Hello again! Another ticklish dilemma.

[aussietickler1]

Hey all, apologies for my long absence from the forum - i've been without my own computer for some time and haven't wanted to use the family computer to go on the tmf.

Since my last post, I have broken up with my girlfriend of two and a half years (who, if you have read any of my previous posts, had no knowledge of my tickling fetish - and was not ticklish at all) and am more eager than ever to have my first proper tickling experience. I actually think that my inability to express my tickling fetish in our relationship was one of the main reasons for its deterioration, and I have promised myself that I will let my next partner know about my interest in tickling early in the relationship.

But herein lies my question. After such a long relationship, I'd probably prefer to 'play the field' for a while. But, honestly, my main priority is to have a proper tickling experience (preferably as a 'ler). So, do you guys think I would have a better chance of doing this if I found a nice girl and had a relationship with her, eventually leading to me telling her about my tickling fetish (hopefully resulting in a tickling experience) - or - should I just meet some 'random girls', charm them (again, hopefully) and then propose the idea of being tied and tickled as a form of foreplay?

I'm sorry to ask such a self-centred question after such a long absence, but I honestly feel like I need the advice. And what better place to ask, right?

Thanks in advance guys 🙂

P.S. I would love to speak to any of you guys on a personal level as well, especially you Aussies! My hotmail address is: [email protected]

 

[rhiannon]

So, do you guys think I would have a better chance of doing this if I found a nice girl and had a relationship with her, eventually leading to me telling her about my tickling fetish (hopefully resulting in a tickling experience) - or - should I just meet some 'random girls', charm them (again, hopefully) and then propose the idea of being tied and tickled as a form of foreplay?

The chance that a girl who is in a relationship with you and really cares about you will indulge you is way bigger than a random girl letting you tie and tickle her, don't you think? 🙂

 

[aussietickler1]

The chance that a girl who is in a relationship with you and really cares about you will indulge you is way bigger than a random girl letting you tie and tickle her, don't you think? 🙂

Not necessarily, I think there would be plenty of outgoing girls out there who would give tickling a go. I think it's just a matter of overcoming the 'embarrasment barrier.' I know it's easier said than done, but after being locked into a non-tickling relationship for so long - i honestly feel ready to give anything a go.

 

[rhiannon]

Not necessarily, I think there would be plenty of outgoing girls out there who would give tickling a go.

I don't know. 🙂 A lot of people hate being tickled. I also wouldn't let a random girl tied and whip me. 🙂

 

[Libertine]

You are only 20. After a 2 1/2 year relationship you need time to achieve some sort of equilibrium before committing yourself to someone else, and to process what you've learned during your previous affair. It's like restarting a computer to finish an update.

Play the field. It will sharpen your negotiating skills. And check this site out, and make the small investment required. It works. www.doubleyourdating.com

 

[aussietickler1]

True, there would be more rejection than not. Alot more. But as the saying goes "you've got to be in it, to win it." In other words, there's probably more chance of finding someone cool to be a 'tickle partner' if I'm just open with people about tickling as a form of foreplay (preferably in a non-creepy way) than if I invest all my interest in one person and hope that it all works out for the best. Do you know what I mean?

 

[rhiannon]

In other words, there's probably more chance of finding someone cool to be a 'tickle partner' if I'm just open with people about tickling as a form of foreplay (preferably in a non-creepy way)

If you want to be non-creepy, then don't mention bondage! 🙂

 

[aussietickler1]

If you want to be non-creepy, then don't mention bondage! 🙂

Haha good point. I guess that would come with trust.