Just a few suggestions,,,
Read at least 50 <B><I>OLD</I></B> posts from the <I>Tickling Discussion</I> area, then comment on just one or two of them.
Look at the <I>Pen Pals</I> area, and drop one or two people a <B><I>SHORT</I></B> hello note. 3-to-10 sentences should be enough.
Don't display low self esteem, and don't display arrogant conceit. Believe me, the TMF has plenty of characters on both ends of the spectrum. The middle-road is the place to be here.
Give it <I>AT LEAST</I> six months before you declare the TMF a wasteland or nirvanna. It can easily be either for anyone.
Publicly post only stuff that you really think contributes to others' enjoyment of the TMF. I don't have a zillion posts and I'm still okay in the minds of about 99.99% of the members (especially the mods, and they count the most). You're fine with a dozen or two posts.
Beware of TMF addiction. If you do become addicted, contact me for my psychotherapy counseling service; regularly priced at $150, but reduced by half for TMF members.
