I'd like to know honestly ,do my posts,threads really share myself?

[tickleshotel]

Some of you may have to excuse me making this thread as I find myself in a reflective mood as I recall my time here on the forum . But I am wanting to hear from others here whether when they read my threads,posts that it is sharing myself because I do want to know honestly if there are threads of discussion,posts that the forum members dislike reading or something they want to see more of.

Looking back I see alot of posts in the silly forum but I do have quite a lot in Tickling and General Discussion as well .
From what I feel personally , I feel I have grown a bit in some ways from having the forum being a part of me and I am cutting back a little on the banter that happens but besides sharing my love of tickling with others here it is my intention to share myself so others can get to know me for who I am ,..not just tickling related .

So , share if you'd like about what you'd like to see me do more of and less of ..I don't want to post something that some might get agitated about and I don't want all or alot of my posts to look the same or not be sharing what others might like to see ..

 

[Excess]

Well you could do what I do...

And just post whatever you want when you want, and not give a shit what others think. But then maybe that's just me, and I'm not exactly an interesting poster anyway 😛 Thing is though that you'll probably ALWAYS agitate someone; I've learned that there's usually no way around it. Hell, you'll agitate someone by trying NOT to agitate them.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Hugs to you Tickleshotel-don't let it get you down and know you are loved

Tickleshotel,

I know what you are saying friend and I can understand where you are coming from. I know what you are saying and I know what you mean. I must say this is indeed a very interesting and a very neat thread. I guess friend it is like this-do the best that you can-do your best to be there for others on TMF and do your best to be there for your TMF pals that you have had such a strong emotional bond and great friendship with for so many years and for so long. Say and do the best you can-be kind in what you do and in what you say-always put your best into it and put your heart in what you say and do-guess all you can do is hope and pray for the best.

No matter what you do-sadly many times don't matter how sweet or how kind or how much you try to say and do the right thing and say and do great things for people-sadly too many times-the heartfelt effort never truly ever feels like it is truly greatly appreciated and never ever really feels like
it is recognized too many times. It is like this-sadly in this world we live in today-people will say, think and do what they wish-sadly you can't change how people feel, what they will say, and what they will do and how they will behave. All you can do is try your best to be the best you that you can be and hope that in time-others and those you greatly love and care for that are your friends and ones that you are very close to you-will eventually see the great amazing traits and qualities you possess and will learn to appreciate you and show it with kind loving thoughtful actions and in words. but sadly that is not always a guarantee and that doesn't always happen.

So guess my best advice to you would be. Do the best you can do and show loving kind actions and words and if that doesn't work-do the best you can to not let it drag you down and do your best to shake the dust from your feet and do your best to find the strength and courage to be brave and don't take it to heart if that is even possible-and try to move past it friend. If those close to you and your friends can't accept and love you unconditionally and also be there for you in bad times along with the good times-you got to ask the question-are they really your true friends.

True friends have your back and they are there for you when the storms of life come crashing around all around you and the nights are dark and scary-dark nights of the soul-seem like those lonely lingering nights of disappointment and great heartache will never end. They are there for you to help lift you up and help inspire you and help you get back on solid ground and back on your feet. They are there to listen and be there for you-love you and support you emotionally through the troubles you are going through and they don't bail and leave when the storms crash in. Not trying to be mean-but it is true, true friends don't bail when things get rough-they are there for you no matter what.

Tickleshotel you are not doing anything wrong. You are just posting things that you think others would enjoy and love to read-posting things that you think might be very helpful and very entertaining also for others to read and reply to. You keep doing what you are doing. You are a great friend and a wonderful person-you are there for so many people and so many here on the TMF and here for so many of your TMF buddies-just know your heartfelt efforts and love that you send to others and your buddies is appreciated and greatly recognized and sure I can echo sentiment of many that lives' you have touched and greatly made happier and more joyful and special-thank you tickleshotel for being such a great friend and for being so friendly, kind, and sweet and loving-welcoming so many here on TMF

also thank you to dimple toes also-being another co-host of chat room hugger/ greeter, you and dimpletoes do an amazing excellent job greeting and hugging so many and making others feel great and feel very much welcomed and feel unique and special and feel accepted and loved for just who they are, so for that and much more thank you tickleshotel and dimpletoes, you are great friends.

Thanks again for all you say and do tickleshotel,

TickleBunny 2

 

[Leo tickles]

Your posts are meaningful, and you are a great person because of them.

Pssst: do I fit in yet?

 

[KrazieDog]

Laurie, I've seen you post from the beginning and to me you always came off as a sweet lady and are liked by most. Don't know if that exactly answers the question, but it's what I always thought.

 

[ticklishscribe]

I love you for who you are and for who you are here. If someone rains on one of your posts then who cares, it's their problem not yours.

You are one of the strongest people I know, having held onto your beliefs through adversity and never giving up on your dreamks. Because of that I think we have all benifited from knowing you and are much stronger ourselves.



I love you. ​

 

[tickleshotel]

And just post whatever you want when you want, and not give a shit what others think. But then maybe that's just me, and I'm not exactly an interesting poster anyway 😛 Thing is though that you'll probably ALWAYS agitate someone; I've learned that there's usually no way around it. Hell, you'll agitate someone by trying NOT to agitate them.

Excess , thank you for your response!. Yes I do agree to a point that I could just post whatever I want and when and I do that for the most part . In some ways I don't care what others think because I am going to do what I am going to do anyways but it would be helpful to understand and know what others would like to see .Not because I am worried about what others think or say but because it would be helpful to aid me to understand and receive feedback. That way I can be a better me for those on the TMF who are friends of mine and for those who are newbies and who also may be acquaintances .

Well that may be true Excess that someone may be agitated however with good solid communication I believe that most differences of opinion and people not seeing eye to eye can most times be peacefully either negotiated , or people can come to a compromise or civil terms if both parties or persons involved in the conflict are willing to agree to disgree .

 

[DimpleToes]

honey.. all I can say is keep in mind all our phone calls/conversations... dont allow anyone to make you feel anything... its your choice..your stronger than that and you know it. You are loved and have many freinds in here... hey you go the best one of all in me...a true sissy who can laugh and cry with you and tell you the truth when ya dont want to hear it knowing it comes from a heart of love...

Loves Ya Bunches,
HUGSSSSSSS/Lisa

 

[milagros317]

Tickleshotel, you do share quite a lot in your serious posts. 😀
But there's nothing wrong with "fluff" posts in the Silly Stuff Forum when you feel like it, just for fun.

 

[WorkInProgress]

There's truly no one right answer, especially when you consider that your journey still has chapters ahead that you can't possibly foresee now. Your posts on this board are fine, and they truly exemplify the fact that this is a community of sharing, and one that's accessible to us wherever the internet reaches, country or city, north or south. So keep posting, and even more importantly, keep living the journey of your life. By the way, cootchie-cootchie-coo. I look forward to tickling you again.