Have you told your bf/gf about your fetish?

[kimbubbly]

Hi just wondering if you guys or gals have told your partners about your fetish's coz i would have thought we all cant be that lucky to find people into the same things.
i found out i loved being tickled with my ex who has been a member of this site for a few years (not naming him so dont ask). we had started dating then one night he asked if he could tickle my feet, we ended up enjoying the night to say the least, after he said he had been scared ask me before in case i freaked out and he messed things up. just wondering if any of you have felt the same before?

 

[F.L. Atlanta 10]

don't have a gf yet, and I may tell her about it. not sure though, yet.

 

[kimbubbly]

well if you do let me know hehe

 

[F.L. Atlanta 10]

well if you do let me know hehe

ok.

 

[z284ca]

😀 Told my girlfriend after maybe 4 months of being together. She laughed cause I was so nervous about it. I've been pretty open with it ever since, a fair few people know about it now

 

[kimbubbly]

cool jack glad it was cool with her

 

[Rockerxxx2000]

My gf knows that I enjoy tickling, but this is just one of many pleasurable activities we perform.
I never really informed her that this is my fetish - just told her that I like it. I think I won't tell her straight, but let her figure it out. 🙂

 

[kimbubbly]

My gf knows that I enjoy tickling, but this is just one of many pleasurable activities we perform.
I never really informed her that this is my fetish - just told her that I like it. I think I won't tell her straight, but let her figure it out. 🙂

cool good way to do it!

 

[Camel26]

My girlfriend kinda dragged it out of me after I told her early on in our relationship that I would do anything for her--no matter how dirty or nasty she thought a fantasy of hers was, I would make it happen...and she said she didn't have anything in mind at the time but then asked me what my fantasies were...and I couldn't say it, so she guessed until she got it right...and when I finally admitted it to her, the first person I ever told, I cried...and she was so good about it...she's very indulgent, and an amazing woman all around, which is why I proposed to her last year so I can officially have her all to myself!!! 😀

 

[kimbubbly]

My girlfriend kinda dragged it out of me after I told her early on in our relationship that I would do anything for her--no matter how dirty or nasty she thought a fantasy of hers was, I would make it happen...and she said she didn't have anything in mind at the time but then asked me what my fantasies were...and I couldn't say it, so she guessed until she got it right...and when I finally admitted it to her, the first person I ever told, I cried...and she was so good about it...she's very indulgent, and an amazing woman all around, which is why I proposed to her last year so I can officially have her all to myself!!! 😀

awww thats so great a true love story congrats by the way sounds like a great match best wishes and thanks for sharing that with us

 

[guest5]

i finally told my gf a little bit on fourth of july. i look forward too a little experimenting🙂

bonster27

 

[Big_Dogg85]

To Camel: Any info on an official date you come north of the border for your "tying-the-knot"?

When I was with my ex, we were pretty touchy-feely...hugs, x-rated stuff, etc. One day when I went to her place, we started playing around and I told her about my fetish. At the time I was slightly worried about it but then she said that she never really experienced it before. So I spent the rest of the day tickling her feet and upperbody. She was laughing and giggling so much and the best part was that she absolutely loved it. For about a week after, we got together every second or third day (this was school-time...) and most often we would get into a tickle fight. My ex and I are still really good friends and while I don't see her very often anymore, we still tickle eachother the odd time we get together.

 

[MistressValerie1]

After I had been seeing my then-future husband for about a month or so, the subject of tickling somehow arose. I nervously mentioned that I liked to tickle guys, he instantly replied that he liked to be tickled by girls, and the rest is history 😀

 

[kimbubbly]

wow looks like you three hit the jackpot

 

[Nylontickler21]

I haven't told my Girlfriend yet. Maybe anytime....

 

[Camel26]

BigDogg--don't know yet but sometime before september of 2008!!! I'll let the good people of Canada know when we're coming up!!!


And HOORAY bonster27 for telling your gal--that's AWESOME!!!!!!! 😀 😀 😀 😀

 

[guest5]

thanks camel. i am partially inspired by you and your gal. i loved your post about your ler and a make up brush. BG i was surprised to find after telling my girl that her ex always had a feather. lol silly me

bonster27

 

[alex]

Silly question. If I didn't tell my gf (now wife), how would she know what I like, and how would we ever get into it together?

 

[cyclypse]

Well I told my ex-girlfriend about it when we were going out, that tell you anything?



lol, jk. She was cool about it. It actually got to the point where tickling (espeically light touches) really turned her on.......but then I went and ruined it by moving on to pursue my dreams. Thank god i'm living those dreams now or i'd be really depressed =P

 

[dubman]

I told my girlfriend the day after we were "official." I had only been seeing her for about a month or so, but she is so amazing. I told her that I knew what I wanted for my birthday (which at the time was less than a month away), and I told her that I really liked being tickled and that I wanted her to tie me up and tickle torture me. I was so unbelievable nervous, and she simply said "okay," and gave me this wicked grin. i was so in shock of how easy it was...I'm semi-open about my fetish now, and am still amazed by how accepting people are of it. I guess it's not as weird as I think it is!

 

[LeeAllure1]

I told my ex about it when we were together; I make an
effort to be open with people whom I'm friendly with on
an ongoing basis. The nice thing about it, now we are just
friends, is that I can tickle him all I want. He also is interested
in the gatherings, but I wouldn't really call him a convert.

Lee

 

[Stugots]

I will talk about my liking for tickling and my foot fetish whenever the girl and I talk about sex. Sexual chemistry is very important in starting up and maintaining a relationship with me, so I don't waste much time in figuring out if she and I are compatible for a dynamite sexlife!

 

[maxamum_sumthin1]

hhmm, my girlfriend..found out (via an internet related mix up) and asked me - vis msn - if this was a "little fetish i was developing?" i nearly died..but told her yes (while biting my knuckle) we had a small conversation about it (for half of which she thought i was joking!) and she just kinda siad..ok, cool, and it's kinda gone from there. 🙂