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how do you ask is you can tickle your girlfriend?
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Budweiserbob!
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ooooohhh, tough one! Well, my Girlfriend already knows i have a foot fetish and usually she loves being tickled but your situation is a bit different. What i would do is only ask now and again and if she say's "no" then you may have to except it.
Well you could always ask in a polite, loving way. Like "Baby, can i tickle you please"
but really i have no idea!
Sorry if my advice didn't help!
Well you could always ask in a polite, loving way. Like "Baby, can i tickle you please"
but really i have no idea!
Sorry if my advice didn't help!
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nadrydix said:
Revealing a fetish to a mate can be a very tricky thing. Assuming that you really care about this girl, simply telling her that you have a foot fetish may be placing her in the position of having to accept something that she perceives is indiginous to only you. Also, it downgrades her image of herself in your eyes as a complete person, to one of merely the owner of the object of your true desire. So, When she says she doesn't want to spend too much time on it, she is probably expressing her concern that she wants to be more important to you than merely the sum of her own parts. I think its imperative that you share your fetish with her.
What you might try to do is show her how your foot fetish is an extension of your affection for her, not a substitute. You can do this by spending some time giving her pleasure through her feet, that is not necessarily lustful, or sexual in nature, but could have an erotic effect if she enjoys it enough. For example, treat her to a "Spa Night" where (as part of a total pampering process), you give her a foot bath in one of those jet spas, followed by a sensuous foot massage, and then paint her toenails for her. Even if you suck at it, you'll show her that the attention you give to her feet is something that you enjoy because it makes her feel good.
If you think her attitude does not support the idea of a tickling fetish on top of your foot fetish, then, by all means, DON'T ask her if you can tickle her feet. Work toward it physically. While massaging her feet, slip in some soft, sensuous caressing - not to tickle torture her - but to titillate. The feet are plentiful with errogenous nerves. Take some time to make her feel good through touch, and ask her if she enjoys it. If she giggles from the stroking, tell her how you love the sound of her laughter. If she invites more light tickling, make sure you respect her allowances by not attacking her feet. Don't give her any reason to feel threatened or defensive. If she has to kick you off of her to get away, well, that's not a good thing if you're trying to bring her into it slowly.
Try turning the tickling into a game that she can control. Start with feathers instead of fingers. Use your imagination, but get her involved, and make it mutually enjoyable. Be gentle, and be patient, and with a little luck, you'll both enjoy each other more.
Good luck! 😎
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my girlfriend has very ticklish feet 2 she lets me tickle her feet she shows me her feet 2 wenever i ask she likes it jus say could i tickle ur feet
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Ok, i were with this girl for 3 years, and since the beggining i started caressing her feet, tickling, then kissing, licking, sniffing, and involving them in our sex life, i never told her that i had a foot/tickling fetish, she always knew and accepted it, by the time we finally talk about my fetish she was totally used to it, by that time, she ussually asked me to take her socks off and kiss her feet, or sometimes tickle her. I never had to confess about my fetish or ask her about letting me lick her soles or something, but i had to ask for tickling cuz she couldnt take it that much, then i explained to her that as a part of my fetish i was really turned on by tickling a girls feet, i told her that some guys ask their girls for tittifuckings or playing with dildos or something like that, i just asked her for letting me tie and tickle her, and she accepted, after that sometimes she even tie me and tickled me bad !! but hey all of that ended in a bad way, no we hate each other, and i would shot her on sight, that stupid ungratefull cheating bitch !!
I hope ur story has a better ending than mine, and i wish u luck with ur girl and the tickling matter, i think that the best way u could do it is explaining to her that this is part of ur sexuallity, and that this pleases u very much, if she understood ur foot fetish at first, she would understand the tickling part for sure.
Just do it, and tell us how it went.
Good luck.
I hope ur story has a better ending than mine, and i wish u luck with ur girl and the tickling matter, i think that the best way u could do it is explaining to her that this is part of ur sexuallity, and that this pleases u very much, if she understood ur foot fetish at first, she would understand the tickling part for sure.
Just do it, and tell us how it went.
Good luck.
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Penny Lane
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My guy used "misdirection" on me to tickle my feet.
He suggested we go for a long walk. I was wearing heels and my feet started hurting fairly quickly. Once home, he asked if my feet were tired. When I said yes, he told me to put them on his lap so that he could give me a foot massage to make them feel better. He started out by massaging my feet and worked his way into tickling them, the sly devil.
Manipulated! I tell you, I was manipulated!
Sure was great, though.
Penny
He suggested we go for a long walk. I was wearing heels and my feet started hurting fairly quickly. Once home, he asked if my feet were tired. When I said yes, he told me to put them on his lap so that he could give me a foot massage to make them feel better. He started out by massaging my feet and worked his way into tickling them, the sly devil.
Manipulated! I tell you, I was manipulated!
Sure was great, though.
Penny
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Wait! Why ask if you can tickle her? Just tickle her and see where it goes from there. After that, if all goes well, you can ask if you can tie her up for tickling and or ask her if she wants to tickle YOU back.
Just a thought.
TTD
Just a thought.
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ya. my gf askes me to tickle her. it started as me pampering her. like her back, shoulders and eventually her feet. she liked it. she says im good at it. then i tickled a little but she isnt very ticklish. nice feet though. and now we have little games. i tickle her and then she tickles me. i dont like it that much but fair is fair. but i think she has a little tickling fetish just doesnt know about the communities. i havent told her exactly but she knows how i feel. it works
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