Hurting :(

[tickleshotel]

I have been doing pretty good recently , but today I was on Yahoo messenger chatting with a friend when I received a friend alert that someone wanted to have them added to my friend list. There wasn't any comments saying how he got my yahoo IM name in the first place,but thinking it might be someone into tickling, I accepted. In the beginning, we exchanged small talk asking general questions about age,location,ect and when I asked him what he looked like, he said " you first" . I went ahead and gave a description of what I look like , a few minutes later he gave me his description . Then proceeded to share pics in picture viewer, and the guy said " You call that attractive? Thanks but NO, good luck! and he abrubtly signed out of chat and logged off .
I probably shouldn;t be upset and sad over someone that I don;t know and I won't see or talk again but it still hurts and I have tears in my eyes . I don;t think I am gorgeous but I have always felt good about myself and that my looks could use some improvement but I didn;t think someone would run away screaming or accept me and get to know me as a person inside too

 

[ticklishscribe]

Laurie sweetheart... who gives a shit about him as all he is into is body alone.

To me and I'll publically say it here, you are the most beautiful girl in the world. And that includes your mind and spirit.

I can't say it any better than these words below. ​

Some day, when I'm awfully low,
When the world is cold,
I will feel a glow just thinking of you...
And the way you look tonight.

You're lovely, with your smile so warm
And your cheeks so soft,
There is nothing for me but to love you,
Just the way you look tonight.

With each word your tenderness grows,
Tearing my fears apart...
And that laugh that wrinkles your nose,
Touches my foolish heart.

You're lovely ... Never, never change.
Keep that breathless charm.
Won't you please arrange it ?
'Cause I love you ... Just the way you look tonight.

Mm, Mm, Mm, Mm,
The way you look to-night.​

I'd like to show you a picture of what I think he probably looks like. Take no notice of jerks like him and delete him from your yahoo. It's too bad you couldn't delete him period. ​

I have been doing pretty good recently , but today I was on Yahoo messenger chatting with a friend when I received a friend alert that someone wanted to have them added to my friend list. There wasn't any comments saying how he got my yahoo IM name in the first place,but thinking it might be someone into tickling, I accepted. In the beginning, we exchanged small talk asking general questions about age,location,ect and when I asked him what he looked like, he said " you first" . I went ahead and gave a description of what I look like , a few minutes later he gave me his description . Then proceeded to share pics in picture viewer, and the guy said " You call that attractive? Thanks but NO, good luck! and he abrubtly signed out of chat and logged off .
I probably shouldn;t be upset and sad over someone that I don;t know and I won't see or talk again but it still hurts and I have tears in my eyes . I don;t think I am gorgeous but I have always felt good about myself and that my looks could use some improvement but I didn;t think someone would run away screaming or accept me and get to know me as a person inside too

 

[Babyshambles]

Oh noooooo.

That's horrible. I've had it happen to me, and I know it hurts. I then changed my pic to a much better one and the problem went away. I stayed the same though.

I think you're good looking. Change your pic to something that accentuates your best features and you'll have men swarming all over you.

Men are very visual. If a supermodel dressed in a frumpy way, a man would turn down the opportunity to date her - trust me!! They can't see the potential in women or the real beauty that I can see that you possess.

Please don't be too hurt. Best way to cheer yourself up IMO. Get yourself done up really nice and take another picture.

IMO there are no ugly people. Just people who make themselves look ugly by getting out of shape. Or not eating the right food. Or not wearing the right clothes/make-up or not acting in the right way.

You probably didn't have the right combo in the pic that you shared.

If you like, you can PM me it and i'll very sensitively suggest one or two minor things that will turn you from good looking o Hello Mama!!

I have been doing pretty good recently , but today I was on Yahoo messenger chatting with a friend when I received a friend alert that someone wanted to have them added to my friend list. There wasn't any comments saying how he got my yahoo IM name in the first place,but thinking it might be someone into tickling, I accepted. In the beginning, we exchanged small talk asking general questions about age,location,ect and when I asked him what he looked like, he said " you first" . I went ahead and gave a description of what I look like , a few minutes later he gave me his description . Then proceeded to share pics in picture viewer, and the guy said " You call that attractive? Thanks but NO, good luck! and he abrubtly signed out of chat and logged off .
I probably shouldn;t be upset and sad over someone that I don;t know and I won't see or talk again but it still hurts and I have tears in my eyes . I don;t think I am gorgeous but I have always felt good about myself and that my looks could use some improvement but I didn;t think someone would run away screaming or accept me and get to know me as a person inside too

 

[Bugman]

 

[milagros317]

Laurie, you are a beautiful person inside and outside. Don't let fools bother you.

 

[kurchatovium]

Laurie you are indeed a most beautiful person dont let a few idiots hurt you like this.

 

[SamuelKhan]

People like that aren't worth losing sleep over. It's his loss. You have a ton of respect and love here, 'hotel.

 

[Babyshambles]

If you don't mind me saying, you ARE beautiful.

Very beautiful. and very tiklish and very wonderful.



Of course it hurts. I'm sorry about that. That guy was a jerk.

 

[Bel]

Laurie your a beautiful person and a great friend dont let an idiot like that hurt you. You got your friends who love you for who you are dont change. You are and will always be a very nice person.

 

[goddess_nemesis]

That guy was clearly a jackass.

I know it hurts because he took a stab at you and wounded you. But it's his loss for not taking the chance to get to know the wonderful person that you are.

You have many friends here who know that you're a beautiful person, both inside and out. That idiot doesn't know what he's talking about so don't let him get you down.

 

[kered]

Time for me to revert into my former self.............What kind of prick would invite himself into your space and be polite until he sees what he thinks is entirely below his standards of attractiveness? Why the answer is a self important asswipe who really couldn't get a second look from the waitress in a titty-bar if he had a fist full of fifties..............ok, I'm back.

Don't trouble yourself over this Laurie. We who have met you know what kind of beautiful all-around person you are. I'm done.

 

[Babyshambles]

I wish people would choose their words more carefully.

Who the hell wants to be a beautiful person anyway? Being called a beautiful person and being reminded that I have friends is like saying....

Yeah, you look like a dog, but we don't mind

Laurie your a beautiful person and a great friend dont let an idiot like that hurt you. You got your friends who love you for who you are dont change. You are and will always be a very nice person.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

don't let an ass like that get ya down, Laurie. it's his opinion vs. what we know. majority rules, babe. you rock!

 

[alf]

ah damn some people must really get a life :/

don't worry, you'll always find someone you're attractive to 🙂
i understand that this kind of telling do hurt, but don't mind too much

 

[Bizkit]

Don't sweat it.It's like they say,''you can't please everybody.''F**k em'.

 

[kis123]

TH, I know how you must've felt. Rejection sucks but rude rejection really knocks the wind out of you. I've been there and done that; in this big body it can have an exceptional sting.

Everyone's right that has previously posted to this thread but I have a little something extra. Write the bastard off as the internet-living in his mommy's basement-jacking off jerk he is and tell him to kiss your unattractive ass!

Sorry folks; feeling a little raw at the moment!

You know we love you here and we got your back!

 

[whyguy2]

I have been doing pretty good recently , but today I was on Yahoo messenger chatting with a friend when I received a friend alert that someone wanted to have them added to my friend list. There wasn't any comments saying how he got my yahoo IM name in the first place,but thinking it might be someone into tickling, I accepted. In the beginning, we exchanged small talk asking general questions about age,location,ect and when I asked him what he looked like, he said " you first" . I went ahead and gave a description of what I look like , a few minutes later he gave me his description . Then proceeded to share pics in picture viewer, and the guy said " You call that attractive? Thanks but NO, good luck! and he abrubtly signed out of chat and logged off .
I probably shouldn;t be upset and sad over someone that I don;t know and I won't see or talk again but it still hurts and I have tears in my eyes . I don;t think I am gorgeous but I have always felt good about myself and that my looks could use some improvement but I didn;t think someone would run away screaming or accept me and get to know me as a person inside too

Don't let that bother you Laurie. Like Ticklishscribe said, he was only interested in the physical appearence of women and nothing more. You are a pretty woman with a good heart

 

[asutickler]

Notice how when you asked him what he looked like, he said "you first?"

He's probably just some internet troll with low self-esteem who is out to make himself feel tough or great or whatever by putting down or hurting someone else. I really wouldn't let the opinion of such a person bother you. He'd probably say the same thing to some model or actress if he got the chance.

 

[Bohemianne]

That worthless fellow could be a eunuch, promise, he's got hang-ups in life. Cheer up!

 

[Tamia78]

Oh honey, I'm sorry you even gave that fuckoff the time of day!
As many have said, it doesn't matter what he thinks......what really matters is what WE think!

WE know you, WE love you, and WE think you're beautiful!


--T

 

[WorkInProgress]

Tickleshotel, I'm so sorry this happened to you, and it does hurt and there's no way that it won't.

What makes this man's behavior particularly reprehensible is that you never asked him to find you attractive. Attractiveness is in the eyes of the beholder, and in a genuinely intimate relationship it comes in the context of both physical and emotional attraction, and it's a fact of life, whoever you are and whatever you look like, that some people will find the chemistry to be there while others won't. But for him to approach you, start sweet-talking you, and then act as if you had somehow tried to market yourself to him is just totally beyond the pale, a personal violation. It's also a form of bigotry, because he's calling you not just different from what he's looking for, but inferior.

It will hurt, but he's an asshole--and Instant Messenger is the wrong way to look for a lover anyway.

 

[Leo tickles]

Oh, so when a friend gets fucked over for somebody being honest, he's worthless and is an asshole.

When somebody fucks me over and I call them worthless, it's my fault somehow.


How the fuck do people come up with this stuff?


Oh and BTW I think you are pretty.

 

[WorkInProgress]

No point in feeding the trolls this time around is what I say.

 

[kis123]

Oh, so when a friend gets fucked over for somebody being honest, he's worthless and is an asshole.

When somebody fucks me over and I call them worthless, it's my fault somehow.


How the fuck do people come up with this stuff?


Oh and BTW I think you are pretty.

You're damn right that it's your fault!

You don't get to determine someone else's worth and value in this world. We've had this conversatiion before and it looks it bears repeating. Your opinion isn't the final one; if she doesn't work out for you doesn't make her "worthless" it makes her not work out for you. Maybe you should stop slumming and find a group of women that works for you instead of calling them worthless and falsely pushing yourself above them. Maybe you're aiming too low in the dating department--ever think about that?? Or dare I say that you aim low because you have control and self-esteem issues that drive your choices in women? I'm assuming that you might need to review that too.

Back to topic......

If you don't find someone attractive, you (you's hypothetical here) don't have to snatch their soul in the name of "honesty". I think that's a coward's cop out and it does hurt. Women have ego too and they don't like it violated any more than a man does.

 

[kis123]

No point in feeding the trolls this time around is what I say.

You have a point but sometimes the bait is just too tempting......