I think its time to be honest with myself!

[shaneverylee]

Hello all,

After a very nice and long conversation with Shy M Lee, I have decided myself what is right for me also. I don't wanna be a copy cat but I'm pretty much fully gay. I can't help myself from those feelings and damn it I'm gonna roll with it from now on. So any Bi or Gay M Ler's and Lee's who wanna pm me to chat are more than welcome to be friends with me.

Thanks all for your understanding,

Shane

 

[CellarDweller]

Congrats on coming out, Shane!

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

Again, there is truly NOTHING WRONG with being gay, lesbian, trans, or just plain different. Don't ever let intolerant idiots convince you your a freak hun. We're all friends here on the theater and glad your here. (hugs shaneverylee) ^v~

 

[11225]

My agreement is for Rox My Sox, because I think it's doesn't matter if you're gay, bi, or anything. I'm straight, but I still respect those that are not.

 

[Tom Tickle]

Well done for being honest with your sexuality. I hope life becomes a lot more fulfilling through this acceptance.

 

[bostontickletoy]

I'm so happy for you, and I hope you are still experiencing the same joy. I definitely believe there is a spectrum of sexuality, and many evolve along that spectrum. I started out with bisexual attraction but monogamous heterosexual relations, as I was religious at the time. Then, there was a time I was open to either same or opposite sex relations. Now, while still having bisexual attractions, I only desire intimacy with guys. Do you feel this counts as gay?

 

[Senshi1]

Good on you for coming out, mate. 🙂 I bet you feel like a great big weight has been lifted off you.

 

[CellarDweller]

I started out with bisexual attraction but monogamous heterosexual relations, as I was religious at the time. Then, there was a time I was open to either same or opposite sex relations. Now, while still having bisexual attractions, I only desire intimacy with guys. Do you feel this counts as gay?

As a gay man, I would not define you as gay. I would say that you are bisexual, with a preference toward gay relationships.

 

[TKLVR181]

As a gay man, I would not define you as gay. I would say that you are bisexual, with a preference toward gay relationships.

Agreed. I'm bi, but have bonded to and married a man and choose to live my life as a part of a monogamous heterosexual coupling--doesn't mean I don't find girls hot :stickout

~K

 

[Senshi1]

I just realised I replied to an old thread. My bad. BTT, I'm afraid I don't have enough experience in that regard to give you a reliable answer, but I do hope you find one, and I hope it helps you out and gives you some personal clarity. 🙂

 

[tklvelvet]

Just let your hair down and enjoy your life and ignore the anti people with narrow minds.

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

I almost wish I was gay, just because I imagine it would increase my chances for tickling fun substantially.* That said, I echo the sentiments of the other respondents, and would wish you only the best of what life has to offer you, in whatever shape or form that takes for you!:flower:








*Parsed from an old Woody Allen quote.

 

[bostontickletoy]

It'll be great when people are able to love whom they love without judgment. The scariest thing I did was come out to my best friend and say I had feelings for him. Much to my surprise, he said he felt the same way, but was afraid to jeopardize a friendship of three decades. Now I feel like the luckiest guy in the world. We can talk about girls and still love each other mind, body, and soul.

 

[bostontickletoy]

Shaneverylee, whomever you can love wholly is always the right one. I'm glad you found peace of mind.

 

[TKLVR181]

It'll be great when people are able to love whom they love without judgment. The scariest thing I did was come out to my best friend and say I had feelings for him. Much to my surprise, he said he felt the same way, but was afraid to jeopardize a friendship of three decades. Now I feel like the luckiest guy in the world. We can talk about girls and still love each other mind, body, and soul.

That is amazing and totally inspiring. I am overjoyed for you both!

~K