Wow, that's a tricky topic, but here's my take on it. Sometimes, through small tickles, along with lots of affectionate non-tickling hugging, caressing and massaging, you can slowly introduce the idea that it is fun and playful. With patience and good timing, she may begin to see it as something she could enjoy, not just be tortured by it. That said, there are some people, men and women, who HATE being tickled, period. You just have to see if their reactions are consistently negative to it, and know when to stop attempting to "help them see the light." LOL. Good luck with your gal!
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