How to tickle non-ticklish women?

[banana]

My girlfriend is not very ticklish. After going out with me for a few months, she started to like light tickling. She sometimes tickle me a bit while we are shopping, or when we are sleeping together.
The most i have ever done to her is to sit on her hands and tickle her, for just 10 seconds, a few times. She sqhirmed quite a lot, laughed loudly and happily. Usually we just tickle each other lightly.
Her lower body is absolutely unticklish, while her sides and tummy are ticklish sometimes. I don't know how to tickle her. Should i try to tie her up? But I don't think she likes it.
Advices needed. Thanks!

 

[yatsabel1]

My wife is not very ticklish either. But its mostly a thing of letting her know that you enjoy tickling and in fact NEED tickling. People that are not very ticklish, just have to let go of the urge to resist the tickling and let their ticklephile partners squeeze out as much as they can. In fact I think this arrangement is better than being with a very ticklish person who doesn't let you get the kind of tickling action you require.

The best course of action in my opinion with this or anything else is to be as open and as honest as possible. Most of us have a tickling fetish and the worst you can do is hide it from those closest to you.

You'll be surprised at how far a loved one will go to help you feel satisfied with you tickling needs.

 

[jonareed]

My first dominant tickler was pretty much non-ticklish. I had one opportunity to tie/tickle her and she was actually quite ticklish when tied. My wife is pretty much the same. It's not really a problem for us since she's about 99.9% tickler and I'm about .1% tickler.

Personally, I become far more ticklish when aroused and teased. Some people become very ticklish right after orgasm. Why not experiment a bit?

As Yatsabel said, be honest and open about it. I'm sure you can work it out.

 

[banana]

Thanks.
Um...I didn't tell her about my tickling fetish, but I shown her by tickling her quite intensely until she asked me to stop (as she is sometimes quite ticklish). And after tickled by her, I told her I like it, and please do more next time. I don't want to express tickling to her as a fetish, but to be a game between us like sex for pleasure of both of us.
Sometimes i really want to tie her up or be tied up, but I don't think it is appropiate at this stage.

 

[ceecee2335]

When you are comfortable, your first step is telling her. (Not really the first step as much as best step.) She already knows you like tickling her. All you really have to say is you love tickling her a lot. Tell her that you find her laughter and helplessness endearing. Tell her that her movements when you are tickling her very sexy, and you enjoy it a lot.

Continue tickling her during sexual play, but tickle her during other moments too. Not all tickling has to be the same. Tickle her playfully a lot. Tickle her lightly sometimes. I really wouldn't bring up bondage until after you've told her about your fetish. (unless you usually use bondage in sexual play already... which I'm assuming you don't.)

Ask her to tickle you more. For example, maybe you both are sitting on the couch watching a movie. Place your feet in her lap. I bet she will massage and tickle them without you even asking.

Have her lay against your chest. Gently tickle her neck and her ears. Run a finger down her arm or sides sometimes.

Don't go overboard... Just be sweet with it. If she loves your touch, eventually the more you give her ticklish touches.. the more she will like it.

You can get her good too.... But try mingling the soft tickles and touches in with the more intense tickling. That way she will last longer. Sometimes it's more about the ticklish feelings than breaking someone.

Hope that helps!
CeeCee 🙂

 

[yatsabel1]

Well said.

You should tell her you have a fetish, but if you start warming her up to the fact that you enjoy tickling and need tickling it will not seem starnge when you finally break it to her.

It is very important in my opinion that you be honest. Otherwise you are buying a problem that will come back and charge you heavy interest later.