I MET SOMEONE, WISH ME LUCK

[BBGuy5240]

So I had been trying Online Dating, and for a while I wasn't having any luck. But then I got a Message from Someone. She asked if she wanted to get to know eachother and I said Sure. So we got to talking, asking questions back and forth and stuff. Talking about our Hobbies, Future Plans, Likes/Dislikes, etc.

After talking for a while, I decided to bring up my Fetishes. I just Nonchalantly brought up my Tickling Fetish to see how she would react to it. I was nervous as Hell to be Honest with you. She thought it was different, but she said that everyone has their different Quirks, and she's actually OK with it. Then I brought up my other ones, and she's OK with them. So She would be OK with me Tickling Her, Playing with & Worshiping her Feet, and Her Belly/Navel. I told her that I'd make any new experience forHer as Soothing as Possible. Because I'd want her to feel comfortable. And she respects my Privacy so she won't tell anyone else. I also told her that she would have full permission to tickle me back 😉 She said that her worst spots are her Feet and Sides, but I'm interested in finding out where else she's Ticklish.

Eventually we decided to meet in Person. We met at the Mall and we had a Nice Time, we walked around for a while, stopped at a couple of Stores, and then got something to eat and just got to know eachother more.

She's actually Never been in a Relationship before, so for now we're just friends. But she knows that I do like her, and I told her that I respected her wishes on taking things slow, and that I was willing to wait until she was ready to take our Relationship to the Next Level. Because I do want this to work. Not just because she's ok with my Fetishes, but because she's a really Nice Person, and we have a lot in common.

And She's a Baltimore Ravens Fan, so hopefully if we end up a Couple, we can make some Football Tickling Bets 😉

So hopefully I'll have an Update soon.

 

[milagros317]

Good luck with this! 😀
It sounds like a very promising beginning.

 

[Gothika]

wish ya the best man

 

[GQguy]

Take it easy bro. Good luck!

 

[kis123]

Looks like you're off to a nice start...congratulations!

Take your time to make sure you both are with the right person and let the relationship define itself (friends, lovers, couple, etc).

Wish you both the very best of outcomes...

 

[Mitchell]

Sounds very cool. That's good about you being able to bring up your fetishes so early in the relationship, and that she seemed okay with them.

Good Luck. Hope everything works out for you.

 

[BBGuy5240]

Update: We're still just Friends. We're still talking and stuff, but she got a Busy Schedule. So I don't know the next time we'll meet. For now, it's just a wait and see approach.

And we did agree that since we're not a Couple (at least not yet) we could see/talk to other people. If it doesn't work, I'll be disappointed but not too much. Because I did gain a New Friend in the Process who doesn't think of me as a Freak, and understands my Fetishes. And totally respects my Privacy. Plus she did say that She may still be interested in experiencing them, even if we're just Friends.

 

[GQguy]

Keep your option open bro. I know it may seem like women that are open to fetishes are 1 in a million...but that's a total lie. Women that are into you will accept your fetish. The hottest and most in demand women on the planet are fulfilling some kinky fetishes for guys they're head over heels for as you read this.

Keep dating man, and don't worry about relationships. Just worry about showing the both of you a great time. The relationship part will fall into place as long as you guys are having fun.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Keep your option open bro. I know it may seem like women that are open to fetishes are 1 in a million...but that's a total lie. Women that are into you will accept your fetish. The hottest and most in demand women on the planet are fulfilling some kinky fetishes for guys they're head over heels for as you read this.

Keep dating man, and don't worry about relationships. Just worry about showing the both of you a great time. The relationship part will fall into place as long as you guys are having fun.

Awesome post, my friend. 😀

 

[Jagermeistered]

Update: We're still just Friends. We're still talking and stuff, but she got a Busy Schedule. So I don't know the next time we'll meet. For now, it's just a wait and see approach.

And we did agree that since we're not a Couple (at least not yet) we could see/talk to other people. If it doesn't work, I'll be disappointed but not too much. Because I did gain a New Friend in the Process who doesn't think of me as a Freak, and understands my Fetishes. And totally respects my Privacy. Plus she did say that She may still be interested in experiencing them, even if we're just Friends.

Way to go, BB!

There is nothing wrong with a friend with potential benefits.

But, keep your eyes open, and keep smiling... 😀

 

[BBGuy5240]

Thanks for the Support Guys 🙂

The door is always gonna be open for Her. (At least until I'm officially in a Relationship with someone else) Because she's a really Cool Person. And I'm not just saying that because she's Ok with my Fetishes. I'm not gonna lie, that's a Huge Bonus though lol

I'm not just gonna jump right into another Relationship. But I'm defiantly keeping my Options Open. But for now, I'm just gonna do Me.

And I'd totally be Ok with being "Friends With Benefits"

And remember, this would be her First Real Relationship. So it's understandable that she'd be a little Hesitant.

 

[Antarion]

Is that a thing now? I must not be familiar with the aspects of adult dating, I've had all of one week-long relationship in my 18 year old life, but... Isn't your fetish something you should only tell someone you're already intimate with? Isn't that kinda like saying "I know it'll be of relevance later, so Imma just let you know now." That sounds odd to me.

Maybe It's a "Grown up" Thing.

 

[BBGuy5240]

Is that a thing now? I must not be familiar with the aspects of adult dating, I've had all of one week-long relationship in my 18 year old life, but... Isn't your fetish something you should only tell someone you're already intimate with? Isn't that kinda like saying "I know it'll be of relevance later, so Imma just let you know now." That sounds odd to me.

Maybe It's a "Grown up" Thing.

The Dating Site has a Question Section. And your Answers are Compared when you visit other Members Profiles. There were actually a Fetish Related One. She answered that she didn't know to much about Fetishes, but that she's Very Open Minded.

I guess I was thinking at the time, that if we did end up in a Serious Relationship, I wouldn't want to take the Chance that that would be the Reason the Relationship Ended.

Now Don't get me Wrong, I was Nervous when I first brought it up. And I had immediate second thoughts when I send the First Message about it.

I guess I was just Lucky.

Obviously I'm not gonna do that with Everyone I talk to on the Dating Site, that's Insane. I think that I just got a good feeling about this one.