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I'm single because of tickle torture!

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ticklishgirlx1

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Hi there

My boyfriend recently dumped me because of tickle torture. He was recently at my house and after a few too many drinks, he fell asleep on my bed. I never tickle tortured him before and always wanted too. I managed to tie his arms and legs to the bed posts. He soon woke up and was confused to what was happening. I started tickling his sides slightly and he was like "what are you doing" but i didn't answer and carried on. He straight away got annoyed and had a go at me. I giggled and moved to his armpits where he is very ticklish and he was squirming and stretching and desperately trying to break free. I kept tickling him and he was getting more angry. The more angry he got, the more I wanted to torture him and carried on for the besr part of an hour. I eventually untied him and he was not happy. He stormed off and then text me saying it was over. 😱

I think i'm too obsessed with tickling, what do you think?
 
Did he know about your fetish before? There's definitely a time and place for everything, I can see why he'd be upset if it was his first time finding out about it.
 
I don't know if the issue is how obsessed you are over tickling. Because God knows we could have a huge debate on this site on just what being overly obsessed over tickling looks like. However, if you knew that your boyfriend wanted to be tortured without mercy that would have been fine. While I personally love tickling, i actually don't like being tickled, so I can understand why he was upset with you. So next to your lore a guy into your room for some tickles I recomend talking about it first, and the use of a safe word 😀
 
Well that's how non-con goes. You usually only get one shot at it. Hope it was worth it.
 
outcast said:
I don't get it, your profile says LEE
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This is likely the classic case of a bs story by someone that wants attention. I find it hard to believe that she would've managed to get him tied up to the bed without waking him up unless he was completely passed out from drinking way too much. Second, I'm not entirely convinced a guy would dump a girl for tickling him, even if tied up. He may get pissed or weirded out, but I don't think he'd dump her.
 
ticklishgirlx said:
Hi there

My boyfriend recently dumped me because of tickle torture. He was recently at my house and after a few too many drinks, he fell asleep on my bed. I never tickle tortured him before and always wanted too. I managed to tie his arms and legs to the bed posts. He soon woke up and was confused to what was happening. I started tickling his sides slightly and he was like "what are you doing" but i didn't answer and carried on. He straight away got annoyed and had a go at me. I giggled and moved to his armpits where he is very ticklish and he was squirming and stretching and desperately trying to break free. I kept tickling him and he was getting more angry. The more angry he got, the more I wanted to torture him and carried on for the besr part of an hour. I eventually untied him and he was not happy. He stormed off and then text me saying it was over. 😱

I think i'm too obsessed with tickling, what do you think?
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no u arnt he is just a jurk for dumping u for that i have a foot fetish i love feet i wish i could massage and worship and tickle feet every day u like what u like
 
oh hun.. sorry about your boyfriend dumping you.. but if he didn't know earlier about your fetish he could really got freaked out! when using bondage you should always ask if the person agrees on it otherwise they may got really uncomfortable. I don't think that you are too much obsessed with tickling, only as for a tickle torture your first time with him was to agressive. hope everything will turn right for you!
 
I'm not sure its exactly that you're too obsessed, it's that you really did not understand boundaries. You tied up your boyfriend without his permission, and tickled him for the better part of an hour while he got progressively more pissed off at you. Honestly, what did you think was going to happen? I'd say most people, especially men, do not enjoy being tickled. He was completely right to break up with you for that, and I would have done the same.

It takes a lot of trust to be tied up by someone else. And you completely violated that trust by doing it without consent. And you continued to violate that trust by not letting him out when you asked. That signifies that you didn't respect his well being very much. If you get off on the non-consensual aspect, fine, but you can't actually act out on that. It borders on rape.

If "too obsessed" means you can't help but torture a significant other against his will, then hell yes you're too obsessed. Let this be a lesson to you, and for fuck's sake don't do that again.
 
There is a time and place, I think since you just tied him up and tickled him, even though he said stop and didn't agree it made the situation worse than it could've if maybe you discussed it with him ahead of time, though maybe it was a little too much to just break up with you
 
ticklishgirlx said:
Hi there

My boyfriend recently dumped me because of tickle torture. He was recently at my house and after a few too many drinks, he fell asleep on my bed. I never tickle tortured him before and always wanted too. I managed to tie his arms and legs to the bed posts. He soon woke up and was confused to what was happening. I started tickling his sides slightly and he was like "what are you doing" but i didn't answer and carried on. He straight away got annoyed and had a go at me. I giggled and moved to his armpits where he is very ticklish and he was squirming and stretching and desperately trying to break free. I kept tickling him and he was getting more angry. The more angry he got, the more I wanted to torture him and carried on for the besr part of an hour. I eventually untied him and he was not happy. He stormed off and then text me saying it was over. 😱

I think i'm too obsessed with tickling, what do you think?
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what do I think? I think probably playing a bit more of an erotic role with the tickling may have helped a bit more.

Thats not to say I'm a relationship expert at all, I'm a complete failure in that area.

But I do set myself a few rules when I date: 1, let her know because it sucks like hell to find that she's not even willing to accept it. 2, Be extremely gentle, while knowing when to vary it up, slow down, let her catch her breath, etc. 3, know when to lay off. nuff said.
 
You fulfilled the fantasy of many people here. Too bad your BF wasn't one of them. To each his own.
 
I feel like these things are happening more and more recently. For some reason every time i date or hang with a girl they develop a love for tickling, I have been "seeing" this girl for about 2 weeks exclusively after breaking up with a recent gf and both grew a love for tickling, either I am a lot more amazing then i think i am, or i am taking the right approach with my fetish, OR just damn lucky
 
I agree with everything Carnivore said.

If your story is true, he didn't leave you because you tickled him. He left because you restrained him against his will, you tortured him against his will, and you ignored his requests that you stop.

You crossed boundaries regarding trust and personal space, and even though I enjoy tickling, I would never put my boyfriend through something like that. And if I were put through something like that, I'd leave too.
 
After reading what happened and reading the comments from other people....I'm gonna have to lean toward his right to leave, I'm afraid. Not to show that I'm mad but having trust is critical and one wrong move could make you lose trust and friendship.

You sound like you're a tickler which is understanding...but as they said...it's all about timing and right approach. Reason being:

Timing: You can never tell that someone may or may not have something in mind that you like...so it's a good idea to get to know one another to build up trust. Simply talking and what not...keeping the topic off tickling for as long as needed. Unless you want to be like some people that brings the topic in too soon and freak some people out with a snap.

Right Approach: Now even though you might find someone that might be into being tickled...I'm afraid going all out at once don't always be the best solution for sometimes it can negatively hit you hard and you won't like it at all. Instead, take it slow and try to make it playful at a right time, if the hint you give shows that he doesn't like it, then go got any deeper.

What I'm saying is, since he decided to leave you and break up with you...let that memory be a lesson for you, and when you find a new one...think twice than taking a good opportunity to take action. You know what I'm saying?
 
The boyfriend isn't back yet? I wouldn't be surprised if you told us he surprised you and came back and let you tie him up again. :blush
 
That probably wasn't the best course of action, it might be ideal for "one of us" persay but for someone that isn't familiar with this fetish would be freaked out, being woken up tied up spreadeagle and all, so I don't think you're obesseded with tickling, you just didn't think this out too well ^^;
 
I'm not gonna lie... I'm not surprised he left. Seriously, you tied him up and tickle tortured him against his will. Not a smart move.
 
FT Genikit said:
After reading what happened and reading the comments from other people....I'm gonna have to lean toward his right to leave, I'm afraid. Not to show that I'm mad but having trust is critical and one wrong move could make you lose trust and friendship.

You sound like you're a tickler which is understanding...but as they said...it's all about timing and right approach. Reason being:

Timing: You can never tell that someone may or may not have something in mind that you like...so it's a good idea to get to know one another to build up trust. Simply talking and what not...keeping the topic off tickling for as long as needed. Unless you want to be like some people that brings the topic in too soon and freak some people out with a snap.

Right Approach: Now even though you might find someone that might be into being tickled...I'm afraid going all out at once don't always be the best solution for sometimes it can negatively hit you hard and you won't like it at all. Instead, take it slow and try to make it playful at a right time, if the hint you give shows that he doesn't like it, then go got any deeper.

What I'm saying is, since he decided to leave you and break up with you...let that memory be a lesson for you, and when you find a new one...think twice than taking a good opportunity to take action. You know what I'm saying?
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the "mad" part may have also come from him waking up hung over.........just sayin.....
 
scorpionldr said:
the "mad" part may have also come from him waking up hung over.........just sayin.....
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That depend on how he got hung over in the first place. He did stormed out after she tickled him for so long while he was tied down.
 
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