I have this friend......

[ticklebug101]

Hey gang,
Iv'e known my friend for going on 14 years, and I have been wanting to tie her down and attack her scince I was 18 (I'm now 22)
She knows I'm into tickling and she's fine with it, wev'e been through a lot together. But the problem is I dont know how to ask her. (And yes she's ticklish btw.)
So my question is,
how do you get some one who is not into tickling to agree to be tied down and tickled?
Thanks,
bug 🙂

 

[Bashiku]

I usually just do that like it is normal thing... they drink coffee, watch me tie them up and wonder what the heck I have in mind, but after I tie them I just give them few tickles and give them opportunity to say when.

Same should apply to you. Ask her, limit your power with safe word so she feels equal, tease her and joke around it. Nothing hard...

 

[Budweiserbob!]

An age old question, be this.
There is no definite answer, so the best thing is to ask normally.

If she's cool with the concept, then she'll give an honest answer whether it be a yes or a no.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

if it will not affect the relationship then the hollywood brother thinks you ought to ask her if she would like a tickle expereince of a lifetime that is guarenteed to satisfy alomst as much as a night riding space mountain with the hollywood brother! WOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Slaver123]

Depends how close your friend is. Close platonic friends??? Have you ever tickled her at all?? Does she trust you?? I say do what I did with my ex, after seeing her for a year I simply asked...worked out beautifully, we were together for five more years after that...

 

[locker669]

Have you ever done anything with her sexually? If she's known you for 14 years as a friend she may not think of you in any other way.

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

well she knows you're into it and is fine with that so I guess it would be fine to just ask her the worst that I can see happening is her saying no.

 

[iamnothere]

Make a bet. :6:

 

[GroovyBaby]

It could risk your friendship. I hate to be gloomy, but just trying to be honest. As a woman, and your friend she might get a kick... But in all honesty, if a male friend of mine had a foot fetish and asked to smell my feet, I would be very uncomfortable.

 

[sabaki]

But in all honesty, if a male friend of mine had a foot fetish and asked to smell my feet, I would be very uncomfortable.

I've had friends ask me for sexual things I'm not interested in. I just say I don't want to, and then we go on being friends. What is the world coming to if you can't even proposition your friends?

To OP: you know her best, so you have to figure out how to ask... or if.

If she's close-minded about kink, you probably don't have a shot. If she doesn't have any sexual feelings towards you, you probably don't have a shot. There are standard ways to figure these things out.

You don't want to trick or coerce her or "make a bet" or bargain with her. "Get her to agree to it" is the wrong mindset. Get her to want it. I doubt you'd have fun unless she was having fun too.

 

[Big_Blue]

I agree with ArfArf's statement to be honest. Personally I'd rather refrain from making such a request.

 

[SocksNTicklish]

Why not try sneaking in a few tickles? If she doesn't pull away from it, just maybe she's enjoying it. Then be bluntly honest to her about what you'd like to do with her.o.o

You said she knows you like tickles already so if she's fine with it maybe she'll be fine with your request. But don't force it on her like an idiot.o.o

 

[ticklebug101]

Cool, thanks guys 🙂

 

[tff69]

Just ask, yes, the worst that could happen is she says is no. I don't think the friendship will end due to her knowing your thing for tickling, and tell her it's not sexual, it's just for fun. Tell her that she can do it to you as well, you know you want her to!

 

[tickle120]

From personal experience,

I had a gf for about 6 months, one day we were at her house and I kind of joked about the idea of bondage in a way. Well I was tickling her then she got mad(kind of a play mad though) and i asked what was wrong? and she was mad because she couldn't tickle me back because she wasn't strong enough(she was a good 6-7 inch shorter then me, and i would pin her down sometimes). So i made a bet that if she could find a way to pin me down and tickle me at the same time, I'd let her do what she wanted. Well she thought about my joke, went to her room and came back with two 5 foot scarves...

I ended up getting tickled pretty bad, but then she allowed me to do the same to her 🙂

So the bet idea worked for me, I got tickled(which ended well ;D)... but I got to tickle her the same.

So you don't always have to ask her bluntly just roll it in smoothly, some girls dont like the straight to the point way. I've found girls are willing to share info and be more adventurous if you work your way to it, not just force it upon them.