Help i have a Crisis here

[j-e-l-l-o]

I sometimes feel weird about my tickling likeness🙁 like im odd ball out with most of my friends. I haven't told any friends/or family members about how i like tickling but still i feel weird about it because i never get tickled really nor do i tickle people much. And yet here i joined this site and yet ive started downloading tickling clips and also yet i still contuine to talk with Girls my own age on the msn chats about tickling everyday/night. I know tickling ingeneral is not odd because people do it to other family members friends etc** behind closed doors and not behind closed doors as well. And yeah i can function find without tickling running my whole life But personally myself i just feel not normal because i like tickling😕 i dunno why im any having theses feelings ive never really had much of tickling fun and expericanes with it that im sure Most every single member here has! i dont know what to think or what to do even about me thinking like this. Please help and shed some light

 

[coolman]

i used to feel a bit like you, jello. but then i found this place and i realised that it's perfect natural and perfectly alright. give it some deep thought and you'll probably come to the same conclusion.

this aint a deformity, its a gift, and the sooner you accept it, the sooner you'll appreciate it! 🙂

 

[TickledToDeath]

jello

You are not strange or odd. Tickling is harmless fun. Playfull, intense endorphin releasing fantastic fun! We are all unique in our own way and many of share some of that uniqueness. Close friends get together and hang together because they share some of the same qualities and passions.
You just have to find a few of us near enough to you where you can do this. The more you get out and tickle and be tickled with those of us who are sharing this fantastic passion of tickling, the sooner you you will feel more comfortable with the tickling side of yourself and know that you are NOT alone and not abnormal in any way shape or form!
We are here!

TTD

 

[TicklingDuo]

Agreed. No need to feel strange, jello. We've all been there. Many still are. It's just a matter of accepting that everyone is different and that it's not a bad thing. I thiink one of the biggest helps for most of us has been finding this place (and others like it) where we can openly discuss things with others who feel the same as we do. Once we come to recognize that there are MANY out there just like us and that we aren't some sort of freaks it's easy to just go with the flow.

One thing I like doing is reading things that folks have to say in general discussion. As much as we share in this forum, the general discussion forum gives us a better sense for who folks are outside of their love of tickling and helps us see that we're a very normal cross-section of the world as a whole.

It's perfectly normal and okay to question yourself. Just don't let it get you down. You're among friends here.

Ann

 

[Myriads]

You are quite normal.

For some perspective look at it this way: You may have a physical preference in looks for your partners. Tall, blond, athletic and so on.

These 'likes' came over you without much thought, you simply found yourself attracted to one set of looks more then others one day. Your mind juggled a lot of inputs and you got a 'type'. The path there was complex but invisible.

A like of tickling is not much different. Your mind has juggled a lot of elements and you have this like. Even without participation it still 'fits'. As you get older and meet people you'll get a chance to explore it more, just as you would explore dating women who have the 'look' you like. It's just part of learning who you are.

Just know you are neither alone in your tastes, nor odd for having them.

Myriads

 

[Limeoutsider]

Think of it as a phase in your life (like middle school or puberty), its annoying, but it passes. ANd you go on living (or tickling, in this case).

 

[WorkInProgress]

Seems to me, you're best off making peace with the notion that you do have a proclivity that many other people would consider odd. However, you might also consider that there are plenty of activities going on in the mainstream of the so-called "normal" world that are at least as deserving of being considered odd. For instance, I think we all know people who like to pick up strangers at bars and have sex with them the first night they've met, without the slightest interest in forming love relationships, and that certainly seems pretty odd to me.

 

[tickled_a_lot]

I would guess that most people here have felt that way at some point or another.

 

[buffteya4]

Everyone has their fetishes. Some people like Girls with hairy armpits. Personally I think that is revolting, but some like it. Once you come to terms with the fact that tickling is a part of your life, these feelings will go away.

Buffness

 

[TickleMantis]

I was 18 when I joined the TMF (cause I'm a good boy) and had lurked for about a year and half before hand, in my case the TMF and the folks here answered pretty much every question I had. Its a great community and you don't need to worry about asking us anything, because every single time some kind person will give you a perfect and straight foward answer.

Your welcome to e-mail me anytime you like with anything you like. [email protected] I'm sure everyone whos posted here as well as our beloved moderators and most other members wouldn't mind if you e-mailed them with questions either. 99.9% of the tickling community is happy to help.😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

I was 18 when I joined the TMF (cause I'm a good boy) and had lurked for about a year and half before hand, in my case the TMF and the folks here answered pretty much every question I had. Its a great community and you don't need to worry about asking us anything, because every single time some kind person will give you a perfect and straight foward answer.

Your welcome to e-mail me anytime you like with anything you like. [email protected] I'm sure everyone whos posted here as well as our beloved moderators and most other members wouldn't mind if you e-mailed them with questions either. 99.9% of the tickling community is happy to help.😀

Very true TM, my mail is always open too for anyone who needs or wants to contact [email protected]

TTD

 

[Admiral Trouser]

All of you people are fantastic. Including Areenacator 😀

I'd just like to thank you all for telling me what, in a sense, I already knew when I first joined this forum: That I am not odd, or a freak. Such an affirmation is priceless. Jello, you'll learn that very soon I feel.

Oh, and yeah, mail me anytime too: [email protected]

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