I was just wondering if it's unusual for a female to embrace the fetish the way I do?? It seems as though most of the members here are Male and it seems like the fetish is dominated by Males. I know there's women out there like Goddess Dee and Jamie Daniels and other women that are important figures in the industry but we are still outnumbered. I mean I know most of the lee's are females but I'm both a lee and ler and I don't enjoy the fetish unless it involves another woman. But I'm not lesbian AT ALL. Is that strange?
No its not strange iam bi and i love tickling other women and it dosn't always lead to sex and rarely does it lead to a relashionship.
My partner is also bi and she hates tickling there is no way on gods earth she is ever going to tickle or be tickled,(and god knows i have tried) fine with bondage and other fetish stuff, we are lovers but not ticklers together.
iam both mainly ler about 30% lee possibly less, i have a small circle of very close friends of several years standing and we meet not often, but regular during the year for meetings revolving around tickling.
I will upset a lot of people but my feeling is that tickling is more a girly thing, the lighter touch and sensual nature, the calm not rush attitude lends itself more to tickling.
Ther must be some poles on here somewhere telling us whats the ratio, but i think a lot of guys want to tickle females, not always sexual,some women want to tickle guys not many, most women will tickle other girls, not many men will tickle other men.
But if you look at bdsm forget about the bondage look at the dominant submissive thing, the ratios would be different its not uncommon for guys to want to be dominated hence the femdom miss whip lash senarios. thats about domination and submission on a slave /master slave /mistress type sotuation.
www.mydungeonspace.com may have some polls on that .
Tickling lends itself to bondage on a domination and submissiv situation without the master /slave mistress/slave situation.
You being straight and wanting to tickle other women isn't strange in my book by any stretch of the imagineation.
Remember if its all consentual and you both enjoy it and it dosn't lead to injury or the wreakage of a mariiage or relashionship why be over concerned, we are all different, tickling is all things to all people.
My comments could start a whole debate on their own not everyone sees things the same way if its right for you enjoy yourself.