Important questions about tickle fetish (PLEASE READ)

[bsb15]

So I've had a fetish for several years now...since I was probably three or four...I miss those days, where everything was ok (i used to tickle the 17 year old Danish nanny in the armpits...my god was that fun 🙂 ) and these days, I have a problem. every single day that I can, I watch tickling videos online and stuff, but it leaves me with a longing to tickle someone...and I MUST satisfy this need but I have never been able to.
Also, does anyone know if a tickling fetish can be inherited from your parents?
Which brings me to my final question, how do you know if someone has a tickle fetish. I ean, ever since I was younger I remeber things that just make it seem like my mom has or had a tickling fetish. Over the course of a year, she would sort of tickle me for a second here and a minute there for probably about a total of 5 minutes a year, and each of my other two brothers another 5 minutes a year (I did the math...technically she owes me over an hour of tickle time)...plus she would always make references that I still remember but was too young to know at the time...One example is she would sit on my ankles, and say she was pinning me. Another time she said she had me ina hogtie. Are these just natural terms and ways, or does she have a fetish?
I've never told anyone about my fetish yet, and I don't plan to but should I? Also, I know its wrong and the thought makes me want to puke but I am DYING to tickle someone...and my mom does seem to have a fetish...and she is the most ticklish person I've ever seen.
So again, those questions:
1. can a tickle fetish be inherited by genes
2. does my mom have a fetish
3. How do i satisfy my fetish needs
4. Is it really so disgusting to approach family and tell them of my fetish in order to relieve my needs? I mean if you don't have a fetish, tickling could seem like a mother-son bonding experience...for me it would just be satisfing a raging fire of need

Please respond and thanks

 

[mustang]

I would advise against the idea of tickling your mother or other family members. Here is an easy way to get your tickle ya-ya's out if you are into tickling female feet. Go to a topless bar in the afternoon when it is not busy. The girls will appraoch you for a dance, but tell them you are into feet. I would offer them $10 for 5-10 minutes of foot tickling. I have never been turned down. For the girls it is easy money and they don't think anything of a foot tickling fetish. They get requests for more bizzarre things than that. For about $50 bucks I can tickle 3-4 girls feet in an afternoon. I will spend this much on clips in a few days. it just takes a little bit of courage, but it beats being frustrated and there are none of the uncomfortable social side effects if you attempt to do this sort of thing in the real world.

 

[bsb15]

well yes, thanks. but what about the other questions?

 

[Leo Tickles1]

1: Probably.
2: You shouldn't need to know that.
3: Get a partner to explore your fetish with. Like a boyfriend or a girlfriend.
4: A 55 year old male never had sex. He decides to ask his mom to touch him sexually. Is that really so disgusting? I'd say that's more sad than disgusting, but many would disagree.

 

[bsb15]

I'm not 55...call me stupid but what's the metaphor there?:huh

 

[likeasong1]

It's phor getting the point across. Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk.

The point is you're an adult (or else you wouldn't be on this site), asking a family member to satiate a sexual craving of sorts. Unless you're one of those stereotypical Southerners, how can you NOT see the problem with that?

 

[Slaver123]

I would advise against the idea of tickling your mother or other family members. Here is an easy way to get your tickle ya-ya's out if you are into tickling female feet. Go to a topless bar in the afternoon when it is not busy. The girls will appraoch you for a dance, but tell them you are into feet. I would offer them $10 for 5-10 minutes of foot tickling. I have never been turned down. For the girls it is easy money and they don't think anything of a foot tickling fetish. They get requests for more bizzarre things than that. For about $50 bucks I can tickle 3-4 girls feet in an afternoon. I will spend this much on clips in a few days. it just takes a little bit of courage, but it beats being frustrated and there are none of the uncomfortable social side effects if you attempt to do this sort of thing in the real world.

WOW... is it really that easy? I'm not being sarcastic- I have ZERO experience at such places, and strippers (sorry-'dancers') usually don't interest me but this sounds idyllic!

 

[stroker]

1. Nobody knows as the nature v nurture question is almost impossible to resolve
2. Only she can possibly know that unless she decides to make it public, which is not likely
3.look up Bdsm clubs as they are often the umbrella groups which cover a broad range of minority fetishes
4 I would strongly suggest that you keep your family out of this .The chance is that they will never understand and you could end up doing a lot of damage to your relationships with them

 

[mustang]

slaver123, I have had many experiences of tickling girl's feet at topless bars. I have never been turned down. It is a veritable foot ticklers smorgasbord. You just have to do it with confidence like it is the most natural thing in the world. You would be surprised at how many of the girls have had experience with foot fetishists and most of the others find it interesting and ask questions about it. For instance, I told one beautiful blonde about my foot thing and she asked me what type of feet I like. I gave her a general description and she took off her shoes, put her bare feet in my lap and asked me how I liked hers. Her feet were drop dead gorgeous...very high arches and perfect toes. I immediately began tickling up and down her arches and she curled her toes back nicely for me. She was very interested, especially when I told her that it was a sexual turn-on for me. She let me tickle her feet and suck on her toes for about half an hour and didn't ask for money, but of course I paid her anyway. She even came back for another session. She probably wouldn't have been so accomodating if the place was busy, but it wasn't. That is why I said to go in the afternoon. The girls are usually sitting around waiting for business to pick up. I could tell lots of stories like this. Some are even hotter.

 

[Slaver123]

I thought they had a strict "hands-off" rule

 

[hiram]

dgk15 asked:

So again, those questions:
1. can a tickle fetish be inherited by genes
2. does my mom have a fetish
3. How do i satisfy my fetish needs
4. Is it really so disgusting to approach family and tell them of my fetish in order to relieve my needs? I mean if you don't have a fetish, tickling could seem like a mother-son bonding experience...for me it would just be satisfing a raging fire of need

1. I suspect it is inherited.

2. Hard to tell. Many people do such that those around them all the time don't know. My wife is the only one hereabouts who knows I have a tickle fetish.

I'm pretty sure both of my parents did. I didn't know in those days that there was such a thing. My dad used to tickle my mom...ALL THE TIME...and her defense just made it worse. Every couple of minutes he would let her try to catch her breath. For about thirty seconds she would warn him...really warn him saying, "You'll be sorry! You'll be sorry! I mean it! You'll be sorry!" The last "Sorry" always became "Sorree...hee...hee...hee." Then he made her laugh so hard she couldn't talk until he finally stopped for a few seconds again.

The next day her kids often asked her, "Did Dad tickle you last night?" When we did she would get so red in the face. Then she would have this really embarrassed smile. Still she would kind of say, "Yes he did!" It occurred to me when I was about 40 that if someone says, "Tickle," my tongue gets all tied in knots. I'm sure, thinking back, that's the way my mom was. She could barely talk about it at those times.

3. People with a tickle fetish need a boy friend or a girl friend that can possibly become a husband or a wife or something along those lines.

4. This is a tough one. Since mine is an intense fetish I could never engage in it with my kids after they became nine or ten years old. Up until then it was just a game. Extended family? When I was a teen two or three times my cousin-in-law encouraged my brothers and me to hold down his wife, my cousin, and tickle her half to death. She begged HIM to make us stop.

As an adult I tickled my mother-in-law a few times when I was first married. Otherwise, this franchise is all about wife-tickling times about a thousand. My wife's primary defenses are, "No fair!" or "I can't breathe!" Tickling is way too fun for a husband to let his wife's defenses work. Whatever she tries should just make him tickle with greater enthusiasm and taunt her without mercy.

Anyway, that's my theory.

 

[Slaver123]

dgk15 asked:

So again, those questions:
1. can a tickle fetish be inherited by genes
2. does my mom have a fetish
3. How do i satisfy my fetish needs
4. Is it really so disgusting to approach family and tell them of my fetish in order to relieve my needs? I mean if you don't have a fetish, tickling could seem like a mother-son bonding experience...for me it would just be satisfing a raging fire of need

4. This is a tough one. Since mine is an intense fetish I could never engage in it with my kids after they became nine or ten years old. Up until then it was just a game. Extended family? When I was a teen two or three times my cousin-in-law encouraged my brothers and me to hold down his wife, my cousin, and tickle her half to death. She begged HIM to make us stop.

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I have a raging tickle fetish too, but I don't have a problem with tickling kids- it's a completely different thing to me, it just doesn't awaken the fetish at all. But for some people the line gets blurred and they shouldn't do it.

As far as approaching your Mom to satisfy your fetish- that's dangerous ground. You don't want any wires getting crossed where you start getting turned-on by a relative (or a minor)

Tickling is a blurry area; it's sexual to some people (duh) and totally non-sexual to others. For example (to muddy the waters even more) a co-worker says she has a "tickle-fetish" cause she tickles her kids a lot- I don't think she knows what the term really means or she wouldn't say it that way.

If you're young you'll probably find someone on this site to indulge your fetish with. (You're lucky; I'm over-40 now so no one's interested in me anymore) :-(