How long do I wait

[ticklehound]

Hi everyone

I have a question that I can only ask here. I've been in my new place in a new city for about 2 1/2 months. I am in medical school, and as a class of about 100 people, we pretty much will be suffering together for at least 2 years. This is our life and my classmates will be the people I will have the most contact with.

So here's the deal. I wanna know how long do you think I should wait before I tell anyone of my desires in tickling. It's kinda hairy right now, because if it is too early, I run the risk of being labelled whatever their first expression of me is. And there are so many ladies in the class I wanna get to know so much better.

It's not like my old life before, where I could lose myself in the crowd at a big university. Here, I have to see these people every single day and plus, gossip is strong - really have to watch what I say sometimes because somebody will always find out - I already have many funny stories of other classmates with foot-in-mouth syndrome.

People who work with few coworkers and close quarters can relate - but again, the thing is, I have NO life outside of medschool. Then again, I never had a "normal" job. So, what do you think?

Hit me back

Hound

 

[tickler29]

Wait it out

I'd just wait untill you find someone you feel comfortable discussing it with. And warn them that if they let the cat out of the bag, you'll tickle them silly.😉

 

[Cheshire Cat]

blah....

Hmmm...all I can say is dont tell any Psyche majors....they may want to use you as their senior thesis! LOL. Well at least you're among more enlightened and intelligent individuals who have the potential to be more open minded about these types of things.

I on the other hand went to a major art school populated by all manner of freaks and degenerates.....in comparison to stuff I saw up there....my sexual inuendos were nothing. I saw more bizarre kinks and sexual practices than you could shake a whip creamed covered dildo at! A lot of people saw me as something of a lightweight...LOL. You'd be suprised how many dommes go to art school...

 

[P50]

SHUT UP, And STAY SHUT UP !!

You are going to meet some people there called "Psychiatrists" (Myriads or somebody help me spell it). Their goals are to make sure that all humans are labeled as perverts.

Mention tickling; especially be the first guy to mention it, and you'll be labeled, by licensed psychiatrists, sir.

There will be women there whose goal will be to make sure that as many women as possible finish and as few men as possible finish. Non-Median anything will be their number one cue to put you in the target zone as their identified sexual deviant.

Remember this mantra: "I really wish I were married with children right now."

Create whatever stories and excuses you need to explain why you have decided to forego the business world (where you could get a job and attract a wife so that you could be a father and be happy) and instead entered medical school.

Always remember the two sides of that line: Marriage/wife/kids are on one side, and all dangerous and emotionally unstable perverts (who should not be in medical school) are on the other.

Now, get it into your head again: you aren't happy now because you aren't married with kids. As soon as you get married, then have kids, you will be happy. You hate your current state and will continue to hate it until that time. You must make others there believe this. Don't yell it or preach it or come on too strong-hard-obvious about it. That will give it away. Instead, you'll be with a couple of women in a short break or something, and they'll steer the questions and conversation around (I have no idea of where you are, and I can still guarantee you that this will happen) to the topic of your life and sex and marriage and so on. This is the point when you must put on the fake and make it clear that you really aren't happy with your current state, but will be, when you can find a wife and have children. Your acting skills will come into play here.

If the women tell you that you're wrong, and that that's not the total and complete reason you should live; congratulate yourself. You've just passed one of a zillion tests. Let them "convince" you of your "error". When the next test comes along with another woman or small group of women, you must display your unhappiness again. Don't lay it on like a baby with tears and stuff, but make it clear that marriage is the only thing that will change your mind, and children are concomittantly important with that.

Got that ? Husband-and-father is your goal in life. Anyone who thinks differently is emotionally disordered.

 

[TickleCrazy]

Re: SHUT UP, And STAY SHUT UP !!

Got that ? Husband-and-father is your goal in life. Anyone who thinks differently is emotionally disordered.

Why are tickling and marriage/kids mutually exclusive? Why can't people find both in the same person? I finally have after all these years.

Hound, I agree with others that you should not share your tickling interest with your classmates. But you should definitely try to seek partners outside of that circle.

 

[Moses25]

med students

uh, Yeah, I would definitely refrain from telling med students anything personal. I have known quite a few in my time, and they are not that open-minded. Just enjoy your colleagues for who/what they are, and when you get into private practice, make sure to administer the Babinski to every babe that walks through your door.

And remember, physical exams are just ripe with opportunities to search for tickle spots...

"Oh, I'm sorry ma'am, does that TICKLE?!?"

heheheheehahahhahaa.

Cheers.😀

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

Re: blah....

I saw more bizarre kinks and sexual practices than you could shake a whip creamed covered dildo at!

OMG....ROFL. I laughed my ass off at this one Cheshire. Thanks for the giggles....😀

Maggie

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

As for the actual topic of the thread (which I tend to stray from from time to time), I'll have to go with the majority on this one and say, don't say a word about it. There is no real reason for it unless you find a girl in the circle that you particularly click with and begin to date. I "came out" to one of my co-workers and it felt kind of weird after that (even though he was totally fine with it.) The natural casual tickles that happen in a friendship take on a whole different feel when the other person knows what tickling really does for you. You will most likely wind up inhibiting those natural tickles from them which is probably the complete opposite of what you are looking for.

My advice is to keep things casual. Your personal life and your business life shouldn't mix.

Maggie

 

[Cheshire Cat]

Re: SHUT UP, And STAY SHUT UP !!

You are going to meet some people there called "Psychiatrists" (Myriads or somebody help me spell it). Their goals are to make sure that all humans are labeled as perverts.

Mention tickling; especially be the first guy to mention it, and you'll be labeled, by licensed psychiatrists, sir.

There will be women there whose goal will be to make sure that as many women as possible finish and as few men as possible finish. Non-Median anything will be their number one cue to put you in the target zone as their identified sexual deviant.

Remember this mantra: "I really wish I were married with children right now."

Create whatever stories and excuses you need to explain why you have decided to forego the business world (where you could get a job and attract a wife so that you could be a father and be happy) and instead entered medical school.

Always remember the two sides of that line: Marriage/wife/kids are on one side, and all dangerous and emotionally unstable perverts (who should not be in medical school) are on the other.

Now, get it into your head again: you aren't happy now because you aren't married with kids. As soon as you get married, then have kids, you will be happy. You hate your current state and will continue to hate it until that time. You must make others there believe this. Don't yell it or preach it or come on too strong-hard-obvious about it. That will give it away. Instead, you'll be with a couple of women in a short break or something, and they'll steer the questions and conversation around (I have no idea of where you are, and I can still guarantee you that this will happen) to the topic of your life and sex and marriage and so on. This is the point when you must put on the fake and make it clear that you really aren't happy with your current state, but will be, when you can find a wife and have children. Your acting skills will come into play here.

If the women tell you that you're wrong, and that that's not the total and complete reason you should live; congratulate yourself. You've just passed one of a zillion tests. Let them "convince" you of your "error". When the next test comes along with another woman or small group of women, you must display your unhappiness again. Don't lay it on like a baby with tears and stuff, but make it clear that marriage is the only thing that will change your mind, and children are concomittantly important with that.

Got that ? Husband-and-father is your goal in life. Anyone who thinks differently is emotionally disordered.

Interesting......but....am I wrong in assuming that you've had some bad experiences in this area P50? No offense, but does anyone ever notice how much advice given at this forum is based soley on personal bad experiences? Sometimes I wonder if a lot of them do it out of spite to discourage others from doing what they want, like "If I cant find a ticklee, then I'll make sure no one else can!" I dont mean you specifically P50, (you did have some valid points above) just making a generalized statement....thankfully people like that are in the minority....oh yeah, I'm high right now too....which is probably why I went off on such a tangent from the original subject.......I dunno......(*puff*)

 

[ticklehound]

Thanks, I was pretty much thinking the same thing (right on with daisy) -- except for the whole marriage thing. I am no way near ready for that - emotionally or financially.

As far as tickling is concerned, I would love to meet others outside the circle, but that is excruciatingly hard. I think I should clarify what I was trying to ask: when to tell anyone (new confidant) about tickling - not necessarily some girl I wanna tickle.

I realize that it be best to keep it under my hat. Thanks for the input. I've got more important things to worry about.

Hound

 

[P50]

Thanks For The Questions

I'll be happy to respond and (I hope) clarify things


From Cheshire Cat... <I> "...you've had some bad experiences in this area P50? ..." </I>

Not so much me personally, as others whom I've learned through reading and personal observations, and a not-too-distant family member as well.


<I>"... much advice ... based soley on personal bad experiences?..." </I>

The worse the experience, the smarter I become. The experiences on which I've drawn various conclusions occured mainly to other people. That's when I learned that I must shut up around certain "professionals". Believe me, this works in real life.


<I> "... out of spite to discourage others... "If I cant find a ticklee, then I'll make sure no one else can!"... I dont mean you specifically P50, ..." </I>

Whew ! Thank goodness ! I'm certainly glad you don't mean me personally ! My suggestions are meant to <B>increase</B> the odds that T-H will find a 'Lee. I am totally convinced that any words spoken outside the 1% median variance line will greatly drop his odds. It's the whole medical profession thing. Sure I can put this up on the TMF. When I need a shot or a prescription or something; shazamm ! You should see <B>my</B> speech and behavior change. The medical profession into which T-H will be going is not a normal group of people, and they can, will, and do judge an individual differently.

The signature of the wrong person in the medical community can change your personal level of civil rights and your status as a citizen; beware the term "Competent".

What I hope to discourage are acts that I am convinced will harm T-H (or generically, community members as a whole).

Thanks T-H for educating me about the 100 friends who will be your de-facto society for the next two years. I was unaware that the system was so tightly structured. I strongly encourage you to keep all statements within the 1% variance rule; stick to the median opinion on everything; no matter how stupid it is.

The medical industry is hypnotized by the concept of the median (even though their own performance, structure, constituency, and makeup is skewed by orders of magnitude). Exactly why, well, T-H, how'bout reporting back to us when you think you've figured that one out.

In the mean time; I say again: shut up ! Median, Median, Median. That's all you think about; the median cultural values.

Myriads, other psych experts; explain this to the young'uns. I'm not doing a very good job of this. Help these youth get off on the right track.


<I>"...I'm high right now too...I dunno......(*puff*) </I>

Uhhhh, yeah, ok.

 

[P50]

Oh yeah,

There's another similar (but by no means identical) thread started by yours truly. I believe the topic was "When do you tell ?"

So, just to make it clear, I want to encourage other 'Lers and 'Lees to find one another.