) This meant I was the only other man to show interest in her since she was 20. She expressed astonishment that someone would touch her in a loving manner, never having experienced any other examples besides her loutish Ex, and she was delighted to be introduced to a gentle and playful method of sharing affection. Also, I think she was thrilled to discover a method by which she could exert some control and take the lead during intimacy, which her Ex had never let her do, that was safe and harmless.
Tragically, the relationship had to end
(At the time, she was 35, I was 25, and her son was 15. Not a stable family-dynamic.) and I stepped aside so she could be involved with someone better able to support her and her children. I haven't heard from her in 3 or 4 years, but I still wonder if she tried out all the wonderful new tricks I had taught her with the new bloke.😉 Hey... as everyone else is quoting Max, 'Got a
couple hours?' 😉
Hmmm... in retrospect, I'd have to say that nearly
every close female friend, and some of my male
friends, became interested in tickling as a fetish
because of me. (grins) For example, in college,
there was a young woman who was a friend of a
friend, and that I spent much time visiting (she
had off-campus housing, and more importantly,
cable TV!) and being totally comfortable around
me, she would often sit at home dressed in her
bathrobe, underwear, and slippers. Ond day I
became playful and just flipped her slippers off,
and when she asked what I was up to, I smirked and
offered her a "foot massage." Sad to say, she was
only marginally ticklish, just a few titters here
and there, no full blown belly laughs, but she
enjoyed it so much she would as often as not come
in and put her bare feet into my lap, begging for
'the treatment.' I can't say for certain that she
got a sexual thrill from it everytime, but one
particular day I did notice a wet spot at her
crotch area... and I'm very sure it wasn't urine.
😎
My mutual friend, a guy that had a major crush on
her, and her current 'dating friend' (not to be
confused with a BOYFRIEND) noticed the foot play
after a while, and that she obviously liked it,
and soon started tickling her feet as well. We
all talked about it several months later, and they
all admitted that it was strange to them but a big
turn-on now, especially seeing the effect it had
on her! Count that as three new recruits for the
price of one!
Since then, nearly every girlfriend that I dared
to admit my fetish to, and explain the hows and
whys of it, fell in love with it as well. I could
go into glorious graphic detail, but it would
literally take hours! 😎
J-dark
couple hours?' 😉
Hmmm... in retrospect, I'd have to say that nearly
every close female friend, and some of my male
friends, became interested in tickling as a fetish
because of me. (grins) For example, in college,
there was a young woman who was a friend of a
friend, and that I spent much time visiting (she
had off-campus housing, and more importantly,
cable TV!) and being totally comfortable around
me, she would often sit at home dressed in her
bathrobe, underwear, and slippers. Ond day I
became playful and just flipped her slippers off,
and when she asked what I was up to, I smirked and
offered her a "foot massage." Sad to say, she was
only marginally ticklish, just a few titters here
and there, no full blown belly laughs, but she
enjoyed it so much she would as often as not come
in and put her bare feet into my lap, begging for
'the treatment.' I can't say for certain that she
got a sexual thrill from it everytime, but one
particular day I did notice a wet spot at her
crotch area... and I'm very sure it wasn't urine.
😎
My mutual friend, a guy that had a major crush on
her, and her current 'dating friend' (not to be
confused with a BOYFRIEND) noticed the foot play
after a while, and that she obviously liked it,
and soon started tickling her feet as well. We
all talked about it several months later, and they
all admitted that it was strange to them but a big
turn-on now, especially seeing the effect it had
on her! Count that as three new recruits for the
price of one!
Since then, nearly every girlfriend that I dared
to admit my fetish to, and explain the hows and
whys of it, fell in love with it as well. I could
go into glorious graphic detail, but it would
literally take hours! 😎
J-dark
I got my husband, Djskiz, into it. Before he met me, he had never tickled anyone before. That nearly floored me when I discovered that, since I thought it was a natural part of friendship/dating/playing/showing affection. I guess I just had it good growing up 🙂
I did not realize it was an actual fetish until after we were married though. Once I did discover it, he was more then happy to include it in our 'intimate interludes'. It has become much more a part of our lives in the past couple of months though, and now I get tickled ALL the time, even when I may not want it! LOL! Tonight during the football game, he actually POUTED when I stopped him from tickling me and said "I wanna plaaaaaay!" He is becoming more addicted to it then I am!
Help! I've created a monster!
Mimi
I did not realize it was an actual fetish until after we were married though. Once I did discover it, he was more then happy to include it in our 'intimate interludes'. It has become much more a part of our lives in the past couple of months though, and now I get tickled ALL the time, even when I may not want it! LOL! Tonight during the football game, he actually POUTED when I stopped him from tickling me and said "I wanna plaaaaaay!" He is becoming more addicted to it then I am!
Help! I've created a monster!
Mimi
TicklingIsLife
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Has anybody ever got just a friend (not a girl/boyfriend or husband/wife) into tickling?? 😀
😀I got one female friend a lot into it. She does not know about tickling as a fetish or web sites or anything related to this site, but she truly enjoyed getting together with me to let me tickle her for hours. She is the only person I know who has orgasms with tickling.
I have two other female friends who seem to enjoy being tickled by me frequently. Nothing sexual or erotic. Just playful tickling for relatively long periods (in the order of minutes).
I do not know if this qualifies and "getting someone into tickling", but I think it is close enough.
Bye,
Knight Tickler
I have two other female friends who seem to enjoy being tickled by me frequently. Nothing sexual or erotic. Just playful tickling for relatively long periods (in the order of minutes).
I do not know if this qualifies and "getting someone into tickling", but I think it is close enough.
Bye,
Knight Tickler
