Help with my B/F!!!

[speckles]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over three years. We have a really great realtionship except that he like tickling and i, usually speaking, do not. I do not judge him in anyway and I try to understand why he feels this way and I participate when he wants it. Sometimes it is even enjoyable for me to. I guess my question is do you have any advice to maybe help me enjoy it more or could you explain why ya'll enjoy this kind of fetish?? Also what are the little things I could do to indulge him when we don't have the time or whatever for full out sex play? Thanks guys this would help alot since we are headed toward marriage and I want to make him happy! :laughing:

 

[BigNorm]

does he have a foot fetish aswell? does he like tickling your feet? if you want some thing short and sexual like you mentioned, just prop your foot in his lap and let him have at it. tickling is very arousing, usually after you've endured alot of it. maybe have a trade off, let him tie you up and tickle you, and then maybe you can do whatever you like to him.

hope that helps.

 

[Amber10]

i agree with bignorm

 

[Ticklish Old Man]

Hi Speckles, It's good that although you may not be heavily into tickling, it's great you are willing to indulge your b/f.
Does he allow you to be the tickler? Perhaps catch him off guard and request he submit to you?
It's great you two have a strong relationship and wedding bells are in the future? Why to go!

 

[Xin]

I remember when my B/F first told me about his "thing" for Tickling. At first i was kinda shocked, but the more i discovered what he liked and enjoyed, the more i myself got into it. Just talk to him about what he likes, sometimes i just tell stories or discuss scenarios i like and we don't even need to tickle...though that can be very fun too ^_^

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

if it do nothing for you than there is a term called selling it. to the hollywood brother it means just laughing to make each tickling move that your b/f does look better. a example is how many women start moaning and screaming when a guy gives them the pelvic thrust move. the reality is the lady is off dreaming of tickling action with the hollywood brother and is bored with the sperm donor. however the lady wants this course of action to be over with so she moans and fakes a orgasm or four to make the jabroni think he did a good job and then stop. it is the same with tickling. give your b/f a show and then act like you can't take it anymore. the dude will think he broke you and be on cloud nine while you get him to stop tickling quicker

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Of Course You Must Be Cloned Immediately And Infinitely

Try Adding Some "vanilla" Massage Along With The Tickling. Take Turns Being 'lee & 'ler. Try Different Objects( Feathers, Brushes, Ball Point Pens, Etc) On Different Tickle Spots. Tickling Is Of Course Great Foreplay. Give Him A Coupon Good For So Much Ticle Time. He Already Has Tt's Award For One Lucky Dude For Being Nice Enough To Be With You. Congratulations To Both Of You And Best Wishes.

 

[drew70]

I agree with amber10. 🙂

 

[Betchass1]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over three years. We have a really great realtionship except that he like tickling and i, usually speaking, do not. I do not judge him in anyway and I try to understand why he feels this way and I participate when he wants it. Sometimes it is even enjoyable for me to. I guess my question is do you have any advice to maybe help me enjoy it more or could you explain why ya'll enjoy this kind of fetish?? Also what are the little things I could do to indulge him when we don't have the time or whatever for full out sex play? Thanks guys this would help alot since we are headed toward marriage and I want to make him happy! :laughing:

Whether people admit it or not, I think part of the desire to tickle involves control, both the feeling of having it, and the feeling of not having it, felt vicariously while watching someone reacting. Someone interested in tickling is, if nothing else, very aware of their partner's feelings.
If you really want to learn to like it, maybe you could try putting yourself in other situations where you feel giddy from lack of control, and see if you can embrace the rush. Roller coasters come to mind. Bungee jumping, maybe. Swimming with sharks, riding on the hoods of your friends' cars, taking handfuls of drugs at parties. Eating habaneros. lol jk Dan Osman used to fasten rock-climbing ropes to cliffs and jump off:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dan_Osman
I am serious, though, about learning to embrace the feeling of not being in control.
If you can't learn to like it, and decide you really don't want it in your life, is that going to cause problems?