I have a foot fetish but not really attracted to my girls feet

[jloon66]

I love my girlfriend with all my heart and want to be with her forever, but her feet are just sub-par to me. Her feet are ok, if you saw them you would think they were nice. However, idk if shes into the whole foot fetish thing because we never talk about. I never really brought it up with her, but every-time we have sex I just suck her toes, and shes OK with it. maybe im overlooking this idk.
I need some help what should i do?

 

[meegs011]

if she cool with you sucking her toes thats def a good start. try complementing her feet and tell her that they turn you on. if shes really into you (seems like she is you 2 are together) she will be more than willing to try new things in an attempt to please you. also you can try this bc its worked for me and women usually like it just as much as you probably will. while having sex with her get to ride you. try sitting on the edge of a bed or just sitting up in general with her ontop of you.grab her ankles pull her feet and position them so the area above her toes(top of the foot not the soles) is resting in between your thighs.this will allow you access to stroke her feet as she rides and it also allows her to use her shins against your thighs as a spring to thrust herself.

 

[meegs011]

the biggest thing i think you need to do is talk to her about it. relationships NEED communication. how is she to know what you want if u dont tell her and vis versa. and also you cant look at her feet and think ehh theyre just ok. you should be physched that she has a nice set of feet and she lets you play with them. most guys arent so lucky and would kill to be in your position. hope this helps. im telling you if you voive your feelings and desires to you and she opens up to what your into youll love her and her feet that much more. good luck friend

 

[shynsmall310]

I don't think I understand what the problem is - is the problem...you want to make your girlfriend's feet more attractive to you?

 

[jloon66]

Sorry I wrote this last night, I was super tired. The problem is that my girlfriends feet just look plain to me, and her soles aren't as soft as I want them to be. I love her so much, but lately I've been thinking that i want to explore my foot fetish further. She only gets pedicures in the summer so for 3,seasons out or the year they just look mehh lol. She knows I have a foot fetish (i mean its obvious, I suck her toes when he have sex). But we've never talked about it with each other. I remember earlier in our relationship she said she though a foot fetish was a strange fetish (this was before she knew I had one). I told her I have one after she said that, she was just suprised (in a jestful way) we never talked about afterwards. But yea that's my problem in detail I suppose. Lol
I just see these girls with really sexy feet and I just want play with theirs, but that's not right lol. Idk what to do 🙁

 

[DarthGrinn]

1. She only gets pedicures in the summer so for 3,seasons out or the year they just look mehh lol.
2. She knows I have a foot fetish. But we've never talked about it with each other.
3. we never talked about afterwards.

Just edited what you said to drill things down a bit.

Sounds like you need to have conversation with your girl about your foot fetish, and how much it really means to you. You may have mentioned it a couple of times, but she may still not fully understand what's going on. From the little bit you told us it sounds like your girl's pretty accepting, and may even enjoy your fetish. So maybe all she needs is help in understanding what she needs to do, to make her feet more attractive.

Anybody in a relationship is no stranger to having to work on some aspect of themselves to make themselves more appealing to their partner. If it weren't for my significant other, I wouldn't have considered facial scrub, and hand lotion, and I'm thankful for that too. Bringing out the best in each other, even on the most basic and physical level, is part of what makes relationships so beautiful.

Good luck, and hopefully your conversation with her will bring you guys closer together.

 

[CoffeeBacon]

If you want to enhance your desire for her feet, try just doing vanilla things to her for a week or two and not focus on her feet. Have normal sex, etc, after going for so long without touching/doing things to her feet (or her using them on you) you will possibly be very into them and crave them so much they will appeal very attractive and sexy to you. If you just get used to them every day they won't be extra special, they will just be normal.