Yeah, most members have very little luck with the Pen Pals forum and the Personals forum---especially guys. When women post threads, everyone usually goes after them like stray dogs going after a piece of meat that the butcher just threw out. Then, they usually get overwhelmed by all the people pursuing them that they just disappear. But then again, I tend to think that a lot of them are more interested in the attention they get as opposed to actually making new friends.
All I can say is start posting regularly in the forums. I've been posting for a while, but I have still yet to meet anyone. Oh well. It's worth a try. heh
Good luck.