Bagelfather
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This weekend my long time friend, west coast gathering list father, one of our mods, and my mentor DVNC was in town. Myself, my roommate (Starfires), and Lindyhopper, and another friend hooked up with him to hang out and talk and play.
On the first day (Friday) Lindyhopper, and myself had snacks and drinks with DVNC.
On the second day of hanging out (Saturday) I brought along a friend of mine who had called wanting to hang out. At this time I will keep her persona and name out of this explanation. NO she is not on the forum and I dunno if she will join at any point and time. For now I'll simply call her NS.
NS, Lindyhopper, and myself went out to dinner. We met up with DVNC after dinner while we were sitting around as he was coming back from a wedding. We hung out and chatted until it was getting dark. After dinner and chat the four of us go back to my house for coffee, and outdoor firepit with more talking. There at my house we hooked up with my roommate "Starfires."
We talked about many things most of which was tickling community related. We explained terms to NS such as ler and lee, and how the community works. She seemed surprised about the politics within a subculture of a kink community but has a better understanding of it. We talk until it gets too cold to hand outside talking. DVNC says "I would like to tie up and tickle Lindyhopper."
We really cannot play at my house because my father is in town and staying at my house for 10 days. If we did anything likely it would wake him up and/or cause issues explaining it all. Please, all of you who say "screw it just let him find out," or other such expressions you can do that with your own father and crew of tickling people. We went to Lindyhopper's place.
Starfires and DVNC secure and tickle Lindyhopper in the bedroom. I'm tired and decide to let them have their scene while I cuddle and massage with the very cute NS. NS is aware of my interest in tickling and I have talked to her about it before. In fact she had been to the one gathering I had hosted a while ago. NS is also into the BDSM scene and can switch but really enjoys Power Exchange play.
After an hour or so of listening to Lindyhopper howl in laughter and reach erotic near (at the time near) orgasmic heights NS tells me she would like to give it a try. Mind you she has told me that tickling is NOT her thing (but yes I know she is ticklish). We are not using restraints at all and she is going to try and hold still and resist being tickled. She tells me flat out "be mean, I want to see what I can take."
Considering she is involved with another couple (in a relationship) and I have NOT negotiated many things I decided to keep the play down to no lips, no tongue, no mouth, no ticklling breasts, no tickling near the crotch or touching the crotch area. Later in speaking to the other partner this was okay in how I set the limits (that is a story for another day maybe).
I started working her feet (she has very tiny size five and a halfs) and then to her sides, underarms, and knees. These are the areas I stuck with. Since she was resisting and I was keeping it a little more toned down than she had asked for I wasn't getting rolling screaming laughter but much more in the way of squeels and twisting around.
At first it was hard juding the pacing for her as she called safeword for a breather. That was the only time she had to do that as I got a better read on her going forward. I did NOT hold her down, I wanted her to keep her hands in position and just thrash.
I'm not sure how long I worked her over but it was at least 30 minutes and not more than 45 minutes. At one point she suggested a challenge where if she had pennies she would keep them between her fingers (5 pennies, five fingers) and try to take it for five minutes. I got the change out of my pocket and the timer from the fridge and said "let's do it."
She lasted 3 minutes to which she was disappointed. I reassured her for her first time that was pretty good.
A quarter of the way through the scene she said "I can see now the appeal of this." She LOVED the power exchange aspect of the scene we were doing. In fact I KNOW she loved it because 15 minutes in I could tell she was wet. I could tell by smell (I have a sensitive nose), but not in that unpleasant way mind you. She was getting very turned on by the scene. If I had known she would react this way, and if I had known how much of an attraction she had to me I would have negotiated being able to do a LOT more with her. However, I was a gentleman (her words) and kept it on friendlier terms and not going to far into the sex side of the scene.
Toward the end of the scene she was shuddering from aftershocks. She told me that she has never had aftershocks of an orgasm without the orgasm. It was the release of energy that caused these very wonderful spasms. I told her that when I am allowed to play meaner I will make her orgasm while tickling her and it will be intense. She got a very dreamy/crazed look in her eye.
She definitely wants to do this again and now understands the appeal of tickling as a form of BDSM / power exchange and likes it. This is definitely something that is going to happen again once we hammer out arrangements of me being able to play with NS. I told her than on a scale of 1 to 5 this was actually a 2 or 3 of me being mean. She was impressed and I know she wants to see 5.
I freely admit when she went to the bathroom I went in and talked to the other 3 and told them I had a convert and got my high-fives 🙂
PS: I am not seeking advice on how to tickle her or anything like that. Once things are worked out MAYBE I can post some pics or clips. She is VERY much an exhibitionist and has been in adult video shoots (solo and with others) before. Also besides tickling we will do OTHER things (bdsm and other fun activities) once things are hammered out.
In retrospect it isn't a convert (though we call it that), she is more of someone who has had their eyes opened to another form of bdsm play 🙂. Also when she commented on her hair being a mess I simply said "now you are introduced to another tickling community term - tickle hair."
Go Team Venture!
This weekend my long time friend, west coast gathering list father, one of our mods, and my mentor DVNC was in town. Myself, my roommate (Starfires), and Lindyhopper, and another friend hooked up with him to hang out and talk and play.
On the first day (Friday) Lindyhopper, and myself had snacks and drinks with DVNC.
On the second day of hanging out (Saturday) I brought along a friend of mine who had called wanting to hang out. At this time I will keep her persona and name out of this explanation. NO she is not on the forum and I dunno if she will join at any point and time. For now I'll simply call her NS.
NS, Lindyhopper, and myself went out to dinner. We met up with DVNC after dinner while we were sitting around as he was coming back from a wedding. We hung out and chatted until it was getting dark. After dinner and chat the four of us go back to my house for coffee, and outdoor firepit with more talking. There at my house we hooked up with my roommate "Starfires."
We talked about many things most of which was tickling community related. We explained terms to NS such as ler and lee, and how the community works. She seemed surprised about the politics within a subculture of a kink community but has a better understanding of it. We talk until it gets too cold to hand outside talking. DVNC says "I would like to tie up and tickle Lindyhopper."
We really cannot play at my house because my father is in town and staying at my house for 10 days. If we did anything likely it would wake him up and/or cause issues explaining it all. Please, all of you who say "screw it just let him find out," or other such expressions you can do that with your own father and crew of tickling people. We went to Lindyhopper's place.
Starfires and DVNC secure and tickle Lindyhopper in the bedroom. I'm tired and decide to let them have their scene while I cuddle and massage with the very cute NS. NS is aware of my interest in tickling and I have talked to her about it before. In fact she had been to the one gathering I had hosted a while ago. NS is also into the BDSM scene and can switch but really enjoys Power Exchange play.
After an hour or so of listening to Lindyhopper howl in laughter and reach erotic near (at the time near) orgasmic heights NS tells me she would like to give it a try. Mind you she has told me that tickling is NOT her thing (but yes I know she is ticklish). We are not using restraints at all and she is going to try and hold still and resist being tickled. She tells me flat out "be mean, I want to see what I can take."
Considering she is involved with another couple (in a relationship) and I have NOT negotiated many things I decided to keep the play down to no lips, no tongue, no mouth, no ticklling breasts, no tickling near the crotch or touching the crotch area. Later in speaking to the other partner this was okay in how I set the limits (that is a story for another day maybe).
I started working her feet (she has very tiny size five and a halfs) and then to her sides, underarms, and knees. These are the areas I stuck with. Since she was resisting and I was keeping it a little more toned down than she had asked for I wasn't getting rolling screaming laughter but much more in the way of squeels and twisting around.
At first it was hard juding the pacing for her as she called safeword for a breather. That was the only time she had to do that as I got a better read on her going forward. I did NOT hold her down, I wanted her to keep her hands in position and just thrash.
I'm not sure how long I worked her over but it was at least 30 minutes and not more than 45 minutes. At one point she suggested a challenge where if she had pennies she would keep them between her fingers (5 pennies, five fingers) and try to take it for five minutes. I got the change out of my pocket and the timer from the fridge and said "let's do it."
She lasted 3 minutes to which she was disappointed. I reassured her for her first time that was pretty good.
A quarter of the way through the scene she said "I can see now the appeal of this." She LOVED the power exchange aspect of the scene we were doing. In fact I KNOW she loved it because 15 minutes in I could tell she was wet. I could tell by smell (I have a sensitive nose), but not in that unpleasant way mind you. She was getting very turned on by the scene. If I had known she would react this way, and if I had known how much of an attraction she had to me I would have negotiated being able to do a LOT more with her. However, I was a gentleman (her words) and kept it on friendlier terms and not going to far into the sex side of the scene.
Toward the end of the scene she was shuddering from aftershocks. She told me that she has never had aftershocks of an orgasm without the orgasm. It was the release of energy that caused these very wonderful spasms. I told her that when I am allowed to play meaner I will make her orgasm while tickling her and it will be intense. She got a very dreamy/crazed look in her eye.
She definitely wants to do this again and now understands the appeal of tickling as a form of BDSM / power exchange and likes it. This is definitely something that is going to happen again once we hammer out arrangements of me being able to play with NS. I told her than on a scale of 1 to 5 this was actually a 2 or 3 of me being mean. She was impressed and I know she wants to see 5.
I freely admit when she went to the bathroom I went in and talked to the other 3 and told them I had a convert and got my high-fives 🙂
PS: I am not seeking advice on how to tickle her or anything like that. Once things are worked out MAYBE I can post some pics or clips. She is VERY much an exhibitionist and has been in adult video shoots (solo and with others) before. Also besides tickling we will do OTHER things (bdsm and other fun activities) once things are hammered out.
In retrospect it isn't a convert (though we call it that), she is more of someone who has had their eyes opened to another form of bdsm play 🙂. Also when she commented on her hair being a mess I simply said "now you are introduced to another tickling community term - tickle hair."
Go Team Venture!
Man, that was a hell of a weekend... 
I hope you'll bring her to our gathering in August. 
