If you could, would you turn your girl/guy of your dreams into a tickle fetishist?

[hungman1]

Let's say you met a person who is your girl/guy of your dreams, he/she has fallen in love with you too but really hates tickling. Doesn't want to hear anything about it, neither any other kink, doesn't care even to try just once and that's not about to change.

Now let's say that with the push of a button, this girl/guy of your dreams will develop a tickle fetish. Tickling will be a huge turn on for her/him. Preferences that have to do with favourite spots, tickle tools or love for a certain role play situation will perfectly match yours. He/she will develop any other kinks you would chose.
You know for sure that if you tell her/him that, she/he will totally deny to push that button and will threat you that will leave you if you dare to push it (and really means this).
But if you don't tell her/him and just push it, then she/he will embrace your fetishes and eventually will adore them and will be more than happy to fullfill your ultimate fantasies and will be equally turned on by them. He/she will never know that has developed these because of you, will think that had this fetishes hidden and you made them come out.

Would you do it?

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

No,because I would like them the way they are regardless and I don't agree with forcing things on people

 

[Frost King]

Yeah i agree you can't force something on someone

 

[TyrantRaveAB]

depends... so just how bad does she hate it?? n.n

i mean, i love tickling girls that hate it. lol its like, 4times more fun. XD

 

[Journia]

I'd tell her, and then I'd do it. Why? because if she wants to be with me, she's going to have to come out of her shell. If she doesn't do it opn her own, I'm going to crack the shell myself.

Am I too mean? Nope!

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

I dated a beautiful woman once who hated it, and thoughts of bondage in general would bring an anger out of her i saw at no other time. Once, in a really dark space, she told me she'd been held down and tickled against her will twice in her life. So, no, I knew this wasn't going to happen, and that I'd have to keep my secret life a secret, though I would have loved to play with her like that.
Which such a strong root in a negative experience, I doubt a push of a button is going to change that. So no, I wouldn't do it.
Interesting fantasy, but that's about it.

 

[Journia]

I dated a beautiful woman once who hated it, and thoughts of bondage in general would bring an anger out of her i saw at no other time. Once, in a really dark space, she told me she'd been held down and tickled against her will twice in her life. So, no, I knew this wasn't going to happen, and that I'd have to keep my secret life a secret, though I would have loved to play with her like that.
Which such a strong root in a negative experience, I doubt a push of a button is going to change that. So no, I wouldn't do it.
Interesting fantasy, but that's about it.

And you didn't consider, letting her see that it wasn't as bad as it had been? Alas.

 

[GoldenTXT]

I definitely would.

 

[melanie2]

I've been living with the man of my dreams for about a thousand years it seems lol..and no...i would not...i like him as he is...except for his snoring...now ask that question...if you could keep your true love from having a snoring fetish would you? o hell yes...

 

[duannewalton]

Probably not. The decision has to be theirs.

 

[Stage Whisper]

If this was the situation, then no. No way. How could I say I loved that person if I were going to force them into something against their will? I'd feel way, waaaaay too guilty about it. Besides, I'm happy just watching tickling/experiencing it as friendly play. It's not like it'd be the end of the world if an S.O. didn't want any part of tickling.

 

[The_Crusader]

Hm. To be able to strip the girl of my dreams of her free will and turn her into my little tickle toy with the push of a button...the power of the great deceiver is not used lightly. Every action has an equal and opposing reaction. Were one to do this their dream person would simply become a machine, made unto your own design for your own pleasures. No. I could not do that to my girl.

 

[Journia]

Hm. To be able to strip the girl of my dreams of her free will and turn her into my little tickle toy with the push of a button...the power of the great deceiver is not used lightly. Every action has an equal and opposing reaction. Were one to do this their dream person would simply become a machine, made unto your own design for your own pleasures. No. I could not do that to my girl.

...ah....how philosophical.

 

[hungman1]

I'd tell her, and then I'd do it. Why? because if she wants to be with me, she's going to have to come out of her shell. If she doesn't do it opn her own, I'm going to crack the shell myself.

Well according to the situation i described, if you tell her.. you lose her :stickout

I will give some more food for discussion. I will use she instead of he/she, but i mean both genders. There's the fact that when she will be turned into a tickle fetishist, probably she won't feel complete as far as it concerns her sexual life if tickling is not a part of it. Accidents do happen, relationships can be broken. She might lose her beloved tickle partner and then she is alone. Then she has three choices, try to find a new tickle fetishist, introduce her new affair into tickle games or compromise with a relationship with no or a little tickling. Any of the above three options might not be an easy task for her. So open mindness as far as it concerns sexuality will come with a cost.

Isabeau that's an interesting question too.. eliminating your partner's fetish without his/her wish!

 

[Carnivore]

The way you described it? No. Even if post-button push, they now think its awesome, you're changing them in a very non-consensual way. If someone could push a button that'd make you 300 pounds and like being hugely fat, would you think that's acceptable? Probably not. If you truly care about them, and don't just desire them as a hot body, you have to say no.

Now, I can easily picture a rosier scenario: They're really put off by tickling, but if that button could make them enjoy it, they'd willingly submit to it. From your partner's perspective, they now get to share in something you enjoy, and enjoy it too. Don't we all, at some level, want to please our partners? That sounds like a dream scenario: *beep* now we enjoy the same kinds of play. Now we'll likely have a better and much more active sex life!

 

[heroforhalos]

I'd have to say No, but for different reasons that have only taken full form in my mind recently.
At first when I read your question I was like "of fucking course I would press that button!" but aside from fairness to partner, etc, etc, I caught myself thinking-- what is it that I enjoy about tickling, besides the feeling?

One thing I realized that I enjoy the most is also the most embarrassing part-- it being this dark secret, and having it teased out of me. I'm not just helpless to the ticklish assault, but the word "tickle" itself, I can barely utter it.
And if my partner was as into it as I was, it wouldn't be hardly as "shameful" for me.
So having a partner who is willing to indulge, but also harmlessly mocks me for it, especially during, is ideal.

I guess I never realized how much I liked the verbal aspect until recently, that when my partner smirks and says "aw, what's wrong? what're you giggling for, huh? Huh? Ticklish?-- huh? heheheh... You like that, don't you? Admit it-- tickle, tickle tickle..." I just lose it.

I feel like if I knew my partner was just as into it as I was that element would be missing, or at least missing in its sincerity. And the crazysillytwisted feeling I get inside of me when that secret is dragged out, tickles about as much as anything physically could.

...does that make any sense?