Hi Twinkletoes,
Great name you have there, it should get you a lot of attention. Do be aware that you will attract the guys who have a foot fascination by using a name like that. (You decide if that's good or bad.) There are some really nice guys here who go wild over feet.
I encourage you to be slow with personal info; e.g., location, name, etc. I let folks know my country and time zone for starters; and we can talk more about things after we both invest the needed time.
You will meet your quota of TMF dingbats (some will probably say that I'm one of those dingbats) but count them as the core curriculum. When you connect with the right kind of people (and believe me, you will) the dingbats will be a memory worth laughing.
Feel free to contact me in Private Messaging (on the front page of the TMF, near the bottom) or in E-mail (available in my profile).
As for posting your picture, Myriads is the Tzar, and he handles that stuff.
The people here really do run the gamut from stupid-to-genius, from hostile-to-hospitable, from ugly-to-gorgeous, from 'Lees-to-'Lers, from 18-to-118, and everything in between
Be cool, and you'll be cool.