How do I go about this?

[Skipadeedoodah]

So here's the thing. I love to be tickled 😀 (big surprise hehe) and my boyfriend doesn't seem to have any issues against tickling me but i'd like him to do it more often. I'm not totally comfortable with coming right out and telling him that I like to be tickled because it's still pretty new (the relationship i mean) so I just wanted to know if anybody had any hints I could use to kind of plant the seed to make him want to tickle me more...if that makes sense.

Anybody have any tips? 😕

 

[Texas_Tickle]

So here's the thing. I love to be tickled 😀 (big surprise hehe) and my boyfriend doesn't seem to have any issues against tickling me but i'd like him to do it more often. I'm not totally comfortable with coming right out and telling him that I like to be tickled because it's still pretty new (the relationship i mean) so I just wanted to know if anybody had any hints I could use to kind of plant the seed to make him want to tickle me more...if that makes sense.

Anybody have any tips? 😕

If you are not comfortable with it, either wait until you are, or drop subtle hints.

 

[nenezinho]

if my opinion counts for anything 🙂

well, don´t rush anything, give it time.

but one thing might work....we have a saying in portugal something like this:

When you plant winds you get to harvest stormes.

So...if you kind of see that he´s ticklish and don´t mind to be tickled also....give it a go 🙂 plant winds 🙂 but be sure you want to collect the storms after 🙂

kisses!!!!
be carefull not to anoy him...just apply this if you really feel it won´t bother him.

 

[nenezinho]

almost forgetting the most important!!

Never let pass a chance of giving him a big smile after each time he tickles you 🙂

when you get confidence, try and say him it was fun.

Another way that might work:
telling him you´re not afraid of tickling and that he can´t break you with that, you´l stand it allways wherever and ao long he does it. Then see if he get´s the challenge 🙂

well...different things work in different ways with different people cause everyone is unique.

be yourself...understand himself...and once tou understand him, use persuation so to plant the winds I´ve spoken on the last post 🙂

Good luck 🙂

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Everyone's opinion counts! (hint hint...don't be shy everybody! I'm sweet I promise 🙂 )

Anyway...thanks for your input! I've already applied one or two of those tactics with few results 🙁 a) he's not ticklish AT ALL and b)whenever i challenge him he always gives up after about 15 seconds

Grr some people

Thanks for your input though! And I'll work on some of those other things 🙂

 

[Double T]

Give it time, Skippadee. I know that you my be anxious, but, as the relationship deepens and grows, and you start talking openly about feelings, likes and dilikes and such, it seems to me that this would be the time to tell him that you truly like being tickled. (and which of us doesn't? Heh, heh, heh!) Assuming he's a understanding guy, who want's to please you, I can't imagine why he wouldn't. Be patient, for now. Tickling can be an aquired taste! Best of luck!